I knew not to be too excited about this article about plus size fashion when the accompanying picture was a young woman in a frozen food aisle. In the words of Seth Meyer and Amy Poehler, REALLY, NEW YORK TIMES?! You publish a story on "big girls" who--what a shock!--are interested in looking cute, and then promptly choose to lead the whole thing off with an image that insinuates that they're favorite hang spot is the supermarket. Really?!
The piece details all the different clothing stores that have recently started plus size fashion lines, including Top Shop, Forever 21, and H&M (subsequently dropped for reasons unknown). There's a market, it turns out, for women above a size 10 to buy clothing. Who would have thunk it?
A few really annoying things...most of these lines are still only available online, which suggests that a) the stores don't want "big girls" shopping it up in store or b) the stores assume that "big girls" don't want to have a shopping experience like everyone else, that they're oh-so-ashamed. Either way, it's insulting. (I know the stores claim they just don't have room for all their merchandise, but I call bullshit on that).
Annie Maribona, the founder and part owner of Fat Fancy, a new boutique in Portland, Oregon, told the Times: "When you're fat you stand out anyway. It's really important to go all the way and do something fun or even outrageous with your clothes."
Um, I'm all for anyone of any size doing something fun or even outrageous with their style, but this sort of makes it sound like bigger girls have to present as freak shows in order to adhere to the public's expectation. It's fine if a larger woman likes to dress in "outrageous" colors or styles--more power to her--but she shouldn't feel like she has to "go all the way" unless it's authentic to her tastes and personality.
Thank goodness Maribona redeems herself in the short snippet on fat acceptance:
More than tokenism, such fashion and media tactics seem born of a conviction that larger young women have become more self-accepting. "They are inclined to show off the parts of their bodies they love," said Ms. Sack, the Chicago retailer. Pushing the trend is a broad movement of fat acceptance among academics, anti-bias activists and some psychologists. "It's important to reclaim 'fat' as a descriptive, as even something positive," argued Ms. Maribona of Fat Fancy.
But of course they follow that right up with the requisite fat shaming expert:
But others point to serious health consequences of being overweight. Andrea Marks, a specialist in adolescent medicine in Manhattan, suspects that "the vast majority of overweight girls are not so happy."
Sigh. Why is an article about the clothing industry finally recognizing that larger women can be fashion-forward including a doctor dooming them to unhappiness? Would an article about a new kind of bar that men love to go to also include an expert reminding them that alcohol consumption leads to health consequences and increased risk of depression? No.
Why can't we live in a world where there is no need to segregate larger sizes of clothing as if they were specialized when really they are average or not far from it? Why are larger women talked about as if they are a different species of human being, as if it is surprising that they'd like to look good or find clothing that fits them in the stores near their homes?
For real information about fashion-forward styles for larger women, check out:
Young, Fat, and Fabulous
Manolo for the Big Girl
Frocks and Frou Frou
The Rotund
Joy Nash
And check out community poster RMJ on the subject.
Thanks to Wendy and Marjorie for the awesome links, and reader Ali for the heads up.
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But others point to serious health consequences of being overweight. Andrea Marks, a specialist in adolescent medicine in Manhattan, suspects that "the vast majority of overweight girls are not so happy."
When's the last time you saw an article about a fashion show with clothes aimed at women with a BMI below 16 quote a health expert on the dangers of being underweight?
BMI is **NOT** an indicator of health, poor or otherwise!!!!
There are articles on the dangers of eating disorders all the time!
Thin girls don't need to be made fun of any more than fat girls!
My BMI has *always* been "underweight" since the day I was born. Why take it personally that that is how some people just are? Is it because some of these "thin" people also have healthy lifestyles that include physical exertion and a healthy diet?
Many of my family and friends are overweight, have health problems, have horrible eating habits, haven't done anything more physically taxing than walking through a retail space in years. I love them and I am worried about their health! This concern is not a bad thing. My mom has developed diabetes and other health problems, I'm scared because I am going to lose my mom earlier than I might otherwise because of her lifestyle choices. She wants everything to be fixed with a pill.
I don't make fun of fat people. And I am so tired of people thinking they have the right to give me shit because of my weight and size (I'm not tall either, big surprise, and I look young for my age, which backfires).
AND you know that plus size models are usually just normal sized girls and women too???
I am so tired of this focus on the body! I'm tired of girls telling me "I don't even know why anyone would be attracted to you you're too thin and you don't even have any boobs you look like a boy!"
How very stupid to put the model in the grocery store but also, folks, the fashion industry is full of crazy people! How can we possibly change this it seems hopeless!
(sorry, rant over)
Larana, I had no intent to suggest anything that would contradict your post. My point was simply that the focus on possible health risks in articles about plus size fashion, but not other kinds of fashion, reveals just how much the MSM buys into fat-hate. I get rather distressed when (usually straight male) feminists play the "ewwww, she's too skinny" game; it's just as uncalled for and hurtful.
I know, I'm sorry i went off on a tangent.
This is why I try not to read fashion articles they always get me riled up.
Low BMI is not the same as an eating disorder, but thanks for diagnosing based on appearance. The mortality rate at the low-end of the BMI scale spikes more rapidly than the mortality rate at the high end. Now, how much of that spike is due to people with eating disorders and how much is due to people without eating disorders is not clear. I have always wondered myself whether the curve would look different if known anorexics or bulemics were removed from the data. Would the low BMI mortality spike still exist?
Frankly, I think my ignorance on that topic merely proves Lance's point. Where are all the articles on the health aspects of low BMI? Where is the reporting on research into low-BMI with non-disordered eating and exercise habits? Is there a dearth of research or a dearth of reporting? Either way, it shows that there is less interest in low-BMI health effects than in high-BMI health effects. The fascination with high-BMI health effects is driven by anti-fat-bias.
I can understand how you can feel that I am making conclusions about everyone by what I said, but that is not my intention. And I know a lot of people do that and are really cruel and terrible. But I am speaking only from my personal experience with my family, which really, really, really stresses me out. My mom is sick. I want to do something, say something, to help her. Not you, who I don't know, so I'm sorry if I don't know how to express my confusion and feelings of helplessness watching someone I care about. (It's not just weight for her, depression is the big issue, but I can't separate her into diagnoses of this or that). Since it's an emotional issue for me, I might get carried away, express myself poorly.
darn it, i think i replied to the wrong comment.
As an "overweight" woman, I enjoy it when Feministing covers fat related issues, but I always dread looking at the comments. As soon as someone says something in support of the post and those working in favor of fat acceptance, someone instantly has to post in support of skinny people who try to help the poor, stupid fat people from becoming whale-sized diabetics who are just short of being too lazy to do something about their lifestyle that simply cannot be as enjoyable as the life of a happy, healthy thin person.
What I have to say to you may seem harsh, but when you say things like, "Many of my family and friends are overweight, have health problems, have horrible eating habits, haven't done anything more physically taxing than walking through a retail space in years..." you come very close to passing serious judgment on all "overweight" individuals and their lifestyles. It isn't feminist-friendly, nor is it really friendly at all. More over, talking about how you have been victimized as a thin person doesn't make it okay.
As someone who is "overweight," I have accepted that some of my dietary choices and exercise habits may introduce me to an "early grave." I realize that diabetes and serious heart complications can result from an "overweight" lifestyle. Please don't assume that as a fat person I need help in making choices. Please don't assume that all fat people choose, day to day, to be fat.
I agree with you 100% as a skinny person. I smoke and that obviously doesn't help me gain weight and it definitely isn't healthy... (which makes me wonder when they do the low BMI studies - whether or not they counter in smoking).
Having said that - I'm always on edge when fat acceptence comes up because there is ALWAYS some person on these feminist sites who has to point out how men prefer curves to "skinny rails" or "eeew size 0 women look like disgusting aliens" etc and I can't help but get irritated (more so because of the contradiction, not cuz I believe them - I believe good guys are like good girls - they realize attraction is more mental than physical). I haven't seen that so much on feministing but it has happened A LOT on the LJ feminist community.
I know that some people seriously want to have a discussion about a "healthy" lifestyle and the benefits of such a lifestyle, however I often suspect people making that argument to be guilty of disguising their dislike of fat people with an appearance of good intentions. That being said, it is also wrong for "overweight" people to bring thinner people down because of internalized fear that they are inferior or because they’re finding an easy way to feel better about themselves. I would prefer if we could live without judgment for our size, shape, or appearance. We are all just people inside of bodies, and our bodies are truly so much more alike than we all want to believe.
I'm not assuming that everyone is the same. My apologies if you took it that way.
The fact of the matter is, no matter what your body, face, etc looks like it breeds contempt in someone. So we have a problem of the way plus size women are treated and portrayed in the media, but it's a larger issue. Not to take away the focus or derail the thread but I was responding to someone who is talking about low BMI and poor health. I meant to point out that BMI is NEVER an indicator of health. Not to tell someone they are too big, too small. It's as stupid as focusing on the number of your weight itself.
And all of my extraneous other issues came pouring out unasked.
I don't think the skinny people need to save the fat people as you imply. But I do wish there was more for me to do, as a dutiful Cuban daughter, to help my mom, my siblings, and my niece.
Also, I am not calling ANYONE stupid except the fashion industry. =(
I haven't read all the comments on this article, but part of ikkin's post from June 18 did jump out at me:
"...you [larana] come very close to passing serious judgment on all "overweight" individuals and their lifestyles."
Yes. We pass judgments on things all the time- so why not unhealthy lifestyle choices? I would judge that someone who plays Russian roulette daily is making a bad lifestyle choice, so is a meth addict, a base jumper,...
To show acceptance towards something is to (at least tacitly) endorse it, to say it's alright to do it if you're so inclined. That's exactly what we're aiming for when we want our society to be accepting towards gay, lesbian, or transgendered individuals, people of different religions, different ethnicity, etc. We want our society to send the message- It's okay to be gay if that's how you're inclined, it's just fine to be an atheist, or a Buddhist, etc. But it's a very bad idea to show acceptance towards something as harmful as obesity, smoking, abuse of harmful drugs...
This is why it frustrates some of us to see our society embrace obesity as something with which we ought to be comfortable, rather than something we ought to change. Why do we have the notion that we need to accept *everything*, rather than trying to be very good at determining what we ought to endorse and what we shouldn't?
The problem with trying to impose your view of a "very good" lifestyle on others is based on the idea that other people may not have the same opinions or goals; people do not all view the same kind of lifestyle as "very good." There's nothing about my "overweight" life that I don't like except for people who like you who wish it could be "better."
Think about it this way: many Christians believe that the best thing they can do is improve the life of people who do not live by God's will. They think the lives of individuals, and, consequently, society would be so much better if we could perfect our morality in making it alike to their interpretation of "very good" morality as prescribed by the Bible. However, as feminists, many of us agree that the Bible makes no provision for gays or women in general to live a fulfilling life, so we fight to create a deviation in society. While you think a "healthy" lifestyle is fulfilling and "very good," I have other interests. I'm sorry, but also not sorry at all if that offends you.
Except that people can make what you would apparently deem "good" lifestyle choices and still be fat (perhaps even obese), and people can make what you would deem "bad" lifestyle choices and still be thin. Weight alone is NOT a good indicator of someone's health. And even if it was, is that really a good reason to deny an entire class of people the respect and acceptance they deserve as human beings? Why shouldn't we want the same respect that other human beings want and deserve?
Hey I totally know where you are coming from. I also have a BMI that is underweight, but it just happens to be my body type. I have had many people ask me if I have an eating disorder outright, as if I did it would be OK to ask me to my face?? I also have a large chest for my size and constantly am accused of having implants which is just a whole other annoying issue. I understand what you mean though, although it may not be as prevalent as overweight men and women being mocked, it is still an issue.
Oh for fuck's sake. Fatties hanging out in the frozen foods aisle! They want fashionable clothes to wear when they're pickin' up their ice creamzzz!
This makes me so angry. Every single article about "plus size" fashion HAS to include a warning about the dangers of being fat. Because that's so relevant to the issue at hand.
Hey Andrea Marks - should people be screened at the door for mental health issues before they're allowed in to shop? I can't believe she's basically suggesting that fat girls don't deserve cool clothes that fit them because they're allegedly unhealthy and unhappy. WTF?
I don't understand what the problem is about pointing out problems with being over weight. Every commercial on TV today has health warning i.e. birth control, alcohol, gambling... Are we not blowing this out of proportion a bit?
you obviously didn't get the point of this being posted. EVERY time a major media source dips into the fat fashion stories, they feel a need to bring up health. Why not just say, "hey look at these ausome clothes" or "check out this trend"? i've seen articles on dressing for being tall, dressing for a big rack, dressing for muscular thighs, etc... none of them talked about health ramifications (positive or negative) that could result in these body morphologies. The don't say, "here's how to dress a huge rack but you shouldn't really enjoy your tits because it's harder to detect lumps manually,"... or "here's a fashion for tall people, but don't get used to it because the human heart hasn't evolved to pump blood to extra-tall body parts and you are going to die early unless you have your limbs cut down to size!"
It also assumes medical expertise and the ability to determine health based on general looks and a single modifier. You can be skinny and healthy or skinny and unhealthy; fat and healthy or fat and unhealthy. The descriptors are not correlated nor mutually inclusive.
Next time, read the post a little better.
So why don't all the articles covering fashion week have a paragraph pointing out the negative health effects on young women's bodies of the extremely low body fat that cat walk models have? The constant emphasis on health concerns of fat people in non-health related articles is an indication of fat bias. No other body type gets this kind of attention.
Well, perhaps a large part of the unhappiness seen in overweight girls comes from all of the shame the gets dumped on them. Adn then they can't go shopping with their friends and find clothes that are fashionable and fit well. You know, because going to the 4 square feet of floor space designated as the plus size section and then only finding clothes with no shape and hideous patterns that even skinny people wouldn't look good in makes someone feel really good about her body.
It's why I learned to sew. Seriously. I have always been big, even as a child, and now as an adult. I try to eat healthy and get exercise, but my body does not want to budge from a size 20. Now in my thirties, I'm mostly ok with my body size, but there are still times when shopping for clothes makes me feel like the insecure teenager I once once.
Really, why are all the plus sizes only available online? As a size 10, I never really understood how it felt to go in a chain store and not be able to fit into the clothes. Then one day I went to Abercrombie & Fitch with the intention of buying jeans. But they kept all the sizes 10 and above on a shelf so high that you would need to ask for assistance just to LOOK at them. Added to the fact that their size Large T-shirts bared my stomach, it didn't take long to figure out that they were going to great lengths to ensure that overweight people didn't wear their clothes. I still remember how insulting that felt.
I've had the same experience. It is stunning how weight discrimination is still so flagrantly embraced in our society.
I've heard horror stories about A&F. Supposedly, they will kick people (customers) out of the store if they don't fit the store's "image."
Take that with a grain of salt, though. It's just hearsay.
The article, “authored” by Ruth La Ferla, is a shameless cut and paste job. Parts of it have borrowed liberally from other articles on the same topic, featured in the UK’s Guardian and Times London newspaper magazines.
The New York Times was provided with photos from some of the companies they "pitched" in the article, like Target. I wasn't offended by the frozen food setting, or the picnic cooler set-up. Target sells these things, along with pretty clothes for women of all sizes. I actually think the Target pictures were intended to give a bit of the finger to the folks moaning about how fat fashion encouraging us to pig-out.
Not to derail, but I'm curious, has anyone read anything useful about the treatment of Celia Hodes' daughter on Weeds?
As a friend of Annie and customer of Fat Fancy, I can say that she certainly did NOT mean fat women should have to "present as freak shows." I would guess that what she meant was that, often plus-size clothing is all about "slimming" and looking as boring as possible, but that fat women should feel free to wear crazy stuff and have fun with fashion. When you go shopping at Fat Fancy, the environment is supportive and fun, and nothing but positive. They offer a valuable resource where you aren't encouraged to wear stuff that will hide your body, but fashion that will celebrate it.
I figured as much, but it came off awfully dogmatic. Thanks for clarifying.
Slightly off-topic but I'm confused as to what constitutes 'plus-sized'. It seems to differ by stores/brand.
It does vary a bit, and I don't think there's any real consensus on when plus sizes begin. If you go by the sizes presented in the women's/plus-size section of shops like Target, Wal-mart, K-mart, JCPenney, Sears, or Macy's then it looks like plus-size starts around size 18 or size XL, for places that use the letter system instead of the number system. If you go by specialty shops like Lane Bryant, Torrid, or Kiyonna, then the lower end the plus-size range can go down to 14 or even 12 depending on the shop.
Thank you. I've just always wondered. As someone who sews I've noticed that sewing patterns correspond to body measurements but sizing in stores does not seem to correspond to real measurements. Perhaps I'm wrong on that too though or their are just internal sizing standards that I am not aware of.
I meant there are just internal sizing standards.
Ah, well, you've just hit another problem involved in plus-size shopping (for me anyway, maybe not for everyone though). Sizes correspond to measurements, but those are likely to vary a bit from store to store, and from style to style or brand to brand even within the same store. I know that in some stores I can fit into a size 22, and in other stores I can't fit anything smaller than a 26 or sometimes even a 28. My measurements haven't changed, but since different stores and brands sometimes use slightly different measurements, and because different materials have different levels of stretch or give, my size is all over the place. Add to this the fact that many plus-size stores and lines combine sizes (i.e. instead of having size 22 and size 24 be different sizes, you'll see items labeled "size 22/24") or even have their own sizing system (Torrid uses sizes 0-4 for some styles of top, and I believe Zaftique has its own size system) and you can see how difficult it can be to figure out your size so you can shop easily in a variety of stores. Not that it's automatically easier at other sizes, but when you're already dealing with a seriously limited selection it gets quite frustrating.
Exactly! and all of the unpredictable sizing makes online shopping a nightmare. No matter how carefully I measure so I choose the right size,I still end up with clothes that don't fit.
(I know the stores claim they just don't have room for all their merchandise, but I call bullshit on that).
Seriously! If they can only carry certain things in-store, wouldn't they carry the medium sizes that cater to the most average customers (and of course, I've always heard that the average woman is around 12/14, ie basically "plus size" anyway). But no - instead, most of the stores I go seem to have tons of size 0-8 stuff on the shelves, and when racks get picked over, only the small sizes are left!
just to clarify....the average american woman is size 12/14-ish, yes. but that includes women of all ages, and most clothing stores in the mall are targeting a much narrower demographic, i.e. women ages 18-29. i've never seen size data broken down by age group. (if someone has this, plz, post it!) if you go into chico's or coldwater creek, which are both aimed toward women 35-60-ish, you'll notice a real differences in the sizes they stock, compared to, say, forever 21.
i just know buying clothes is a pain in the ass no matter what size you wear, and i refuse to go into the abercrombies/hollisters of the world, because their clothes are overpriced and poorly made, in addition to being boring and ugly on anyone except the most stereotypically perfect.
i don't have the source on me, but the last time i saw the average american woman is 5'4", ~130lbs, size 12/14 (mode is lower, i think around a 8/10?), and a 36C (though not separated by natural/enhanced), based on the demographic 20-35.
don't quote me, though; this is from memory.
The article I reference below cites the mean as 164, but then points out the difficulty in manufacturing clothing around the mean, because of the non-uniform & non-normal distribution of weights.
"[The population doesn't resemble a] normal bell curve with 164 pounds as the mean. The most common weight — 130 pounds for women under 25 and 140 pounds for those 26 to 35 — is well below the average, which is raised by all those women spread out in the distribution’s [long tail]."
thanks! I was going off memory, that link is helpful :)
The article I reference below cites the mean as 164...
"[The population doesn't resemble a] normal bell curve with 164 pounds as the mean. The most common weight — 130 pounds for women under 25 and 140 pounds for those 26 to 35 — is well below the average, which is raised by all those women spread out in the distribution’s [long tail]."
http://www.deepglamour.net/.a/6a00e553bc5256883401156fef52f5970c-popup
http://www.doublex.com/section/life/real-reason-ann-taylor-hates-plus-sizes
Some of these stores may be catering to those who are not adults. So the measurements and statistics of adult women may not really be the age group they are made for???
yeah, but I had the body of a 21-yr-old co-ed when I was 13; I shot up half a foot and grew several cup sizes between 12 1/2 and 13 1/2. That meant I fit into "juniors" (marketed to teens) for all of two months, was in "misses" (marketed to young adults) for a couple years and then my shoulder width, height, and boobs put me in clothing meant for the post-menopause crow by the time I was 15. I know I'm not the only one, I had friends with similar body types and we'd go shopping together and find jack marketed towards our age group. It is what prompted us to learn how to sew for ourselves and heavily alter what *was* available. Except it was more for options besides large, loud, florals in polyester.
I agree that the article had lots of problems. However, the pictures you're criticizing weren't dreamed up by the photogs at the NYT -- they're Target's own adds. That's what the story was about - stores trying to appeal to "plus sized" young women. And in Target's defense, the woman is holding a bag of frozen fruit, which isn't bad for you.
I was really offended by the photo at first, because I thought it was a lame attempt to make light of the idea that plus sized woman are constantly eating. The woman posing is so hot, why did they have to ruin it with such a stupid setting? But if it's a target ad it really does make more sense, because target tends to combine weird images to promote lots of different products at once. I've seen a target commercial where a woman modeling high heeled shoes is also carrying laundry detergent.
They didn't have to lead with them.
I'm not sure that those are Target ads, since the photo credits say "Robert Wright for The New York Times." I'm guessing he was 'inspired' by the Target ads, and let his fat bias run away with him, posing them in food aisles and in front of coolers.
Another thing...I'm tall (5'10") and there are very few mainstream stores that carry clothing meant for us "skycrapers". It sux.
Where do you live? I'm Scandinavian, and I must admit, I kinda went "meh" and shrugged when I read your comment.
"5'10"? Uh, yeah?".
There's plenty if you've got 250 bucks to spend on jeans.
I'm 6'. I don't have that kind of money. High end resale shops sell stuff like this for regular prices(40-50 USD per pair) though.
Holy Clothing FTW!
Now that's out of my system, I'll give some rational explanations.
I used to be very thin. Almost Underweight by the BMI standard. Now I'm well into the Overweight category, an Australian 16.
While I don't always have trouble finding clothes in my size, I've learned where to look. Rockmans/BeMe are always great, and even have a fair range that appeal to me. BigW have daggy clothes I can bum around the house in, with the advantage that they're cheap.
I quite simply have trouble finding stuff I actually like. Whatever happened to simple, plain-colour (ie no gaudy, sickening patterns), long dresses? And not evening dresses, either - everyday stuff?
VTIdealist - I'd love to learn how to sew. One day I'll even get around to buying a sewing machine and doing it :)
As to sizing - They should introduce something like the male sizing, where the measurements are listed in inches. It would be very interesting to see them...
wrt male sizing-
I want to start a clothing line where the pants have three sizes: waist, hip, and length. There's bound to be a lot of variation, but I feel like it'd be SO worth it.
This is why I love Lane Bryant's Right Fit jeans - the sizing system encompasses leg length and hip/waist ratio, so I can find petite-length pants with a narrow waist and wide seat/hips no problem, and so can an average-height woman with narrow hips, a tall women with an average hip/waist ratio, and any combination thereof.
Women's pants do come in inches.
This obsession about weight is just a symptom of deeper societal problems. So many things we can't control and it's all directed back onto body images. The masses can't vent on the real problems so it's turned against people who have larger body sizes.
Some people are larger. Nothing is going to change that fact. We are a species that selected for it because most of our history it was feast or famine. People who gained quicker survived. No one should be shamed for it. And I find it horrible that we are allowing fellow human beings to be scapegoated. There is no reason that their opportunities should be restricted because of this triviality. Being unable to find clothing is just the tip of the iceberg. And as far as A&F is concerned everything over a size 4 is considered plus size, they hide the size 6 to size 10s. And other stores catering to younger people do the same.
Articles constantly state that changing a diet will automatically change weight. No it won't. The body is designed to find stasis.
Everyone here knows that it is extremely hard to lose even 10 pounds.
Well I have news, it is equally hard to GAIN 10 pounds. I challenge anyone reading this to try it. You will have to eat enormous amounts of food. And even then most of you will not gain. And if you do, you will need to eat even more food to keep the extra 10 pounds. Your body will fight you. Most of you will lose the extra experimental 10 pounds without even trying. Only a small 5-10% percent of any readers will stay at the larger weight. Exactly the same percentage of people who keep lost weight off their frames. This has all been proven during experiments on volunteer prisoners in the 60's. None of them were able to gain. And all who gained lost it.
Last summer I was really depressed and in an abusive relationship. I stopped swimming, I ate bullshit crap food all day long, drank and smoked like a fish, never slept for 8 hrs straight, and I gained 15 lbs in less than 2 months.
Did you keep the weight on? Its quite a different factor when emotional distress is added to the equation. I guarantee if that is not the correct set point for your body, you will eventually lose it. That same happened to me from another situation. I didn't keep the weight on.
However you are mistaking the fact that since you ate so much to gain your weight that other people eat equally large amounts to maintain their larger weight.
That is not the case. You cannot deduce how others maintain or gain weight from your own eating habits.
"And as far as A&F is concerned everything over a size 4 is considered plus size, they hide the size 6 to size 10s. And other stores catering to younger people do the same."
Uhh...I'm all for A&F hate as an ex-Hollister employee but, no they do not do that. I could walk in to any given A&F owned store and find a pair of pants to fit me and I'm a size 6(7 by their sizing)
I suppose it depends on the store location, I suppose.
I hover around size 6 to 8. Depending on the cut, even a size 10. In A&F in NYC, the size 6 to 10 are hidden away on the top shelves.
Again, I worked there and arranged them. It is structured. Every week they send out what is going to go where, including photos. There is no variation from store to store unless they flat out do not have the sizes or styles listed in stock. Then you substitute with a similar style/size. I find jeans my size at eye level.
If they put them up top and a regional or district manager came by they'd get their ass handed to them.
Furthermore, I've stocked those shelves. They aren't that high.
I believe when Annie Maribona made that statement about being outrageous, it was meant in the context of plus sized people owning their style and feeling freedom from shame. When people gawk and you know you feel good about the way you look and you can feel the freedom to express your fashion regardless of size or how unique your sense of style might be, that is empowering. I can tell you that Annie lives that everyday and she is an inspiring woman for that. And, for the record, Annie Maribona runs a store that she has given blood sweat and tears to in order to make a safe space for fat people to be empowered, find clothes that fit in an actual store setting instead of online...which seems to be the thing you are upset about not really existing. Maybe you should talk to her and check out her mission before assuming the worst?
I believe when Annie Maribona made that statement about being outrageous, it was meant in the context of plus sized people owning their style and feeling freedom from shame. When people gawk and you know you feel good about the way you look and you can feel the freedom to express your fashion regardless of size or how unique your sense of style might be, that is empowering. I can tell you that Annie lives that everyday and she is an inspiring woman for that. And, for the record, Annie Maribona runs a store that she has given blood sweat and tears to in order to make a safe space for fat people to be empowered, find clothes that fit in an actual store setting instead of online...which seems to be the thing you are upset about not really existing. Maybe you should talk to her and check out her mission before assuming the worst?
Also, I need to say that it kills me that you decided to take an oppertunity to turn a good article about small social changes into a bad thing. I don't think anyone who is fat is satisfied with the way we are treated or our options available, but it is unrealistic to expect a complete social change overnight. We have spent decades teaching people to hate themselves and hate fat...those decades will take a lot of time and hard work to chip away. I do not feel good about the fact that a lot of stores start with online only plus sized clothes, but I DO feel like it is a START. A start of something important and special that could change the lives of future generations of fat girls like me. Baby steps forward are still steps in the right direction.
Folks, the problem with the photo is that it automatically associates plus size with food/eating. It would be like doing a shoot about southern fashion where the subjects were toothless and barefoot, or a shoot about Latina fashion where they were holding chimichangas. The photograph is established on stereotypical but unnecessary, unhelpful, and stigmatic associations. It entraps the woman in the photo/all plus size gals in hurtful, ignorant associations between size and food (or size, and over eating).
Based on the best reporting I've seen its not some nefarious plot by fashion execs to keep overweight people out of their brands but because sizing variability increases with weight, so from a store stocking perspective its hard to carry a full collection of plus-sized clothing that actually fits clientele.
The best article I've seen on this recently ran in DoubleX last week: http://www.doublex.com/section/life/real-reason-ann-taylor-hates-plus-sizes
Along with a distribution of weights here:http://www.deepglamour.net/.a/6a00e553bc5256883401156fef52f5970c-popup
I don't doubt that there are some brands (Abercrombie is possibly an example) which 'discriminate' on size...but I'd argue that even with them its more likely a straight forward decision to target their core clientele exlusively & ruthlessly, than an attempt to discriminate. I'm a bit larger myself & don't take it personally when the A&F, Hollister, etc don't carry my size.
From Melponeme:
Some people are larger. Nothing is going to change that fact. We are a species that selected for it because most of our history it was feast or famine. People who gained quicker survived. No one should be shamed for it [. . .].
No matter my state, I can always count on some good feminist ideology to make me really just love and be happy with my body. And that is AWESOME.
Thanks, feminism. (And Melponeme!)
Here is an article @ a lot of the problems brought up in this article and comments... and it doesn't say anything about negative health effects of any body type or size. IMO, it makes the fashion designer who does talk about this look like an ass.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2005/05/30/AR2005053001003.html
You comment reminded me of something I totally forgot to mention, which is that it's not uncommon for a person's body to contain multiple different sizes (this might also happen for folks who don't wear plus sized, but having never been out of the plus-size range I can't say...someone else feel free to fill in my knowledge gaps!). For example, if I were to go by clothing size charts, my torso alone has three different clothing sizes: one for my shoulders and breasts, one for my waist, and one for my hips and buttocks. Yeah, it's possible to find ways to work around it, but it's incredibly irritating.
Also, heaven forbid you be plus-size and also need some other specialty clothing type, like petite sizes. Maybe it's just where I live, but it seems like every store in my area thinks you can be plus-size or petite but not both. I discovered this the hard way back in February when I had to go suit-shopping so I would look at least a little professional for a job interview, and re-discovered it this month when I had to go shopping for business attire to bring with me to said job.
Er...that was supposed to be a reply to nifty50's reply to me waaaaaaaaaaaay upthread from here...
And that should be a "your," not at "you" at the beginning there. Yikes.
YESSSSSSS. I, for example, happen have a large chest/sholders, ample hips/thighs/ass, and a normal waist and short legs. I can't wear petites, even petite pluses, because the waists are too low -- they don't cover my butt! And regular pants' inseams are too long. EVERY pair of paints I buy have to be hemmed. And I can NEVER find a button up shirt that buttons around my boobs without being too big. And my boobs aren't huge.
(This was a pretty trivial and irrelevant post, for which I apologize.)
I think the picture is awesome, and I don't think there should be shame in our game for grocery shopping. I'm fat and I like food. It's badass to be upfront about that. Also, I think Annie's statement was right on, there's no denying that people are looking at us because of our size. We should do it up. Like a said - NO SHAME!
as the picture goes, I don't find it offensive.
In order to be a normal weight- like the woman in the photo, or plus sized, which seems like should be bigger than the woman in the photo (she looks like a size 10- that's about average)
you have to eat food.
Food is not bad.
Food is not your enemy.
Food is not a bad thing to be associated with.
Personal sharing:
I care about my size and care about my childs size- no one else. My child is very thin and eats all day. I was like that as a child. As an adult, my metabolism slowed AND I became less active.
If I don't exercise, I gain weight. If I eat junk food, I feel sick. The combination of not working out and eating processed foods makes me depressed.
As looks go, I could give a shit.
When you are fat you need to go on a diet. Bulemie is not healthy, being fat is not healthy either. Medical conditions that cause you to be fat are extremly rare. Most people are fat because they eat too much, which can be fixed by eating less.
Diets don't work. They all fail except for the incredibly lucky 5 to 10%, who by the way, must keep that weight off for 5 to 7 consecutive years in order to be declared a success.
What is most often the case is that people make food habit changes, live "healthier" and they still do not lose weight.
Don't leave your house if seeing larger people disturbs you so. They have a right to public areas and to enjoy their lives.
If you go back to regularly eating a surplus of energy, then diets do not work indeed. You need to be sensitive how much energy your body needs and make sure you do not eat too much.
If you get fat, you eat more than you consume, there is no other reason.
I am not saying larger people should not leave their house. I am saying they can do something about their weight and for their health if they want to. Try to tell a real disabled person to grow back an arm or leg.
Every major study of diets show that they do not work. However these are suppressed because many companies make a fortune from the dieting industry.
Please read "Rethinking Thin", it discusses all the studies done on weight loss and weight gain. For that matter read
http://www.junkfoodscience.blogspot.com/
It is not a matter of eating surplus energy or less. If only it were, there would be no one who was fat. Our bodies were designed for a set point and will hold to that set point. Sometimes it is more than community vanity wishes.
No one has to lose weight to suit you or anyone else.
For that matter, check out "The Obesity Myth" by Paul Campos. It'll tell you that diets don't work, but also that the link between weight/BMI and mortality is not what you think it is.
Stupid people should read books. Studies show that stupid people, when exposed to knowledge, become less stupid.
Diets worked for me. Do not trust any study you did not falsify yourself. If you do not eat too much you do not get fat. Your body can only store fat if you eat more than you consume.
Let's pretend your logic is perfect.
What if I like to eat more than you think I should? What if I like being fat?
It is not my logic, it is a scientifically accepted fact.
If you like being that way it is your decision and stores should not discriminate against overweight customers, or bulemic customers for that matter. However neither is healthy and neither should be encouraged. I hope you realize that either extreme is not good for you and take better care of yourself.
Then again, how much our society should mildly remind people not to smoke eat too much eat, too little is another issue.
Yeah. That's probably how a I turned into a whale anyways, right? There simply have not been enough people to remind me that I need to change my ways or I will die a horrific stroke death, alone in my apartment.
You should change your username.
Of course I'm not offended. We disagreed; if everyone agreed with one another, (or pretended to) no one would have their views challenged- no one would learn anything. I certainly wouldn't.
I think you're absolutely right, that there are multitude of lifestyle choices that might be fulfilling. Yes, what's fulfilling depends on the goals that a person has. Grown, rational adults are free to do as they choose, have any goal they wish, and though we should all have access to information that will affect the decisions we make, ultimately it's up to every rational adult to choose for her/himself.
Still, there can be a difference between good and bad lifestyle choices. If I have a goal- maybe running a marathon, and the choices that I make impede me reaching my goal- I smoke so much I can't take a deep breath, then I'm making bad choices. But as a rational adult, no one has the right to make me do otherwise, and good-heartedly encouraging me to change my ways is more condescending than it is helpful.
I make a lot of "bad" lifestyle choices in this sense: I smoke, booze it up, eat junk, etc. I couldn't claim that these are good choices just because they're what I want to do. Insofar as they impede other goals that I have, they're bad lifestyle choices.
I had to come back here to post this after I read this article: Chubby people live longest: Japan study: http://bit.ly/Wbq7R
Andrea Marks was my doctor when I was a teenager careening into an eating disorder (anorexia). She was not helpful.
Ugh. I am going to ignore most of this comments section -- seriously, can't we get some kind of fat-specific "derailing for dummies" going? I am sick to death of reading about "lifestyle choices," christ -- and just remark that, somewhat to my surprise, The Gap is actually pretty friendly towards people like me, who are on the smaller end of "plus sized" (which makes things especially hard -- I have sort of a peary hourglass figure, and it always seems like clothes are always cut either for people a lot more straight up and down or people a lot more round than myself, with no wiggle room). They even have a specific "curvy cut" for jeans and pants (that comes in all sizes, not just the big ones) that is a total lifesaver for me. They generally don't have a lot of larger sizes in their stores, but they are there, and usually within arms' reach -- and the salespeople don't look at you funny (at least not usually), not even in skinny NYC.
On the other hand, Old Navy (owned by the same people) has had an "online exclusive," separated and cordoned-off plus-size section for years, which really sends a strong "We'll take your money but we don't want to be seen with you" message.
By the way, after reading through some of the links I came across this awesomeness. Notice that there is absolutely no hedging in that announcement about things being "flattering" or whatever, it's just all "Beth Ditto! Hot shit!" I hope they keep that attitude up.
I'm not denying the anti-fat bias, but most Petite sizes are sold online as well.
It's hard to mass produce women's clothes for such varied body types. If you don't fit within a fairly narrow range, it's difficult.
i don't know if this is true, but i have heard the average woman is 5'4 and 140 pounds.
at 5'4 and 145 pounds, i wore a size 10 or 12 depending on the store i was in.
i am ALWAYS angry when going into a store and finding NOTHING in my size but about 14 size XS or 2's in 4 different shades or patterns.
obviously they aren't selling their small sizes in the quantity they expect to, so why not have enough of the sizes that people actually do buy????