Hey, thanks all of you for your support. That post didn't upset me so much as it angered me. And I worried about more vulnerable survivors, who would be triggered. (posted to Recovered Memories - Really Not That Controversial Anymore)
Wow. I had a really complicated reaction to this. Yes, basically, I agree that she shouldn't feel like a 'bad feminist' because she's submissive. She did a great job of arguing that. Kudos on the honesty and self-confidence to write (posted to Quick Hit: Quite Literally - Spanking and Feminist Identity )
Oh man. I love you, Jessica, but this is so tone deaf. There's so much pressure on women (and men, I'm sure) to deliver sexually. And by creating another recommendation that everyone has to live up to, you're just adding (posted to Why everyone should have pre-marital sex )
I don't judge anyone's choice to wait or not. Up to them. But, one point nobody's made, is that having sex is a good barometer of the other things too. A lot of very nasty, selfish men (and women) are (posted to Why everyone should have pre-marital sex )
Well, yeah, but you're proving my point. I respect everyone I'd had sex with as well, but it had nothing to do with the sex. Just in general, I respect other people's humanity. Of course my respect for my husband (posted to Why everyone should have pre-marital sex )
Actually, I've heard stories about a number of conservative couples who chose to wait for sex until marriage. A lot didn't have sex on their wedding night. Some didn't have sex on their honeymoon. Some didn't even have sex for (posted to Why everyone should have pre-marital sex )
I think the point of the article is that you can't just jump into a marriage and hope the sex works out. Discussing the fact that neither of you are very sexual needs to happen. I would argue that you (posted to Why everyone should have pre-marital sex )
I'm under no illusions that the first sex I have will be the best sex of my life. Maybe others are. However, if I'm bound to have such a traumatic and painful experience as you imply sometime in my life, (posted to Why everyone should have pre-marital sex )
