Great post! Maybe a part of the negative feedback you got was because you framed apologizing as part of an interaction, which absolutely occurs. However people don't like to think that they are players in the heirarchy: men don't want (posted to Dear Community Bloggers: Stop Apologizing)
I agree that men and women are not the only players within the hierarchy, and I don't believe I insinuated so with my comment or my post. I wasn't trying to condemn anyone with an anxiety disorder with my post. (posted to Dear Community Bloggers: Stop Apologizing)
1.) Address poverty, which overwhelmingly affects women of color. 2.) Address women's health issues. 3.) Talk to men about rape and sexual violence, because THEY are the ones who need to change. 4.) Um, start fully enforcing Title IX. 5.) (posted to Wish List for the White House Council on Women and Girls)
Hi all, There are some pretty nasty comments going up on the article about Roxanne Shante. People are calling the story a myth and claiming that Shante does not have a PhD from Cornell, even though she is listed as (posted to What We Missed)
I agree that facials in porn are often shown in a degrading light. But for those that think facials in the privacy of our own bedrooms are degrading I'd have to say that their view of sexuality is curved by (posted to What We Missed)
You implied that the action described by Spike The Cat was unpleasant, or an image that grossed you out! You don't have to be into it... but there's no need to put it down. (posted to What We Missed)
I don't care what other people do in their own homes. People can see facials as degrading and get off on that and people can see them as not degrading and get off on that. I do think that facials (posted to What We Missed)
You have a right to feel that for yourself but you don't have the right to tell others how they feel. I do have a question though, is riding the face of your man degrading to him? Would it be (posted to What We Missed)
I don't see where I told others what they should feel. Please point this out to me. I have never put my vulva all over the face of one of my partners, but i can totally see why it would (posted to What We Missed)
