There are the few occasions where the 3rd party doesnt know that they are sleeping with someone in a relationship. I dont condone cheating at all, but its not fair for only the woman to be blamed. I totally agree (posted to Homewrecker: Who to blame.)
Also, the Brad Pitt/Angelina Jolie/Jennifer Aniston triangle. Aniston was accused of causing Pitt to stray by, allegedly, not being loving enough and being unwilling to give Pitt children when he obviously wanted them. Jolie was called an awful whore of (posted to Homewrecker: Who to blame.)
That is not the commonly-used form of the word, try as some may to make it out to be. It'd be like claiming the words "gold-digger," "slut," and "whore" are applied to men, as well as women. Someone somewhere may (posted to Homewrecker: Who to blame.)
Sounds to me like you are reading that into the comments. If it's an agreed-upon open relationship, then neither person is cheating, are they? Hence, this discussion doesn't apply to them. (posted to Homewrecker: Who to blame.)
I believe it depends on the details of the situation. First of all, in many cases, the cheater (because it can be either gender) is dishonest about being in a relationship. Second, even if the cheater admits to having a (posted to Homewrecker: Who to blame.)
They'd only be worse if it seemed like the coupled person was trying to be faithful to their partner and trying to tell the initiator to stop making it so difficult for them, and the initiator kept pursuing them anyway. (posted to Homewrecker: Who to blame.)
