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• I often wonder if they can do some sort of statistical analysis. If they have people able to come in and tell them about drink spiking wihtout hassle (and preferably with them offering some counselling if people want it) they
  (posted to Drink Spiking)
• thank you ElanaFulana, I completely agree. Although i think it'd be great it trans people were in relationships where they felt safe and comfortable telling their partners about that aspect of their lives there is no reason they have to
  (posted to Having Sex While Stealth is Not Sexual Assault)
• oooh, who does ones in more than two sizes? i've never seen it. the lack of sizes was one thing that made me hesitate in buying them, as i bleed very lightly and have a rather tight vagina. The small
  (posted to An ode to the menstrual cup)
• I'm curious: about how much would an abortion cost? (I'm guessing somewhere between 500-1000 and that sure would have been hard/impossible to come up with at points in my life) If this makes it through (grrrr) since a medical abortion
  (posted to Whose health care victory?)
• (if you want them) *hugs*. you're definately not alone. When i was trying to explore my sexual self more one thing i found that was really holding me back was performance anxiety. I found it helped not to think of
  (posted to Inner and outer sexual conflict)

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• It's nothing to get too worried about. I, in particular, love to masturbate and I do all the time. But, there are definately periods where I either just can't get into it, or after awhile of trying to get to (posted to Inner and outer sexual conflict)
• Take the pressure off of yourself to have an orgasm. Don't think of it as an end goal, think of it as a bonus. Start with the basics- ask yourself what makes your body feel good and where your fantasies (posted to Inner and outer sexual conflict)
• There's no way to know if this is exactly appropriate for you just based on your one post, but I wanted to throw this out as a resource on asexuality: http://www.asexuality.org/home/ Again, there's no way for me to know if (posted to Inner and outer sexual conflict)
• Um, I have the "stimulation is so full of sensation that it hurts" sometimes too but it is NOT a matter of being afraid of that stimulation at all. It is that it is actually painful. Sometimes, its because I'm (posted to Inner and outer sexual conflict)
• I had an experience like that too, except instead of still loving the guy, I found that having sex with him had made me feel too "dirty" (he was addicted to porn and expected sex to be like that...). I (posted to Inner and outer sexual conflict)

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