I'm the OP. I am exercising an alternative option by starting this discussion. Creigh Deeds want's me to hire him for governor? Well than I'm going to hold him accountable to the platforms he claims to run on. Pro-choice isn't (posted to Marginalized By Our "Allies")
Revelations like yours are very important to pro-choice activism. Most women having abortions do so because they do not want to have a child. Period. The "noble" reasons people come up with to justify the procedure are only there to (posted to Shaking up my paradigm: what does Choice really mean?)
I like how you applied real word legal interpretation to your hypothetical land. Seems like someone is making up their own self-serving rules as they go along... sure you're not the.past.of.conservatism.? (posted to Shaking up my paradigm: what does Choice really mean?)
It's nothing to get too worried about. I, in particular, love to masturbate and I do all the time. But, there are definately periods where I either just can't get into it, or after awhile of trying to get to (posted to Inner and outer sexual conflict)
Take the pressure off of yourself to have an orgasm. Don't think of it as an end goal, think of it as a bonus. Start with the basics- ask yourself what makes your body feel good and where your fantasies (posted to Inner and outer sexual conflict)
There's no way to know if this is exactly appropriate for you just based on your one post, but I wanted to throw this out as a resource on asexuality: http://www.asexuality.org/home/ Again, there's no way for me to know if (posted to Inner and outer sexual conflict)
Um, I have the "stimulation is so full of sensation that it hurts" sometimes too but it is NOT a matter of being afraid of that stimulation at all. It is that it is actually painful. Sometimes, its because I'm (posted to Inner and outer sexual conflict)
I had an experience like that too, except instead of still loving the guy, I found that having sex with him had made me feel too "dirty" (he was addicted to porn and expected sex to be like that...). I (posted to Inner and outer sexual conflict)
