The French government is in talks about potentially banning the burqa.
Jon Stewart and Mike Huckabee talk abortion. (h/t to community poster Irre!)
Random feel-good story of the day: Great grandmothers 86-year-old Emma Dausman and 69-year-old Judy Conner become Chicago state bowling champions.
Shakes takes on how folks are using Senator Boxer asking to be called "Senator" as opposed to "ma'am" as a juicy opportunity to talk about what an "uppity bitch" she and the rest of those damn liberal women are.
Check out this ridiculous UK Mail Online piece on the 'epidemic of pregnancy' among women older than 30 and how those who become mothers in their 30s are 'defying nature.' Yes, really.
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The French government really needs to stop dressing up their Islamophobia as "concern" for Muslim women. Believe it or not, mes amis, some Muslim women really do choose to wear a burqa or niqab, and it's none of your damned business, comprenez?
It's true. I knew someone who didn't choose to wear a headscarf but she got used to it and I do believe it was her decision to go from a headscarf to a burqa. People might want to say that wasn't a free choice but hey, I didn't really have the freedom to choose whether to wear a bra. Now that I'm out of adolescence I feel like I could choose not to wear one at times but I'm just so used to that it would feel weird to change.
And I'm wary of slippery slope arguments but I do wonder, if a country bans the burqa, what's next?
What do you mean by Islamophobie ? Islam is anti woman and anti feminism.
Islam is a RELIGION. What about Judaism, in which one of the prayers include the men saying, "And I thank you God, for not making me a woman", or the general thought in Christianity that women belong in the home, or even the extreme branch of Mormons, in which polygamy and forcing the women to stay in the home are the foundations of their faith?
You sound like you would be willing to do away with any religious practices that don't match YOUR frame of mind.
I am a proud feminist, but taking a tradition that is hundreds of years old from people and making it illegal is just as bad as forcing women to comply to it.
We have seperation of church and state for a reason...
...Yeah, except not. Islam as a religion is not inherently sexist; the problem lies in those who perpetuate sexism and patriarchy under the guise of their religion - and that happens all the time, not just with Islam. There are many Islamic feminists in the world, just like there are Christian feminists, Jewish feminists, atheist/agnostic feminists, Buddhist feminists, Ba'hai feminists...need I go on?
I'm in Florida, and it was 94 degrees today. If someone had walked by me on the street wearing a burqa, I would definitely be concerned. Does that make me Islamaphobic?
Actually, in hot sunny weather a burka over a bathing suit or underwear would be kinda nice. Go into all the facilities you want without being banned for exposure, protection from the sun on the street without greasy sunscreen...
Heh, yeah, my grand-pa cannot understand why people wear shorts and and t-shirts which let the sun shine directly onto the skin. So I guess it depends what kind of material the burqa is made of. Seems like air might be able to get to the skin better than with some of the tight clothes we wear.
If the burquas are in fact made of light material, that would be fine. But they look quite heavy to me. And what's worse is that they're black, and black attracts heat. In desert countries you see ALL of the people, including men covering themselves with garments to protect themselves, but the mens' garments are usually white, while the womens' are black?! What is up with that? Maybe someone can explain that? Why does a woman always have to be dressed as if she's in constant mourning? And to cover her face as well? That IS extreme. Wearing all black like that under the sun and having no exposure is constricting, and outright dangerous. One can have a heat stroke. I'm not talking about the rich women who don't have to spend much time outside, and have chouffers to drive them around, I'm talking about the average woman who might have work to do outside, and lots of errands to run.
I'm not sure about other countries but in Afghanistan blue is the most common colour, not black, there are countries where black is the most common colour but I'm not sure how hot it gets as it is made from thin material, and also its not a religious requirement, since it goes by region there's probably several reason why black.
Desert countries? Are you talking about Mexico or Australia?
No. Arabia, Yemen, etc. Where they do cover themselves in all black. These countries are mostly desert, and have extreme temperatures.
The prophet said that women above the age of puberty should not wear anything sheer. Making a garment black further improves its opacity so one cannot see the garments underneath.
Look at how people in hot sunny countries actually dress. What the men wear is not very far off from a Burka.
That makes sense, probably because desert air is much drier. In FL we have so much humidity that people in long garments are in danger of sweating buckets and getting heat stroke.
In Montreal, I've seen a man leading a woman in a burqa on a leash. It offends my sensibilities. If I'm in favor of outlawing such practices in the streets of my city, am I Islamaphobic, too? I would never go to a Muslim country that frowns upon it and walk around in a mini-skirt and a huge cleavage out of respect for people's feelings. Why shouldn't my sensibilities be respected at least in some places?
I think the problem here is that this is not happening in a Muslim country where there is no choice.
You can't empower women and limit their choices at the same time. S, if a woman wants to wear a burqa she should be able to.
Obviously, in Muslim countries she is forced into such a predicament and she simply cannot get out. In France, I don't think it is the same.
Even if you assume that the burqa (is this word supposed to be capitalized btw) is a symbol of oppression, the idea of banning it seems to me just double oppression.
"Not only is your husband disrespectful of your body, but the state is disrespectful of your religion."
I'm no expert on Muslim religions or women in them, but I think the French government is on dangerous ground.
You should be able to walk around in a mini skirt and a belly-baring top anywhere on the planet if you want to. That isn't the case right now, but the fact that people let their sensibilities or religion limit the personal freedom of others even when that personal freedom has nothing to do with them does not mean it's right.
Your sensibilities are not automatically meaningful or reasonable. They don't need to be respected by anyone as long as flouting them isn't affecting you or your life in a more concrete way than "It annoys me to see other people living lives in a way I would not."
I don't see how the leash is relevant when discussing a ban on the burqa or niqab. I've seen women led around on leashes and none of them were in hijab, niqab, or burka.
Also, you may not wear a mini skirt in a country where it was considered inappropriate but you should have every right too. Not to mention many of these women are citizens or lont-time residents. The French governmetn should respect them and not try to take away their right to dress themselves as they please.
You don't have a right to have your sensebilities respected especially when they infringe upon someone else's actual right to control of their body. I don't think it necessarily makes you an Islamophobe (though considering the number of people who wear and are led on leashes and your apparent attempt to tie that one incident to the burqa is suspect), but it does show that you ahve no respect to people's right to control of their on bodies.
Even if the burqa is imposed in SOME cases, taking away people's right to wear one is not the remedy. It's a different side of the same coin. Women's bodies as public v. Private property.
yes it odes kinda make you sound islamaphobic but more importantly makes you sound fucking ignorant. i have never heard or seen any muslim woman being pulled around on a leash in public and just because you've seen this on one woman does not mean its somthing we all do and believe. you should perhaps research things before you decide to pass judgement on them.
Is there any reason to believe that the woman you saw is not Canadian? Are her sensibilities worth less than yours?
Also, the way the French government is talking is very broad and totalitarian/1984/ Brave New Worldish.
They are thinking about banning all long gowns and outfits that completely cover a woman? WTH? That is just scary. In other words women should be told how to dress by the government and the government has the right to dictate to women that they show a certain amount of skin and/or reveal their shape. That is BS.
I have to completely agree with you here. Banning women from covering themselves is going to the other extreme, and it is still, in every way, dictating how women should dress, and every bit as sexist as forcing them to cover up. It is still objectifying a woman's body. In one case, the government is saying "No one else has the right to look at my property" and in the other case it is saying "Your body is our property, and we have the right to see it at all times." Both are extreme bullshit! I should have the right to wear what is comfortable for me, whatever that is, plain and simple! Why is that so complicated?
In many European countries the Burka is already banned because you must be recognizable in public.
Which countries have imposed a general public ban on Burqas?
In my knowledge (in a hurry right now so haven't checked), Australia (I know we're not European) bans the wearing of burqas in ID photos for that reason.
(A hijab is fine, and I have not heard of cases where women wearing burqas are barred from banks, even though motorcycle helmets must be removed. Double standard? Perhaps. It's a tricky issue.)
Back. Checked the facts: Australian passport photos allow religious headcovering but the face must be visible. I couldn't find my state's requirements for driver's licence photos.
This debate also re-appeared early this year and is not restricted to Western countries.
Turkey, a Muslim country, had a BAN ON BURQAS until this new administration, and the MUSLIM TURKISH public is OUTRAGED because they have already figured out how oppressive it is to women.
Ironic, right?
Turkey is not really a Muslim country, though. While the vast majority of the population is Muslim, the state itself is officially secular. In fact, in some respects, the Turkish secular ideology seems to be more important to the population than their religion. (I think similar things happened to Christianity in western Europe.)
There is not a general ban on burkas, but a general ban on rendering yourself irecognizable. I guess Germany is one of them. You can not run around in a skimask for example. But I guess there are exceptions for carnival costumes and the like.
So Veils, yes, Burkas no.
I've definitely seen women wearing niqabs in Germany. Maybe burqas, too, I'm not sure right now, I seldom look close enough to see the difference.
Of course there's been debates, also about hijabs (although they can be seen pretty frequently, I don't think they even raise eyebrows anymore these days)... a quick googling yields few results. Apparantly, you are not allowed to drive a car wearing a burqa, for safety reasons. A two years old article about someone's suggestion to ban burqas in courtrooms. And there was a politician's plan to ban burqas at schools. It turned out that the two students who caused this debate were actually wearing niqabs, but that word is not as well known as "burqa". That's the thing, in my opinion, a general lack of actual knowledge about this religion, and a disinterest in learning such basic differences.
I know the Netherlands discussed a ban a few years ago but I believe they ultimately decided against it. As far as I know some towns/regions in Belgium do have public bans. But beyond that I had thought all other restrictions were related to employment in certain government positions (teachers, judges, etc.), airport security, and things like driver's licenses. A quick google gives me nothing but links to the debate in the Netherlands and the current issue in France.
So which countries in Europe have flat out bans? It seems it's at the very least disingenuous to say that "many" do but I would like to find out which countries have actual legislation banning the Burqa in public.
You know, there is plenty of room for debate about the role the burqa and other Islamic practices have in the oppression of female practitioners. Let me make it clear, I hardly see the burqa as a shining of beacon of women's freedom.
However, the idea of "liberating" women by legally denying them the right to something they likely see as an important religious observance in a country where they do so by choice is completely backwards. Particularly when that country has very serious problems with xenophobia and racism towards Muslim immigrants. Threatening religious practices has a tendency to create a backlash which results in even more strict, orthodox forms.
If the concern is that some women within Islamic enclaves don't really have a choice because of pressure from the community and family, then why not use the resources that will go towards pushing and enforcing this ban to form organizations that can help women who want out. And really, if the community or men in the family are exerting that sort of control on the women then there are a lot of other concerns that need to be addressed long before attire. In fact, in extreme cases where a woman is experiencing that kind of pressure, banning the burqa could severely limit what freedoms she has.
I agree, and just want to add there's nothing wrong with stopping and asking the woman in a burqa if she is okay, or if she needs help.
Well, if you're a man, and not related to her, and any of her friends or relatives see you talking to her, you've just signed her death warrant.
B.,
I agree with you (for once).
At the top ("...some Muslim women really do..."): probably, but the point the French Government is making is that *some* women really do not, and the Gov. is saying that the law should enforce *their* choice to be burqa-free.
There is another point. France does not allow any 'distinctive religious signs' in governemnt premises. For example, a teacher is not allowed to wear a cross. A burqa, or even a scarf, is considered a religious symbol, and should therefore not be worn in school. France has had quite a few problems with that in the past.
Actually, I think that is wrong and intrusive of you if she shows no other indications that she needs help.
I actually think there's all sorts of things wrong with it. What you're doing when you do that is assuming that all women who wear burqas are victims of some sort of violation to their rights/bodies/lives. That type of assumption is really denigrating and Islamophobic. Most women outside of the Sharia-bound nations wear the burqa out of choice. To assume she's under duress because of only her clothing -- and therefor expression of her religion -- is really, really judgmental.
I'm actually a little bothered by Senator Boxer's comment. I don't think she handled herself very well. On the other hand, I feel as if the General handled himself very well and did a good job of being respectful.
My whole opinion would have been different if she had said "General, could you please call me Senator..." Then, I would take no issue at all with it. She has every right to be asked to be called Senator, but she could show the same respect back to General Walsh. I don't know how difficult it is to get to be a Senator, but I know it's no cakewalk getting to be a General either.
Also, in the army you are trained to call everyone Ma'am and Sir, right up to the President of the United States. He certainly meant no disrespect to her, though she seemed to be quite disrespectful to him.
I think she owes General Walsh an apology.
I agree. She didn't have to be so agressive about it. It seemed like she was just trying to be the "alpha-dog" more than anything else.
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I didn't think the article about pregnancy past age 35 was at all offensive or un-feminist. Within the context of the piece, the comment on an "epidemic of pregnancy" in that age group of women was a perfectly sensible remark. The focus of the article was on the ways in which the health of both the woman and the baby can be harmed when "older" women give birth. This is, quite simply, a true scientific statement. It is NOT an anti-woman statement by any means. The article argues that the ideal childbearing age is between 20 and 35. Yes, this may not fit into the aspiring professional woman's perfect vision of success, but it is a biological fact. The doctors quoted in the article make perfectly clear that they do not want to hinder a woman's choice to bear children at whatever age she choses. They simply want to let women know that they and their baby have a much lower risk of complications when they give birth in that 20-35 age range.
I truly don't mean any offense by this, but one thing that really frustrates me in the feminist community (of which I am a proud member myself), is when certain facts get distorted to be seen as anti-feminist, when in reality they are just that: facts. This "childbearing age" is one prime example of it. The other big example is when feminists argue against the anti-choice claim that women who have abortions become depressed and regret their decision. Obviously not all women who have an abortion will suffer from depression as a result, but it cannot be denied that some women will indeed be depressed after terminating a pregnancy. Of course, this is not a reason to dissuade women from choosing an abortion. But, it is a reason to fight for more pro-woman policies and laws that help women afford post-abortion counseling if necessary.
And in relation to this UK article on childbearing age, it would be anti-feminist to force or try to persuade women to have children before 35. However, it is very pro-feminism/pro-woman to give women the facts about the risks of bearing children when they are older than 35. This is providing them with some important health information, that has been largely ignored in our society. If more women knew about the risks of later-age childbearing, more women would be having children earlier. This does not mean that they would have to sacrifice their career to do so. Therefore, I think the feminist community loses a lot of credibility when it tries to make arguments against certain biological, women's health, or mental health issues. It goes against the very meaning of feminism.
Sorry if this post was long and rambling, but I hope you will understand the point I'm trying to make. Just to make very clear, I am a proud feminist, always have been, always will be. But facts are facts. And when it comes to women's health, the facts should not be ignored or misconstrued.
AGREED. With everything from autism to Down's to prematurity to maternal health concerns linked to older parents, I think it's reasonable to point out that without modern medical advances, we wouldn't be having children in our forties (we would not live that long), so yes, it is technically unnatural to have children so late-- and both the mother and the child pays for it. While a woman who thinks ahead can spare her child (and herself) the suffering associated with horrible illnesses by undergoing the painful and dangerous egg-collection process and freezing them, she then still risks a pregnancy with much higher risks of complications.
And yet, the world is oddly silent on this extreme new risk to women's health; we spend millions of dollars campaigning to stop teen pregnancy yet do not provide women with the essential information that they are putting their health in danger and risking a child with severe disabilities by waiting to have children. While one end of the spectrum hurts teens emotionally, socially, and financially if they carry the child to term, the other end of the spectrum causes death, permanent disability, and emotional anguish.
It's not some moral imposition on women to tell them that they are putting themselves and their future children in danger by waiting. They deserve informed consent before they make that decision; otherwise a woman reaches 40 and thinks that as long as she gets an amnio and eats right, her child will be fine, only to get blindsided with the doctors explaining the extremely elevated risks she and her child will have to face. Denying women this information is denying them the ability to make informed decisions about their healthcare and family planning choices.
I totally agree. The article did put quotation marks around "epidemic of pregnancy" and "defying nature" (both of which I find offensive), which seems to suggest that they were direct quotes from a more offensively-worded source. Otherwise I find the tone fairly objective.
Louise Silverton's quotes in the article sum up this article's intention nicely, in my opinion.
'Pregnancy complications can be more common in older women. [...] Despite this, we support a woman's decision to chose when to embark upon a pregnancy. [...] The key issue is that they should receive sound information about the risks of giving birth later in life.'
Would we ask doctors to withhold information on the possible side effects of the contraceptive pill on the grounds that it could discourage women from taking them? Of course not!
"...I think it's reasonable to point out that without modern medical advances, we wouldn't be having children in our forties (we would not live that long)..."
Without modern medical advances, some of out counterparts in the past didn't live that long - they died earlier of childbirth complications in adulthood and/or adolescence, died of warfare or disease or accidents, and enough died in infancy or early childhood to make their communities' average lifespans far younger than survivors in their communities reached old age.
Meanwhile, some of our other counterparts in the past did make it to their forties, stayed fertile and stayed sexually active, and got pregnant. The difference is that a woman who was both 40 years old and pregnant in the year 1300 was probably not having her 1st pregnancy.
It's more likely that she first got pregnant in her teens or twenties, had given birth and/or aborted (including spontaneous abortion a.k.a. miscarriage) several if not many times since then.
"And yet, the world is oddly silent on this extreme new risk to women's health...they are putting their health in danger and risking a child with severe disabilities by waiting to have children."
What new risk? Waiting until one's 40s to get pregnant is new. Being pregnant in one's 40s probably have happened ever
since our species first evolved. Those health risks apply no matter if the pregnant 40-year-old waited to have children and is now expecting her 1st baby or if she did not wait to have children, started getting in her 20s or even younger, and is now expecting her 3rd or 8th or 14th or 20th baby.
Some men use intimidation and fear to force their wives under the burqa.
Not all middle eastern women - even living in the West - are still not severely oppressed in the home and afraid of their husbands of fathers.
I hope they ban it. It is meant to be nothing but a marker of their virtue and, therefore, their worth. The reason behind the burqa is only by extension "religious" - Islam defines the value of women in terms of how many of them "equal" men in judicial affairs, inheritance affairs, etc. The burqa is meant to to externalize that "value".
edit: It is an oppressive piece of clothing by nature - and those who use it to oppress women, use our "cultural sensitivities" in the West in order to perpetuate its use by claiming it is their "religious right."
If there is a single woman living under a burqa against her will, we'll never know - they are too afraid to say otherwise. That one woman is worth the rest of them having to take it off.
Forgive me, I am from the Middle East and this issue is always infuriating to me.
You seem to suggest that if a woman is being forced to wear the burqa against her will in France, banning it will liberate her. I see no logic what so ever in that line of reasoning. Do you honestly think someone who is forcing someone into the burqa will let them walk around without it? If that's your argument banning it may very well result in women being forced to stay home completely or only leave in the comapny of a male relative.
Banning the burqa does nothing what so ever to address the oppression of women, and conflating the two as one in the same is problematic.
"That one woman is worth the rest of them having to take it off"
That's just messed up. Taking freedom away from women who chose to is not the answer and never is. The problem is women not being able to make decisions about their body, control of a woman's body isn't benevolent just because it's coming from the state. Being from the Middle East isn't giving you a free pass to be controlling and patronizing as far as I'm concerned. If someone is really concerned with women's rights, banning the burqa is a total cop out and isn't that much different than enforcing it. I seriously doubt anyone can talk about passing laws that impose upon a person's body and then say they care about that person's rights.
What's infuriating to me is excusing people trying to exercise control of a woman's body.
Honestly, I am not really moved by this. Muslims are the newest generation immigrants to the west, and I don't care if it is "unbanned" after a generation which will allow them to assimilate, but right now, ban it.
I think you'd say different if the issue was genital mutilation instead of wearing the burqa - that is done for similar reasons as well. Yes, if one woman is being forced to against her will, then it is worth it to be banned.
The domestic violence issue is another one completely, and should be dealt with like it is dealt with in any other group in the population at large.
Muslims are the newest generation immigrants to the west, and I don't care if it is "unbanned" after a generation which will allow them to assimilate, but right now, ban it.
I really don't understand what the hell you are saying.
I think you'd say different if the issue was genital mutilation instead of wearing the burqa - that is done for similar reasons as well.
Wearing a burqa and having genital surgery are not equivalent. Try wearing a burqa for a day, and then try having an FGC operation, and report back to me on whether you note any crucial differences. Similarity of motive isn't enough to draw a parallel here. One could make the same argument - that a Christian teen, let's say, wearing a ring that says "True Love Waits" is equivalent to a female getting FGC. But that's a stupid argument. It's not the same thing at all.
Incidentally, banning FGC doesn't ensure that it stops - on the contrary, it just ensures it goes underground, without the supervision of doctors and a sterile environment. If you want to stop FGC, the most effective method is education. That said, past the age of 18, any adult woman can get FGC - or any other form of cosmetic surgery, really. We might not approve, but that's the unfortunate result of granting women bodily autonomy...sometimes they may not do things we like. They might wear a burqa. They might get genital surgery. They might wear high heels. Who knows! But it's their right.
Yes, if one woman is being forced to against her will, then it is worth it to be banned.
Like how if my partner forces me to read your comments, your comments should be banned from Feministing? I could cope with that.
If you want to prevent women from being forced to do things they don't want to, the solution is not (shockingly!) to force them not to do those things. The solution is to legislate against force. Not for it.
Mentalities like yours are a great way for oppression to exist behind cultural relativism.
I know what you think - you think I'm saying "Hey, if it's someone's culture, it gets carte blanche!" and I'm not. I don't believe in cultural relativism; I believe that every culture has its own unique ways of fucking over its own, and we should curb that tendency as much as possible.
I do not, however, believe that legislating against the burqa will accomplish that.
I understand that you have a kneejerk reaction when you think someone is excusing human rights violations with that post-modern relativist "I'm okay, you're okay, can't we all be brothers" crap, but do me a favour and don't project that shit onto me.
"Yes, if one woman is being forced to against her will, then it is worth it to be banned."
This is just absolutely fucking silly. What about the MILLIONS of women who DO want to wear a burka???
You would be forcing them not to do it. I'm pretty sure that if you wore a burka every time you went out in public you whole life, would feel very uncomfortable without it. Let women wear what they want. There's other ways to improve Muslim women's rights, much better ways that actually make sense.
I believe another commenter pointed out that banning Muslim women from wearing burkas will not do anything to improve their status.
If the burqa were banned in public and I were an oppressive father/husband, here's what I'd think: "This country hates Muslims. See, they don't even let women go out." Most likely I wouldn't say gee perhaps I should lower my "standards" and let my daughter/wife wear a hijab instead. If a person believes that a good Muslim woman should wear a burqa, and anything less would be a gross violation of his religion, then he won't change his mind just because a Western (="evil") government said so.
Like I care what a chauvinist, oppressive, Muslim man thinks - especially at the expense of a woman's right to be a human being.
I'd also remind them that welcoming immigrants with open arms doesn't mean accepting by force everything the culture deems "appropriate", and hiding behind "religious rights" for Muslims shouldn't work when the "right" is inherently oppressive anymore than Christians are able to (i.e., birth control is "evil" says the Catholic Church).
I could use your advice on something, since you're a Middle Eastern expert - if wearing a burqa denies women their right to be human, what species do they become? Squirrels? Gazelles? Are there any wildlife protections for them?
Also, does that mean a non-human - my cat Ponzi, for example - can acquire the right to human status if he never wears a burqa? Like, could he vote?
Lastly, when did legislation pass barring right-wingers from declaring that birth control is evil? I only ask because if it's set in stone I have many citizen's arrests to make.
And I just have one final question, but it's really important - if the burqa is banned, how much time in jail should a woman who chooses to wear one get? (Or, in lieu of jail, how much should we fine her for tragically oppressing herself?)
B.Atoureta, you totally misunderstood my meaning.
By taking the position of a chauvinistic, oppressive Muslim man, I'm highlighting two problems with this approach:
1. Banning the burqa does not address or resolve the fundamental issue facing the oppressed women--ie. the "religious sensibilities" of their oppressor. It may even have the side effect of further restricting the woman's freedom in a country where they may have more freedom than back in their home countries.
2. Banning the burqa may further alienate Muslim people against Western societies and cultures by seemingly infringing upon their right of religious freedom. I know you want to treat the issue as something simple and binary, but it really is not. To improve the conditions of Muslim women, we need to change the mindset/culture of the men who are oppressing them. I don't have a simple answer for how that could be done (economics and politics are not my areas of expertise), but I know that alienating them with such an abrupt measure is going to backfire.
I wish it could be as simple as "no burqa = free women", but it's not.
I'd like to call your comments out for being fucked up.
Not all middle eastern women - even living in the West - are still not severely oppressed in the home and afraid of their husbands of fathers.
Then why don't we just ban marriage between Muslims? Or prevent Muslim fathers from seeing their daughters? Wouldn't that get right to the root of the issue? You know, those horrible horrible backward Muslims?
Domestic abuse and oppression is a serious fucking issue; banning the burqa will solve it just like banning high heels will cure Western domestic abuse. This unrelenting, unilateral focus on clothing as the primary gender issue facing Muslim women does a grave discredit to the diversity and complexity of their struggles.
It is meant to be nothing but a marker of their virtue and, therefore, their worth.
While we're at it, let's ban corsets, white wedding dresses, nun habits, and any women's clothes that indirectly or directly promulgate the valuation of their sexuality - you know, all of them. Let's create a feminist police force and patrol the streets, forcing women who wear clothes we disapprove of to slap on a "This is What a Feminist Looks Like" t-shirt and bootcut jeans. Can you really not see how forcing women to lose their burqas for "feminist reasons" is no different from forcing homemakers to be career women for "feminist reasons"? If you think the choice to wear a burqa is a poor one, that's great - don't wear one.
Islam defines the value of women in terms of how many of them "equal" men in judicial affairs, inheritance affairs, etc. The burqa is meant to to externalize that "value".
Oh my gosh, I can't believe the official spokesperson of Islam is showing up at Feministing!
It is an oppressive piece of clothing by nature
Like high heels - restrict your walking. Like sunglasses - restrict your sight when indoors. Like tight fitting shirts - restrict your breathing. And yet we aren't banning those. We aren't even considering it. Why? Because we don't patronize white women for their clothing choices, even if we (i.e., some of us) believe they are tantamount to the manifestation or perpetuation of the patriarchy.
those who use it to oppress women, use our "cultural sensitivities" in the West in order to perpetuate its use by claiming it is their "religious right."
Yes, there are going to some men who approve of the burqa in an oppressive manner and say it is their religious right (as opposed to women who choose to wear it). The burqa, like almost any other garment, is certainly not absent of loaded sociocultural, religious, and political implications. God knows it's a difficult and problematic garment in feminism. But that's not a good or valid reason to ban it.
If there is a single woman living under a burqa against her will...That one woman is worth the rest of them having to take it off.
Yeah! And if there is a single woman forced to have an abortion against her will, that one woman is worth the rest of them having abortions outlawed. And if there is a single woman forced to marry against her will, that one woman is worth the rest of them having marriage outlawed. And if there is a single woman forced to have sex against her will, that one woman is worth the rest of them having sex outlawed. God damn it, when will these PC pansies realize that THE CHANCE THAT SOMEONE'S RIGHTS COULD BE VIOLATED MEANS NO ONE SHOULD HAVE RIGHTS AT ALL?!!
Thank you for your honesty. i am actually shocked at all the responses from women that call themselves feminists. Perhaps living in the US has blinded many to the realities of the world outside of this country.
Sorry to be harsh, but France has its own traditions, which do not include burqas. People who are allowed to come to a country should respect those traditions. If you don't like it, don't come. I am an immigrant myself and love my native culture, but I also have respect for the country that welcomed me and gave me a chance at a different life.
Don't want to ramble. I think many Americans just don't get it.
I guess France is different but here in Canada we are taught that we should celebrate multiculturalism. If someone comes here and has citizenship, then how are they less than a Canadian than I am? Because I was born here and grew up in one set of tradition? Their viewpoints and lifestyles do not become invalid just because they cross a border, they are still people who shouldn't have to give up certain types of clothing just because it might upset some Christians.
When it comes to this issue I think back to grade nine, we had to read an article by a Canadian teenager who chose to wear the hijab, and talked about her experience. I really liked that piece because she said she hated that people assumed either she was hiding an uzi under it or came from an abusive home, when the reason she wore it was because she didn't want people to judge her by her body, she did not want to become sexualized like Western society has done to women and our fashion. She simply didn't want anyone to see her shape because its none of anyone's business to check out her ass or tits, she doesn't want to wear jeans that compliment her figure or wear makeup that covered her flaws. Not much different from refusing to shave legs in that regard, and a very respectable viewpoint, and because some do have the garment pushed on them and are forced to wear them doesn't mean no one gets to wear it, they should definitely be able to do whatever they want in regards to their fashion, or their refusal to take part in fashion.
At what point do you step into "multiculturalism" and say "enough"? What if in their culture it is alright for an 8 year old girl to marry a 60 year old man? (which by the way, it is)? What if genital mutilation is a right of passage? (which in some countries, it is)? What if a man can marry 4 women at a time? (which by the way, it is?)
Don't let "multiculturalism" turn basic human rights into elitist ideas that only belong to "some" people and not to others.
Uh, Canada already has laws against marrying minors and mutilating people. People don't get to play the "culture" card for something that breaks pre-existing laws aimed at everyone.
Its clothing for Christ's sake, not pedophilia, the difference there is plain to see. I don't expect immigrants to leave their clothing, religion and values at the door and dress in tight jeans and t-shirts just to fit in.
I'm with you! I can't stand these uppity ungrateful immigrants who think they're entitled to freedom of religion and bodily autonomy when they practically just got here. Everyone knows you have to earn those rights! Waltzing in here saying "Oh, I wanna practice my religion as I see fit, providing it doesn't infringe on anyone else's rights" shows blatant disrespect to one's nation. The next thing they'll ask for is the right to free speech or some other bullshit like that!
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Oh wait a second, it isn't the 1950s. Woops! My mistake!
Ghostorchid, is it possible to have a more civilized conversation without attacking someone who disagrees with you?
First, I disagree that my comments constitute an "attack".
Secondly, I disagree with the implicit suggestion that a comment that, for example, phrases its racist implications in a "nice" way counts as "civil" while a comment calling out that racism in a "mean" way is "uncivil". There is more to civility than tone.
Thirdly, while it is "possible" for me to be more "civil", I have absolutely no obligation or inclination to do so. I do not place a higher value judgment on "playing nice". I am not concerned about whether my tone is palatable or not. In short, I see no reason to have a "more civilized conversation", but I'm open to persuasion.
You rant about things you know about. And rant angrily.
I am going to assume there's supposed to be a "don't" in front of that "know", right?
I see nothing problematic about ranting, nor anger.
You see nothing problematic about anger?? On a website that's supposed to promote understanding issues that affect all women? Aren't we supposed to be working together here?
To quote Audre Lorde:
"Women responding to racism means women responding to anger; the anger of exclusion, of unquestioned privilege, of racial distortions, of silence, ill-use, stereotyping, defensiveness, misnaming, betrayal, and co-optation...every woman has a well-stocked arsenal of anger potentially useful against those oppressions, personal and institutional, which brought that anger into being. Focused with precision it can become a powerful source of energy serving progress and change."
"Anger between peers births change, not destruction...the discomfort and sense of loss it often causes is not fatal, but a sign of growth."
No, I do not find anger problematic. My feminism isn't born out of amicable consciousness-raising and shared experiences; my feminism is born out of rage, desperation, grief, anguish, resentment, and pain. From this monumental upset I draw my focus, my resilience, and my sense of humor.
As to your question - "aren't we supposed to be working together here" - working towards what? If a commenter and I come to an agreement about the burqa, what have we achieved? Nothing. It's the Internet. There are billions of discussions, a tiny percentage of which will affect the real world. If Feministing is some massive group-work assignment, I'd rather fly solo.
Anyway, I do not see anger and understanding as mutually exclusive states. There are some things I don't think I could possibly convey to someone who cannot muster up any rage.
Of course you can be angry if that's what you really want. I'm angry too, but I'd personally rather not direct my anger at other feminists. You and Atoureta obviously both care about women's rights, but have different ideas about how they should come about. That's all I'm trying to say.
Well, I am angry at other feminists, so I consider them an appropriate direction for my anger.
Nothing gets better when I'm nice and nothing gets worse when I'm not.
ghostorchild, thank you so much for your contribution. I agree with everything you wrote.
I am absolutely disgusted by B. Atoureta's thinly veiled racism and i cant believe how many +s she has received for her fucked up comments.
Why aren't more people on this site calling her out on her anti-immigrant racist crap? Because she says it nicely and calls herself a feminist? You have every right to be angry. im angry
Dealing with mostly white and liberal (as opposed to leftist) feminist spaces is becoming almost impossible for me.
I am an immigrant, from Iraq, as many people on this site know.
It is Americans who are naive about the "choice" of the burqa.
Thank you for your honesty. I am NOT surprised to see a site whose demographics are heavily white feeling they have a right to tell certain women what they can and can not do with their bodies and deciding that they set the standard for entry into a country.
You are fine with the state forcing women to do something, so in other words you are against women having bodily autonomy. Way to go. I'm not surprised by that either.
Tracey, I feel that you completely misunderstood what I tried to say. But that's ok. It's difficult to express a very complex feeling within the constraints of a comment box. I firmly believe in women's rights, a woman's right to choose...anything. And that is not an exaggeration. I mean that. But having lived through immigration, and having lived in another country, which was extremely sexist, I have developed certain views which would be difficult to understand by others who haven't lived through it.
I understand people's arguments against abolishing the burqa. I do. But I firmly disagree with them. I'm waaaay past being idealistic about how things work in this world. And while ideally I would love for the burqa to be a choice, I know that it's not realistic.
B. Atoureta, thank you for sticking to your point and defending it so eloquently!!!
You still have yet to explain what abolishing it accomplishes. Does it give more freedom to women who are currently forced to wear it? No. It certaintly takes freedom away from those who choose to. How does banishing the burqa help eliminate sexism? My problem is that it accomplishes nothing. It isn't even a short term solution to anything. I'm not being idealistic, I realize that many things are forced on us against choice, but you have yet to explain how further limiting choice helps.
I am disgusted by a lot of things, including doing cosmetic procedures on intersex infants and women having their clits and labias reshaped to better fir an ideal, but I realize banning certain cosmetic procedures for consenting women does nothing to stop IGM. What does banning the burqa do? Explain that. Has anyone asked the opinions of women who wear burqa. A bunch of women are having their futures discussed by the state as though they are canvasses to be painted on. Combatting sexism with sexism helps no one in the end, this doesn't even help anyone in the short term.
If some of these women choose not to remove the burqa in public in protest and are thrown in jail how is that liberating for them? Seriously, are you willing to see women who wear niqab and burqa thrown in jail for defying the law and talk about how they have been liberated? Not to mention a ban on the burqa and niqab does nothing to help the home situation of women who are forced to do so. So why punish those that choose to do so?
Even if you see veiling as a visual manifestation of sexism, making the manifestation go away doesn'y make the problem go away.
I have to say, Americans sometimes DO know what they're talking about. And I think this is one of those instances.
As an American, I've been taught my whole life that the government has no right-- NO right-- to restrict a person's speech,religious beliefs, and clothing choices, as long as in doing this, one doesn't infringe upon another person's rights. So to me, that the French government would even CONSIDER banning the burqua is insane. Despite her annoyingly smart-ass tone, I have to agree with what Ghostchild is saying; if the burqua is banned, then where do we drawn the line? Should we ban all forms of clothing deemed "un-feminist"?
For every Muslim woman who truly wants to wear the burqua (which I'm sure exist), I'll bet that there are about ten who have no choice. I'm sorry to all the Muslim women forced into wearing the burqua-- which is obviously an extremely restrictive, uncomfortable, oppressive garnment-- but I think the only way to end this practice, at least in France, is to change people's attitudes towards women through education. If the Islamic community feels accepted in France, Muslims will be more likely to appreciate and adopt more progressive ideals--or at least, ideals that I and most women on this website probably feel are progressive.
ps. I realize how offensive this post could come across as (my way=good,progressive, educated; their way=bad,archaic,uneducated), but I honestly do believe that on this issue, the Western world, despite its faults, is right "correct" in that the burqua represents deep mysoginy.
I no I've made several posts but it really ticks me off how "concern" for women is used as a reason to actually make the lives of women worse and take aware our freedoms.
People actually concerned about women who argue for these bans seem to only want to sweep something they see as a problem under the rug. How can anyone actually think this helps anyone? Seriously? Not to mention the assumptions inherient in the argument.
There are ways to actually help women who may be in an abusive situation, but banning an article of clothing is most certainly not a way to do so. This is disgusting. Some people want to be able to ignore a problem they think of when seeing a particualr article of clothing regardless of the actual affectiveness.
I am seriously disgusted that some people think taking away freedom and bodily autonomy helps anyone or that not having their sensebilities offended is reason enough to control the body of others.
You also forgot Juneteenth.
Which, to be fair, I did too. But I thought I should mention it.
On a lighter note, I noticed you said the bowlers were "Chicago state champions," so I clicked over to see whether they were champions of the Chicago city-wide or Illinois state variety. I found that they won the Michigan state championship.
The Backlash is in full swing. The major problem is the internet. Anti semitic sites can be censored, the same is not true for anti feminist sites. The way feminism is portrayed in the mass media you would not think it, but just try to go out on campus and tell a guy you are a feminist, then see his expression of disgust.
More and more people are being shaped by the internet rather than the mass media. It is the internets fault that feminism has become a pfui word. If we do not control the internet, the anti feminism might spill over into the mass media and if it does and if it becomes "cool", it could become something politicians will pander to.
So what can be done to get a better grip on the internet ?
The internet is a meritocracy -- you get popular by producing meaningful content that resonates with people (exactly what Feministing seems to do right now).
Another efficient way would be to write feminist editorials for more trafficked sites, such as popular news or entertainment sites.
But I don't want anyone explicitly "in control" of the internet, whether it's neo-nazis or anti-semites or feminists or classical guitarists. The day when a single ideology rules the internet -- including feminism -- is the day I rip my router out of my wall and throw it out the window.
Then why don't we just ban marriage between Muslims? Or prevent Muslim fathers from seeing their daughters? Wouldn't that get right to the root of the issue? You know, those horrible horrible backward Muslims?
They're not backwards and horrible. Forced marriage does indeed exist as well. But this isn't limited to Muslim groups.
Domestic abuse and oppression is a serious fucking issue; banning the burqa will solve it just like banning high heels will cure Western domestic abuse. This unrelenting, unilateral focus on clothing as the primary gender issue facing Muslim women does a grave discredit to the diversity and complexity of their struggles.
No one will kill me if I refuse to wear high heels, and it doesn't make me hide my "shameful" body because I am worth less than a male.
While we're at it, let's ban corsets, white wedding dresses, nun habits, and any women's clothes that indirectly or directly promulgate the valuation of their sexuality - you know, all of them. Let's create a feminist police force and patrol the streets, forcing women who wear clothes we disapprove of to slap on a "This is What a Feminist Looks Like" t-shirt and bootcut jeans. Can you really not see how forcing women to lose their burqas for "feminist reasons" is no different from forcing homemakers to be career women for "feminist reasons"? If you think the choice to wear a burqa is a poor one, that's great - don't wear one.
The whole point is that some women do not have the choice, whereas, for every other "example" you gave, women DO have a choice, and no one is threatening to kill me if I refuse to wear a corset or a nun's habit.
Oh my gosh, I can't believe the official spokesperson of Islam is showing up at Feministing!
Well I'm not the official spokesperson but I assume since I am from the region and have learned about it my entire life, I likely know more than you.
Like high heels - restrict your walking. Like sunglasses - restrict your sight when indoors. Like tight fitting shirts - restrict your breathing. And yet we aren't banning those. We aren't even considering it. Why? Because we don't patronize white women for their clothing choices, even if we (i.e., some of us) believe they are tantamount to the manifestation or perpetuation of the patriarchy.
Don't turn this into a race issue, especially since there are white Muslims as well. Again, no one will threaten to kill me if I refuse to wear high heels or call me a "whore" if I DON'T wear high heels or be allowed out of the house UNLESS I wear high heels.
Yes, there are going to some men who approve of the burqa in an oppressive manner and say it is their religious right (as opposed to women who choose to wear it). The burqa, like almost any other garment, is certainly not absent of loaded sociocultural, religious, and political implications. God knows it's a difficult and problematic garment in feminism. But that's not a good or valid reason to ban it.
Spend a day walking with one on, let me know how you feel afterwards.
Yeah! And if there is a single woman forced to have an abortion against her will, that one woman is worth the rest of them having abortions outlawed. And if there is a single woman forced to marry against her will, that one woman is worth the rest of them having marriage outlawed. And if there is a single woman forced to have sex against her will, that one woman is worth the rest of them having sex outlawed. God damn it, when will these PC pansies realize that THE CHANCE THAT SOMEONE'S RIGHTS COULD BE VIOLATED MEANS NO ONE SHOULD HAVE RIGHTS AT ALL?!!
Straw man argument. First of all, the issue of "forcing" any other human being to do anything against their will is a human rights violation, forcing an abortion (like they used to do in China) or forced to wear a burqa is no different.
But this is not a black and white issue, you cannot compare it so smoothly to another thing like abortion: a burqa is deemed necessary for Muslim women because women, by definition, to those who enforce it, are "sinful" and "dirty." have you ever asked a Muslim man who agrees with its use WHY women wear it? They will tell you it is because women are "so beautiful, they tempt men, and men are so much weaker than women that you must cover yourselves to keep us from being tempted." How's that for sugar-coating the idea that women are the cause of men's lust which, rather than having them control it, women should just cover themselves?
This is the ultimate reason behind the Burqa, even the idea of "female humility" before "Allah" leads back to that idea: that we have something inherently in us that we need to be "humble" about, specifically, our entire bodies from head to toe, including our faces. It is oppression hiding behind a veil of religiosity (no pun intended), and since it is FORCED upon women (who may not even admit it to you for fear of their lives), then it should be removed from everyone. One cannot simply escape poverty and oppression from their home countries and then come to the west to continue to oppress half their population under OUR watch - it is a disservice to those women, regardless of your feigned "cultural sensitivities".
It is also meant to differentiate Muslim women from other women - and if a Muslim man sees you, without a burqa, walking down the street alone, he will leave you be. If he sees a woman in a burqa on the street walking alone, guess what - he has the "right" to harass her, beat her, even rape her, because she has the "marker" that she is Muslim and yet is walked unattended, and therefore, a whore.
Don't talk about things you don't know about.
you know what i'm gonna apologise first because i'm sick of having to repeat myself on this issue.
"Don't talk about things you don't know about."
you know what, you should take some of your own advice. now i really dont give a damn if you've lived in the middle east your whole life, that
does not make you an expert on islam and most of the stuff you thrown up are markers of your culture.
first of all, the burqa and niqab are NOT religious garments but cultural ones. Islam states that both men and women should dress modestly but it does not actually endorse the burqa or niqab. in fact when i went on holy prilgrimage to Mekkah i had to show my face and that the women there are meant to have their faces vidible (even though some still had garments that covered even their eyes).
i would argue that the burqa is not deemed essential for muslim women but that modesty is for both women AND men, somthing that gets lost in our western patriarchal society and i feel for good reason. there is a lot to be said when people are fighting for womens rights over here the first thing they say is "well at least your not over there, in the middle east like those muslim women", as if thts meant to make the situation all better.
i am getting sick and tired of having o explain to people the difference between religion and culture. just because a contry CLAIMS its islamic does not mean it is. please point out in the Quar'an where it says this oh and BTW if your using the english translation look again, if i have to explain to you about wahhabism it further goes to shows your ignorance on islam.
islam states that both men and women are suceptable to sexual desires which is why it claims modesty for BOTH SEXES and this statement
"It is also meant to differentiate Muslim women from other women - and if a Muslim man sees you, without a burqa, walking down the street alone, he will leave you be. If he sees a woman in a burqa on the street walking alone, guess what - he has the "right" to harass her, beat her, even rape her, because she has the "marker" that she is Muslim and yet is walked unattended, and therefore, a whore."
where the fuck did you get that from because it may well be cultural but it certainly is not islamic. many of the comments from people-however respectful, have shown that most people do not know what they are talking about when it comes to islam and the last thing we need is someone like you making it harder for muslim women like myself to show feminists that we believe in the same things and we are not mysogonistic.
and you know what-before the age of 19, i believed all the things you did about my faith. that was before i had to do a project in which i had to get off my ass and actually STUDY my religion and then i realised how wrong i was and that my beliefs had been spoon fed to me and i hadnt questioned them. islam is what turned me into a feminist.
and why is all this important? why does it matter that we can differentiate between islam and culture? for the reason that many goverments-both islamic and non-islamic rely on the general populations ignorance of the religion to propegate their beliefs and laws. there is no such thing as islamic extremeism when islam very clearly states that if you go to someone else's country you HAVE to ABIDE BY THEIR LAWS and be respectful. most muslims dont know what their religion actually says and rely on relatives and their culture to tell them how to behave and act. it can be dividing. it hard for me to stand with other feminists when they say they disagree with islam because in saudi women cant drive etc and its like you think THATS because of religion?!
i have met people from middle eastern countries who are both non-muslims and ex muslims who have a bad view on islam and i can understand why when they have been punished by laws proclaiming to be islamic. however any one who honestly believes that these laws are a reflection of islam are lazy and have not read the Quar'an.
Don't talk about things you don't know about? take your own advice stop being lazy and stop trying to tell the world what my true muslim brothers and sisters believe!
LOL! Nearly nothing of what you said is based in reality.
I'll just say this: I have the Arabic Koran, not the English one, although I could care less whether it's religiously sanctioned, culturally sanctioned, economically sanctioned, etc. Your argument falls on my deaf ears - it's oppressive, women are valued by it, end of.
I understand the reasoning behind wanting the Burqa to be a "choice" for women to wear because banning it leads to a "slippery slope" of state censorship on things like dress. Up until the latest Turkish administration, the Burqa (and even hijab) was banned by the Turkish government (a Muslim country, of course), because they recognized the inherent oppressiveness and segregation and inequality it led to for women in their own society.
This administration, elected a few years ago, campaign against the ban, citing it as "undemocratic" to "now allow" women to wear the burqa/hijab if they "freely chose to". What happened, then, was the reversal of the ban, and the President's wife even wear a hijab (something unheard of in Turkey for nearly the last century of its official existence).
And now, some women are being forced back under it, since the law allows, and they have little say. Keep in mind - for the last 90 years, there were no problems with women leaving the home, working, studying, wearing what they liked: the government has given renewed reason for men to push women back into second class citizenry.
In the UK, they have recently allowed sharia law to exist for Muslims - a parallel "justice system" for Muslims only in issues of marriage, divorce, inheritance, etc. If anyone knows ANYTHING about sharia law, then you would know that women have absolutely NO rights or value in these issues, and Sharia gives all power to the men, the husbands, and the fathers. They did this out of "cultural sensitivity" to the Muslim population, when in fact all it did was strip a Muslim woman's DEMOCRATIC rights away in a supposed DEMOCRATIC country.
Our naive "cultural sensitivities" actually bolstered women's oppression.
Maybe some of you can live with that. But I, for one, cannot.
The reason the veil was banned in Turkey was not concern for women, but a power struggle of the state with islamic religious elements, who of course, strife for power and in countries like Iran, got it.
It was about a statement, we rule, not about a concern for women. The turkish goverment is not overly concerned with women.
Concern for women or not, it was one of the symbols of the religion which was banned.
You have yet to explain how forcing someone not to do something is better than forcing them to do it, or how forcing all of them not to addresses the conditions that forces some of them to.
And why target Muslim women? What about all the other people forced to dress a certain way by their parents? Something is lacking in your reasoning....logic.
No one is advocating the imposer of FGM on minors or any other thing that takes away someone's right to bodily autonomy. The right to wear or not wear what you like is not something that should be legislated by the governement ( I even have mixed feelings about "hate speech", and believe the government has exercised to much authority in that area, not to mention the imposition of clothing in general).
Refusing to allow a burqa hurts nothing but religious sentiment.
Forcing someone to wear it is degrading and hurts a woman socially, economically, and her dignity.
I'd rather insult religious sentiment, especially when it is inherently oppressive to the woman.
Refusing to allow a burqa is stripping away someone's freedom and hurts a person's autonomy. Not to mention if a woman is wearing a burqa and not interfering with anyone else, she is not violating the rights of another.
In the case that it is being forced, banning it does nothing to address the problem of oppression and abuse.
Banning a symbol that is oppressive to some does not eliminate oppression. It's just a reason for people to pack themselves on the back and feel like they've accomplished something.
Also, your whole thing seems to be in cases when it is forced. Do you think that a woman who is forced to wear burqa is going to be allowed economic and social freedom even if it is banned? If she was allowed economic and social freedom do you think she would stay with someone forcing her to wear it in the first place? Again I fail to see any logic in what you just said. Seriously, answer those questions.
I agree, it doesn't. So it should a) be banned and then b) the root of the problem addressed.
Turkey is not a Muslim nation. Turkey is a secular democracy with many Muslim people.
Oh please, that was my point, a Muslim nation turned secular and banning the burqa.
Oh please nothing. It's still a misstatement about the status of the government. Secular is not a Muslim state. We both know this and to say that it is a Muslim state is ignorant to the laws of the land in Turkey as they are enforced. It's like saying the UK is still an Absolute Monarchy because it was in the past. The government reformed and it should be acknowledged.
Because Islam is a political system as much as it is a religion, Turkey had to BAN things like the burqa because the line between state and religion do not exist.
Turkey is a Muslim nation with secular laws. Maybe you have time for semantics when you can't discuss the actual matters at hand, but I don't.
"It's still a misstatement about the status of the government. Secular is not a Muslim state. We both know this and to say that it is a Muslim state is ignorant to the laws of the land in Turkey as they are enforced. It's like saying the UK is still an Absolute Monarchy because it was in the past."
...Or like saying the U.S. is a Christian state because the majority of people in it are affiliated with a denomination of Christianity.
Personally, that's why I use terms such as "Muslim-majority nation" and "Muslim theocracy" instead of "Muslim nation" or "Muslim state." That way, there shouldn't be confusion about whether I'm describing a place's government structure or a place's demographics.
No, the UK did not recently allow a parallel Sharia legal system for Muslims. Actually, there's a (quite old) UK law that allows all religions to set up religious courts dealing with marriage, divorce, contract disputes, inheritance etc. It was actually aimed at, and mostly used by, Jews.
While most of the really anti-women aspects of Judaism have been ignored or worked around in the mainstream, if you take a look at the fundamental religious beliefs it's actually worse than Islam in some ways. (Then there's the Haredi, who resisted these changes - their treatment of women is not pleasant). So this isn't exactly a new problem, it's just that anti-Islamic opinions are popular.
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/uk/crime/article4749183.ece
Sharia was recently adopted in Britain.
My opinions on sharia were not meant to be exclusionary of my opinions on the inherent patriarchy and sexism in most religions.
Islam's tends to be more open. I don't doubt Judaism's oppression of women as well - I see it in the Orthodox women around me.
But again, Jewish women are not being killed at an alarming rate for forsaking their "honor", are they?
"...They did this out of 'cultural sensitivity' to the Muslim population, when in fact all it did was strip a Muslim woman's DEMOCRATIC rights away in a supposed DEMOCRATIC country.
"Our naive 'cultural sensitivities' actually bolstered women's oppression..."
Good points! Isn't it more accurately "cultural sensitivity" to the most privileged members of a minority population (the ones who have male privilege, parents-wealthier-than-others-in-the-minority privilege, able-bodied privilege, heterosexual privilege, everything but majority-religion privilege) instead of that minority's whole population?
As for the burqa, didn't that custom actually begin centuries before Islam? After growing up harrassed for being hairy (which I inherited from my Iranian ancestors), I suspect that the big overlap between cultures with lots of hairy women and girls and cultures ordering women and girls to cover up isn't entirely a coincidence.
No one will kill me if I refuse to wear high heels, and it doesn't make me hide my "shameful" body because I am worth less than a male.
First, if you think wearing a burqa paints a murder target on you, I'd assume you'd want legislation for them, not against them.
Secondly, I don't know what feminist paradise you live in where women's bodies - of all races, ethnicities, and faiths - don't get shamed and aren't valued lower than males, but I'd sure like to move there! (My point being that these issues exist irrespective of whether the burqa is part of one's culture or not, but we aren't threatening to ban anyone else's clothes.)
The whole point is that some women do not have the choice, whereas, for every other "example" you gave, women DO have a choice
I fundamentally disagree with your opinion that if some women do not have the choice to do something, it's preferable to outlaw the "something" instead of the force. Analogously, many women are forced to have sex, but we understand that outlawing sex is foolish - outlawing the force applied to sex is intelligent.
Spend a day walking with one on, let me know how you feel afterwards.
Again, that's not a valid reason to ban something.
It is oppression hiding behind a veil of religiosity (no pun intended), and since it is FORCED upon women (who may not even admit it to you for fear of their lives), then it should be removed from everyone.
See? There's the major difference of opinion here. You do not believe women would choose to wear a burqa unless they were forced to. Additionally, you seemingly believe that banning the burqa will fix the issue of patriarchy in Muslim cultures. I disagree on both counts.
it is a disservice to those women, regardless of your feigned "cultural sensitivities".
This isn't about "cultural sensitivity". It's about legislating what women are allowed to wear: I'm against that.
If he sees a woman in a burqa on the street walking alone, guess what - he has the "right" to harass her, beat her, even rape her, because she has the "marker" that she is Muslim and yet is walked unattended, and therefore, a whore.
Have you considered that such a man's attitudes toward women might need more renovation than her wardrobe? It's like banning miniskirts because many men believe that a woman wearing one is "asking" to be raped, or banning any modest clothing because some men require their wives to wear it. You write as though the burqa is the source of oppression. What marvelous outcome would you expect if it were banned?
"Analogously, many women are forced to have sex, but we understand that outlawing sex is foolish - outlawing the force applied to sex is intelligent."
Likewise, check out this quote from Freedom craving 'fuelling Iran unrest', Hugh Sykes, BBC News, 15:45 GMT, Sunday, 21 June 2009 16:45 UK:
"...Several women I met openly complained about the religious 'guidance' police enforcing the female dress code of the chador, or the hijab and 'manto' coat.
"One young student told me: 'I like the hijab. My friend doesn't like it. I should be free to choose to wear it, and she should be free to choose not to.'
"Another woman said: 'The hijab is not really the problem. The real problem is that men and women are human beings - they are the same, and they should have equal freedoms.'..."
Of course, some self-procalimed liberals will complain "when a poor man is dying because he can't go to the doctor, who cares about 'human rights'?!" (not realizing how much they sound like lower-income American conservatives saying "when I don't have a job and health insurance who cares about immigrants and abortion?!"). However, IRL freedom from disease and hunger for lower-income male members of the ethnic and religious majorities, and freedom to dress and date for higher-income women and/or ethnic and religious minorities, are not mutually exclusive. From what I've heard the Ahadmenijad administration built a much-needed hospital in a lower-income part of South Tehran, and that's great, but image how much more it could have done for the poor if it didn't also waste some resources cracking down on house parties in higher-income parts of North Tehran. Even if one thinks wanting to expose hair/drink alcohol/etc. is superficial, that's not enough reason to arrest people for it.
For women actually interested in helping Muslim women keep things like Sharia law in Europe from enslaving them, see here:
http://onelawforall.org.uk/
A groups started by Muslim men and women in the UK against Sharia.
"For women actually interested in helping Muslim women keep things like Sharia law in Europe from enslaving them, see here:
" http://onelawforall.org.uk/
"A groups started by Muslim men and women in the UK against Sharia."
Thanks for the link!
Oh Mike Huckabee, you’re just the greatest…whatever. I love how zygotes get to be full human beings with equal rights and all, but gay people can’t have them? You make no sense.
I know, so much of that discussion was frustrating. There were so many things I wished Stewart would address, like:
- Nobody disputes that a zygote is alive, they just dispute that it's a person.
- It's stupid to compare abortion to eldercare, because nobody disputes that an elder is a person; try comparing it to the decision a family must make when someone ends up badly brain-damaged and on life-support.
- Laws requiring parental consent would endanger the well-being, and possibly the lives, of some girls.
The French burqa story is interesting to me because of how much it really reflects the different ways in which countries deal with religious expression.
I think one of the big things to remember is that France is all about secularism because it's a central tenant in "freedom" for the French. Any symbol of religion worn in public represents a lack of ability to decide for oneself over religious dogma. It's also a threat to the homogeneous French culture that is the goal of French society, even if not really expressed.
Personally, I feel a woman should be able to or not to wear a burqa. It's an expression of her religious beliefs, which is something I think people often overlook. Outside of the Arab World (and even inside the Arab world in some places), women are not required to wear a full burqa, or even a niqab, so long as they keep their hair covered for modesty. A woman can choose to wear those garments in most cases.
I think something to really take into consideration is that these articles are actually meant, in religious law, to help protect women from the unwanted advances of men. Much of Islamic law is set up that way -- with a distrust of the hormones/dispositions of men to protect women. While there are sexist implications on that, I think it's an important detail because it's seen as so repressive when the original intention of the garment was to protect women from men and a perceived Rape Culture within their society. Has this reasoning stuck entirely? Yes and no. But that doesn't mean that we shouldn't acknowledge the whole of the intention of the garment.
They're also designed to help keep people cool and protected in the desert sun and wind -- which is why there's debate in the Islamic community as to whether the garments are necessary outside of the traditional Arab World (my geography professor - a Jordanian and Muslim - told us about that in class). The discussion is ongoing, obviously, but it's something also to note.
A very astute comment about religion in French culture. It's really naive for posters to just assume that society functions under exactly the same rules and standards as it does in the US.
On a separate note, an organization that I find really interesting is the French feminist group Ni Putes, Ni Soumises (Neither Whores, Nor Submissive). It was started by a group of Muslim women to be a support system for young Muslim girls on issues like violence, the hijab, education, and marriage. I certainly don't agree with them on all aspects, but I think it's a group that needs to exist.
Back to the overarching topic, laïcité (best translated as societal secularism) is a huge part of French identity. The fact that the 2004 law on ostentatious religious symbols in public schools passed with support from people on the left and right and from all religious backgrounds is telling.
And, like someone said earlier, it is (save some specific situations like political refugees) the choice of someone to immigrate into a new country. One does need to respect the laws of the new country.
In the US, we don't allow polygamy, even though it's an accepted part of some other cultures. We make people take a test to prove their patriotism to the US, a test on which many jus soli citizens of the US would probably do pretty poorly. We don't even have an official language, which is one fewer hurdle for people coming here.
But people continue to immigrate to western Europe, the US, and Canada. One of the reasons why is because the perceived benefits are seen to outweigh the perceived losses due to assimilation, a new location, lack of availability to all the comforts of wherever home may be.
The article (I feel like a lot of people may have just read the headline) said that the Assemble Nationale wants to do an investigation on the relation of the burqa to women's rights in France. One can assume that if the study shows that women wear the burqa for personal reasons of faith and not because they are forced, I think that there will be a stronger opposition to any possible ban. And if the study shows otherwise, isn't it the duty of the French government to reinforce its national values?
Excellent comment, Jake!!!
Thank you for the compliment. :-) It seems like we're on a lot of the same page with this.
Gular,
the actual Burqa was created in Iran, as a means of status by upper-class women. Unfortunately, I don't have a link handy on me right now.
" Secondly, I don't know what feminist paradise you live in where women's bodies - of all races, ethnicities, and faiths - don't get shamed and aren't valued lower than males, but I'd sure like to move there! (My point being that these issues exist irrespective of whether the burqa is part of one's culture or not, but we aren't threatening to ban anyone else's clothes.)"
Ghostchild, I technically agree with what you're saying, but in some cases, obviously, it's worse than in others. In Sweden and Holland, for instance, there is a problem with rape and harrassment. In places like Sweden, it is a huge problem, actually. If women aren't wearing the hijab, many are actually under the threat of rape. No wonder there is such backlash towards Muslims.
I sincerely hope you are not suggesting that in order to prevent rape and harrassment that the clothing options of women should be restricted, or even that that type pf thinking is ever justified.
I think this is one of my main problems:
the argument seems to be that b/c women are being oppressed in SOME cases, women's choices must be restricted "for their own good." Am I the only one who sees a problem with that line of thinking. The idea that the government or any authority should restrict freedom of people under the guis of "protecting" them.
Let me make my position clear:
If a woman is being forced to wear burqa, the problem is not the burqa but domestic violence and banning the burqa won't stop the violence.
"I sincerely hope you are not suggesting that in order to prevent rape and harrassment that the clothing options of women should be restricted, or even that that type pf thinking is ever justified."
When did I ever say that? Stop twisting my words! Ghostchild mentioned that sexual harrassment occurs everywhere. Yes, that is true, but I was pointing out that in some places sexual harrassment is worse; Ghostchild seems to be downplaying the fact that some of the worst sexual violence is coming from the Muslim community.
"If women aren't wearing the hijab, many are actually under the threat of rape. No wonder there is such backlash towards Muslims."
I did not mean to take words out of context and it really was meant to be a question (forgot the ?). However, the argument for banning different forms of veilings is often that women are being made to wear them under threat of beatings, rape, and/or death and therefore they should be banned. That's why I was inquiring about your intentions. As evident by the comments here, many people base their support for hijab,niqab,burqa bans on the belief that women only wear veilings because of fear of negative consequences from men in the communities.
Given the general climate on here your post suggested that there is reason to look on veilings as suspect and possibly deserving of a ban b/c some women wear them out of fear of what men might do, as oppose to going after the men. That is why I made the comment that restricting the rights of all veil wearing women b/c some veil women are terroized by men if they do not wear the veil is really messed up.
RE: the 'great-grandmothers' post... WTF is with constantly defining women by their marriage/procreation status? So if these women were single, the headline would refer to 'unmarried old spinsters'?!
um, maybe "barren crone"?
just kidding, I know what you mean, that's why it drove me so flipping nuts when someone said to me once "as a wife and mother you must feel...."
The idea that any garment is needed to 'protect' women from male intention/advances is offensive to both sexes. If Islamic laws are really on the side of women, then why do certain Islamic countries value a woman's testimony as worth only half that of a man's in court, or only agree to examine rape cases if the woman can provide four witnesses? I can't say I've heard many Islamic figureheads coming out in defence of rape victims, but I have heard a prominent cleric comparing uncovered women to raw meat left uncovered, the implication being, whatever they 'attract' is their own fault.
Anything that sends out the message that the male sexual urge is uncontrollable and that the female body is the cause of overwhelming 'temptation' that needs to be covered, is an extremely negative influence. That's my main problem with the burqa. Neverthless, I accept I don't have the right to ban it just because it bothers me.
>>>>They're also designed to help keep people cool and protected in the desert sun and wind --
Um, perhaps. But then why are they usually black, a colour that absorbs heat rather than reflecting it? Men in traditional Islamic dress are usually in white tunics, why is the same courtesy not extended to women?
Disliking the burqa is not the same as disliking Islam. There is nothing in the Qu'ran that demands women wear head-to-toe black cloaks with only slits for the eyes. The Qu'ran merely says that both sexes should dress modestly. Interesting how this has been 'interpreted' with a sole focus on female dress, by those with certain agendas.
I don't like what the burqa represents, and I don't like seeing women in it. However, I accept that banning it is impossible in any country that claims to allow freedom of expression/belief/dress. I also agree that it wouldn't solve any of the underlying problems in cultures where women may be at greater risk of abuse.
There are other people who wear all black in the desert sun and wind and it still keeps them cool. The Bedouins are the first example that comes to mind. Both men and women Bedouins wear black -- and they're literally in the desert all the time. Having never personally worn one, I can't testify to its effectiveness, however if there was a better way, I feel the Bedouins would take full advantage of it.
Islamic law says both sexes should dress modestly. The has been interpreted by some Islamic thinkers as having a need for the type of dress being discussed. You may disagree with how they have thought through the Koranic passages, but that's how it's been seen.
The statement I made about protecting women from men was actually made by an Islamic woman in Saudi Arabia (No Reservations with Anthony Bourdain Saudi Arabia). It's a cultural interpretation of the rules set in place. I did not originate the idea, but since it came from an American woman who relocated to Saudi Arabia, I felt it bore repeating given the context of the conversation here.
I feel that what the burqa represents in Western culture comes from a misunderstanding of Arab culture. Especially given that it's seen as a religious and not a cultural garb (as stated by battle angel alita up thread).
I think that banning the burqa is something which is inherently damaging to multiculturalism because it is an expression of culture for the women who wear it outside of Sharia nations.
I think there needs to be acknowledgment that it is a choice for these women, and it can be a celebration of culture and cultural heritage. Will every Arab woman choose to wear a burqa? No. Should every woman be able to choose to wear one? Yes.
"...There are other people who wear all black in the desert sun and wind and it still keeps them cool. The Bedouins are the first example that comes to mind. Both men and women Bedouins wear black..."
Speaking of whom, in Saudi Arabia Bedouin communities already let both women and men drive cars.
"I think there needs to be acknowledgment that it is a choice for these women, and it can be a celebration of culture and cultural heritage."
Good point - and sometimes it can be a celebration of two cultures at once.
Also, let's not forget the more mundane reasons some people also have for wearing hijab, chadors, niqab, burqas, etc. I wouldn't be surprised at all if some women getting dressed in the morning think less about celebrating culture and heritage than
"Too hot out, I'll just wear my burqa instead of anything more constricting"
"Why buy a separate headset for my cellphone when I can stick it in my hijab to keep my hands free?" [I've seen people doing this IRL]
"I don't feel like getting spruced up and dressed up before I go out to get the paper and groceries for the day, I'll just throw on a chador and get those errands out of the way early" [this one I heard was more common in my grandmother's generation]
"I look more authoritative in my chador uniform than in my hijab-and manteau-and-trousers uniform" [anyone else remember the cop in The Spouse?]
"They won't search me for what I shoplifted if I wear a chador" [I've heard of storekeepers in Iran feeling very vexed by these ones]
"If I head out with a burqa over my clubbing clothes, the neighbors can't tell my parents it's me" [this one happens in some Kenyan neighborhoods according to Headwraps : A Global Journey by Georgia Scott]
here's a link:
http://encarta.msn.com/media_461530533/bedouin_clothing.html
note that the man in the back is wearing dark navy. Their clothing is specifically meant to be able to keep them cool in the desert heat, and he is still wearing a dark color.
"But then why are they usually black, a colour that absorbs heat rather than reflecting it?"
Have you ever worn a white shirt out in the middle of the summer all day? You can easily burn under the shirt because white fabric is often at least a little bit transparent. Black at least blocks the sun from your skin.
I can't say I've heard many Islamic figureheads coming out in defence of rape victims, but I have heard a prominent cleric comparing uncovered women to raw meat left uncovered, the implication being, whatever they 'attract' is their own fault.
Ah, the ever-so-controversial Sheikh al-Hilali ("uncovered meat" comment and his feeble excuse). What really disturbs me is the fact that despite reportedly unified condemnation from Muslim groups in Australia, some of the big-wigs of the Australian Muslim community still defend him. This shows clearly that the Australian Muslim authority still holds an us-or-them mentality that, IMHO, is the biggest stumbling block to future co-operation and mutual understanding. And here he goes again.
"What really disturbs me is the fact that despite reportedly unified condemnation from Muslim groups in Australia, some of the big-wigs of the Australian Muslim community still defend him. This shows clearly that the Australian Muslim authority still holds an us-or-them mentality that, IMHO, is the biggest stumbling block to future co-operation and mutual understanding."
Thanks for making it clear that you understand the diversity of opinion among Australian Muslims, and the way some of their "authorities" don't really stand for them!
why is this so hard?
burqa, bikini, whatever, let women wear what they want. period.
there's no need to legislate women's clothing no matter how you feel about what she wears.