I did say "average testosterone levels", ie taken over a long period of time so as to account for fluctuations. And scoring is already used in athletics, look at the heptathelon. Its won not by the person who runs the (posted to When will men be treated like women?)
I think I would explain it by saying that calling it a "rape fantasy" isn't really accurate. It's about consenting to (an imagined) act where another person has the "power". And it is a giving of power (from fantasist to (posted to Making sense of rape fantasies)
"this can not possibly be meaningful when the gender of a person isn't straight-forward." This phrase I used was clumsy I admit, and i'd change it if I could. I meant "... straight-forwardly defined from the cis-only perspective (or not (posted to Being Transgender is Dishonest)
I think you are missing my point about sexual orientation. I was making a distinction between a natural sexual attraction, and the fact that for an individual identifying as a sexual orientation is a choice from the limited range of (posted to Being Transgender is Dishonest)
Firstly, my OP doesn't say anywhere that sexual attraction is a choice (in fact I explicitly say the exact opposite). I'm making no presumptions about who you are attracted to and I'm not saying that it is invalid to describe (posted to Being Transgender is Dishonest)
Thanks for that link. Having just finished reading all the comments from that post I'm now even more confused. :) Just kidding, thanks a lot. That was extremely helpful. (posted to Making sense of rape fantasies)
I had a lover who had that exact fantasy, but he didn't even bring it up until I mentioned mine (as the submissive in the fantasy). He didn't bring it up, so I don't know exactly what the best way (posted to Making sense of rape fantasies)
if sexual orientation is super fluid for every single person and one can simply choose which sex or gender they are most attracted to based on the day or weather or person This is a complete mischaracterization of what the (posted to Being Transgender is Dishonest)
I am having a few problems with this whole debate if I am being honest. I was raised to believe that if something or someone causes no harm then there is no moral issue, there is nothing to hate. A (posted to Being Transgender is Dishonest)
