In your post you write that tickling used to be an "instance in which the power dynamics were desperately out of balance, and yet the result was pure unadulterated joy for both of us." It sounds like the power dynamics (posted to A Quick Personal Take on the Dynamics of Tickling)
I can really relate to your post. I easily pass as heterosexual and am not always very happy about it. Sometimes I want to scream out that I am not straight! You say that your "fondness of men and centerfold-resembling (posted to Putting the "I" in "Bisexual")
But that's still putting people in boxes, that's just giving people more boxes to choose from. I think for some people, their sexuality shifts over their life. I think for some people, romance and sexuality cannot be separated as easily (posted to Putting the "I" in "Bisexual")
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU. Your post has brought tears to my eyes. It perfectly embodies how I have felt for years, whether it's politically or feminist-ly correct or not... Except I've yet to capture my own bisexuality as (posted to Putting the "I" in "Bisexual")
I came across this a lot when I was in high school, when I first came out as bisexual. My parents said "You have to pick one or the other!" as well as "Are you over thinking you're gay yet?" (posted to Putting the "I" in "Bisexual")
I understand what a lot of people are saying I mean I'm bisexual but don't find a problem identifying that way never have never probably will. I'd like to give a bit of advise to people, it's not who you (posted to Putting the "I" in "Bisexual")