I understand how you feel. I have those same fears and doubts sometimes too. Personally I would advise you to continue to get to know this guy, even just as a friend. See how he acts around his friends and (posted to Relating to Boys)
I agree completely, rhowan -- a lot of misogyny and (dare i say it?) misandry comes from a fear of the power dynamic that is implicit in liking someone who may or may not reject you. I afraid that for (posted to Relating to Boys)
Anyway, I'm just frustrated by how me and this guy obviously like each other/are attracted but we both seem to have walls up. [...] I feel like I keep looking for clues that he definitely without a doubt likes me, (posted to Relating to Boys)
That is a great point about mutual attraction not being obvious. Often, people see what they want to see especially in the beginning... (posted to Relating to Boys)
thank you Transcend! That was a very thoughtful comment. =) And illustrates very well my situation and how I feel about it... (posted to Relating to Boys)
I can totally relate to the way you feel about it. I've had similar experiences with two guys earlier. This one guy who lived on my floor in my dorm last year, although I'm not the best at reading signs, (posted to Relating to Boys)
