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• I will be honest here and say that this does not sit comfortably with me; even if I realize intellectually that it is your informed decision, that you know what you're doing and are an adult capable of deciding this
  (posted to Ask Professor Foxy: Can Feminism and Romance Mix?)
• This isn't just a case of different values. It's not as if he's a Democrat and she's a Republican and he doesn't feel comfortable marrying someone with different viewpoints. This is a case of coercion, or attempted coercion. He's not
  (posted to Last Name Ultimatum)
• I agree. It goes both ways: some people will look down on you for being undesirable/a prude if you hook up with what they consider not enough people; others will deride you for being a slut/easy/promiscuous if you've hooked up
  (posted to Why Stay A Virgin?)
• Thing is, though, he's trying to control her behavior. Not only that, but he expects her to change herself for him. Let's take this a bit farther. Would it be okay for a person to tell his fiance to lose
  (posted to Last Name Ultimatum)
• True. Perhaps "coercion" is the wrong word. Can we use "dickery"? For example, say person A tells person B that they'll only have sex with them if they change their appearance in some way (lose weight, etc.). Is person B
  (posted to Last Name Ultimatum)

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• I have explained it as clearly as I can. (posted to Last Name Ultimatum)
• Thanks Phenicks, you wrote exactly what was on my mind. My first time was special, very special, and in many ways it set the template for what sex could be like for me. I waited until I was 22 and (posted to Why Stay A Virgin?)
• My question is....if that's the list of things that upset her....why on earth did she ever think she was a feminist to begin with? Thought process: "Lets see here- I don't agree with transexuals. I don't agree with homosexuals. I (posted to Why Stay A Virgin?)
• I didn't say rape- I said rights to another person's body. That's very general. You've bene saying- repeatedly that he has no right to break off the engagement "just becasue she wont change her last name" but its a legal (posted to Last Name Ultimatum)
• What's the issue? I found this post to be very much akin to the "Unpacking the Knapsack of Privilege" posts. Kinksters are constantly having these kinds of questions put to them with nary a second thought. It's annoying, condescending and (posted to We've Examined. Now It's Your Turn.)

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