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February 2010 Archives

New York Gov. David Paterson's office was accused of intimidating a woman who tried to press domestic violence charges against one of his aides.

Maryland will recognize same-sex marriages performed in other states.

Women on public assistance testify on the Hill to change welfare policies.

"A white person tossing out 'girlfriend' in a professional conversation with a black woman equals epic fail."

Can Facebook save Emily's List?

The sad stats about women in Hollywood. Plus, 30 movies that are for and by women.

A really upsetting review of several new books and reports about prison rape.

A new French law would require people with restraining orders against them to wear electronic monitoring bracelets.

The third PostBourgie podcast is up!

Call for submissions: MAMA SAYS GOOD GIRLS MARRY DOCTORS - Retaining Control, Negotiating Roles: South and East Asian Diasporic Women and their Parents

Muslimah Media Watch interviews Emma Tarlo, author of Visibly Muslim.

Is a new documentary about domestic violence raising awareness about the issue or making a spectacle of survivors?

Why Caster Semenya is NOT like the main character in Middlesex.

Anti-choicer Lila Rose strikes again, attempting to discredit a reproductive health clinic in Milwaukee.

Ohio teens demand real sex ed.

"Are we socialized to believe that despite study after study saying that women overwhelmingly feel relief after an abortion, that two adults in love must break up?"

What have you all been reading/writing this week?

Posted by Ann - February 28, 2010, at 03:55PM | in Weekly Feminist Reader

Hi folks! Community Moderator here. Just a note about comments-- we're currently on our Feministing retreat here in NY so comments may take a while to show up. It'll be like this till about Tuesday when I go back to Cali. Sorry about this, thanks for your patience!

Posted by Anna Marie - February 28, 2010, at 01:00PM | in Comments

hcheadshot.jpgHeather Corinna, a writer and activist, is the founder of Scarleteen, one of the internet's best sex ed resources for young people, and the author of S.E.X.: The All-You-Need-to-Know Progressive Sexuality Guide for Getting You Through High School and College. Scarleteen, which Corinna started in 1998, tries to fill the gaps left - whether intentionally or unintentionally - in sex education provided by teachers and parents. Scarleteen is for and by young people, aims to equip young people with all the information they need to make the best choices they can make. It also provides a space for them to talk, in an honest and safe way, about issues that they might not otherwise be able to explore, like bisexuality, coming out and abusive relationships. I particularly like this post, about men, masculinity and breakups.

Corinna is also one of the founders of the All Girl Army, a blogger collective for young feminists (some as young as 10, and who doesn't love a 10-year-old feminist?). Each of their bloggers was asked to define what feminism means to them. Check it out - it'll put a smile on your face.

Corinna, whose writing has been published in the Chicago Tribune, Bitch and Bust, among many, many others. She also writes erotica, and publishes her erotic photography online at her site Femmerotic. Those of you who read RH Reality Check will recognize Corinna from her Get Real! series, answering readers' questions about sex, sexuality and sexual health. In this week's column, about sex and guilt, she writes: "I have yet to see any sound evidence that people enjoying pleasure, sexual or otherwise, in ways that do not hurt anyone -- that everyone involves wants and engages in with basic care and respect for themselves and others -- has anything but positive benefits for people and the world as a whole." Amen to that.

And now, without further ado, the Feministing Five, with Heather Corinna.

Sorry I have to run out today. The Feministing folks are getting together this weekend and we are starting out with a training for our editors at the very awesome Women's Media Center. We'll be back on Monday!

Shani-O on the pro-life billboard in
Atlanta that is targeted to black women.

Rachel Simmons on hook-up culture. I wish I had time to write a longer post about this (maybe next week). You may not agree with her, but give it a read, she makes some super valid points.

Jamie Foxx tells Kirstie Alley to stop it with all that diet bullshit.
(He says it really nicely, I do not :)

And uh, did Governer Patterson aid in the suppression of this woman's story of being assaulted by one of his top aids?

Posted by Samhita - February 26, 2010, at 01:02PM | in What We Missed

sexist

Nothing says you should quit smoking like conflating sexual assault with the effects of cigarettes. Via the NYTimes, a feminist activist in France speaks out,

But the reaction on the Web site of Droits des Non-fumeurs has been mixed. One comment read, "The campaign trivializes sexual abuse -- worse, it implies guilt on the part of the abused."

Florence Montreynaud, the president of La Meute des Chiennes de Garde, or the Pack of Female Watchdogs, which opposes symbols of sexual violence in films and advertising, called the ads "unbearable" and said "what is most shocking is the banalization of sexual violence."

She is a feminist, she said, and a longtime member of Droits des Non-fumeurs. "But it is terrible to represent in the public space this kind of image restricted to pornography," she added. "I'm appalled. It's a poverty of imagination. When people have no ideas, they use female bodies."

These ads are not edgy to me at all. They are just gross.

Posted by Samhita - February 26, 2010, at 11:08AM | in Advertising , International, Products, Sexism, Sexual Assault

Like several of my co-bloggers, I am of the anti-violence, de-escalation, anti-incarceration and anti-police industry camp. I think generally increased penalties on criminal behavior supports and reinforces more criminal behavior. I believe that a just criminal justice system is one that is fair, protects the interests of the people and is built through community organizing.

Having said that, my political beliefs about prisons, policing and law enforcement are often taken to task on the issue of domestic violence, stalking and other forms of harassment and assault. Calling the police may not always help, restraining orders are hard to obtain and even harder to enforce. But it is still an option that many women choose and one of the only that are available to them.

It is with this same ambivalence that I think about this law in France that will most likely pass, garnering unanimous support. Men who have a court order to stay away from their ex-partner will be electronically tagged and if they violate their court order police will be notified immediately.

The proposal is part of a draft law on conjugal violence. It has cross-party support and is expected to pass easily.

According to the government, around 160 women in France are murdered by their husbands or partners every year.

Parliament is also considering outlawing psychological violence in the home, because it is seen by many as a precursor to physical violence.

It is rare for the left and the right in France to agree on anything, says the BBC's Hugh Schofield, so the near unanimity in parliament behind this law comes as something of a novelty.

Everyone agrees that domestic violence is bad and getting worse.

Awareness on behalf of the government of the epidemic of violence against women is a good thing and will lead to more legislation that supports the rights of victims. Also, I think if I were one of these women, this would put my mind at ease on some level, knowing that police are being proactive about enforcing court orders. On the other hand, this is still part of the same cycle and system of violence. If someone wants to get to you, a bracelet that alerts your parole officer may not always stop them.

So while I am in support of this kind of legislation (even though the idea of "tagging" has a bit of a post-apocalyptic cyber realm thing going on with it), I think it should be paired with anti-violence and rehabilitation therapy and trainings to create long-term solutions to violence.

If you are living in NY than you woke up to several inches of snow outside. This is what my quiet Brooklyn street is looking like right now.

Posting might be limited today. Feministing is having a retreat this weekend and we are going to be getting ready to meet up this afternoon...assuming we can get our front doors open. There maybe some snowshoeing in my future.

If you are on the East Coast enjoy the snow today and hopefully whatever you were supposed to do was canceled. If you are not on the East Coast or in a place where it doesn't snow 12 inches all the times, well, be glad you don't have to deal with it. Or be jealous that we have an excuse to stay home :)

Posted by Samhita - February 26, 2010, at 08:55AM | in Events

Don't miss Miriam's takes on surrogacy and leadership by women of color in the reproductive justice movement.

Gotta love The Onion sometimes: Rise In Teen Pregnancy Proves Teens Still Got It

"While men make up the majority of abusers of street drugs, including meth, cocaine and heroin, women are just as likely to abuse prescription pills as men."

The panty fairy (and anonymous activists) visit a Dartmouth frat.

Check out my column this week on the field of architecture's diversity problem.

Salon asks, "Kathryn Bigelow: Feminist pioneer or tough guy in drag?"

Frisky's Jessica Wakeman interviews the woman who live-tweeted her abortion.

Posted by Courtney - February 25, 2010, at 05:01PM | in What We Missed

iPhone image with SEXIST over itFour days after shocking some users by suddenly removing over 5,000 apps with sexually-explicit content form the App Store, Apple (a) started talking about the decision and (b) created a new category called "explicit" apps. Phil Schiller, Apple's head of worldwide product marketing, told the New York Times:

It came to the point where we were getting customer complaints from women who found the content getting too degrading and objectionable, as well as parents who were upset with what their kids were able to see.

As the NYT reports, "Many software developers have long complained about Apple's strict screening process and, at times, seemingly arbitrary decisions about what was acceptable in the App Store." Tech bloggers have noted that Playboy and Sports Illustrated's swimsuit apps were untouched, while lesser-known developers had their salacious creations pulled.

If you connect the dots here, it seems pretty clear. Apple made a decision to block some unsavory apps based on an economic decision (women, target consumers, complained, as did parents). They knocked off the smaller app producers as a gesture of caring about sexism without pissing off their big friends, like Playboy and SI.

I'm not necessarily arguing that any of this should be censored. I don't know enough about the ways in which apps function (truth be told, I don't have an iPhone) and I'm generally one to fall in the free speech camp on most issues. But it's pretty clear that Apple is just watching their own asses, financially-speaking, not trying to actually explore the idea of creating a brand that appeals to progressive folks who care about things like, say, little girls not growing up to feel like their power lies in having a perfect body fit for iPhone apps.

I know that Apple is, at its core, a massive corporation that wants to make money, but is it really too much to expect that one of the world's most creative companies might come up with a creative solution for all this objectification? It's particularly disheartening that they're so blase and bottom line about it when so many are innovating at the intersections of profit and nonprofit, social enterprise and market opportunism.

For more see TechCrunch and Huffington Post.

See also:
New iPhone app rates your attractiveness
Need a hymen? There's an app for that.*
I knew there was a reason I didn't want an iPhone
The iGrope?

Thanks to Jaime for the heads up.

Posted by Courtney - February 25, 2010, at 04:19PM | in Sexism, Technology

self-portrait Jennifer Bartlett contributes her second guest post, an interview with artist Sunuara Taylor. Note: All the art works included are by Sunny. Without further adieu:

JB: I've been exploring the idea of disability as a strength rather than the societal perception of the disabled body as 'weak.' My idea derives from the concept that people with disabilities accomplish many of the same things that nondisabled people do with a so-called "compromised" body. I wonder what you think of this?

ST: Well firstly I'd like to touch on the word disabled. I like the definitions of the words disability and impairment that exist within the Social Model of Disability. Under this model, the word disabled is used to describe the disabling environment and culture that different bodies live in (for example stairs and negative stereotypes disable me). Impairment is used to describe one's body, one's diagnosis (which is in itself arguably a cultural creation). When I hear or say 'disabled people' I think of people who are oppressed not by their bodies (or not only by their bodies), but by a discriminating and inaccessible world. Thus, when I answer these questions, I'll be using the word impairment for when I'm talking about one's individual experience in their specific body and disabled when I am talking more broadly about the experience of living in a body that is disabled by society. Of course, sometimes they are too entangled to separate!

One of my favorite quotes and in fact definitions of impairment/disability comes from the disabled dancer/artist Neil Marcus. Marcus says, "Disability is not a 'brave struggle' or 'courage in the face of adversity'...disability is an art. It's an ingenious way to live." What I love about Marcus' quote is his focus on the creativity and ingenuity that is needed when living in a body that doesn't work/move in a normalized way and that is discriminated against. I am under the impression that being forced to think creatively and ingeniously makes one a stronger and often more interesting individual, but I hesitate to say outright that having an impairment is a strength in and of itself -but I also would NOT say it's a weakness. I would say the strength comes from a potential creativity that disabled people are forced to deal with out of necessity.


deadcalvesJB: What do you think of the liberal use in the media of words such as wheelchair bound, afflicted with disability, and suffering from disability? Are these terms problematic?

ST: I cringe at these terms! And also the use of words like handicapped, special, and metaphoric language that co-opts and stereotypes words like blind, crippled and paralyzed (i.e. the nation was crippled by the financial meltdown, or blind to the corporate takeover). I'm annoyed, but rarely surprised. Even the most progressive journalists like Amy Goodman use these terms on a regular bases.

Simi Linton, in her groundbreaking book Claiming Disability, has a chapter on why each of these terms are patronizing, stereotyping and generally misinformed.

They are all either loaded with intensely negative history or are biased towards negativity -we are suffering, bound, confined, afflicted -but in actuality wheelchairs are liberating and most of the suffering that comes from being disabled comes from dealing with a discriminating and stereotyping world.

I use the word disabled for its political meaning. Many of us in the disabled community use the word crippled, 'crip' or gimp as a reclaiming of names similar to how the gay community has reclaimed the word queer.

More interview, paintings, and bios after the jump.

Posted by Courtney - February 25, 2010, at 03:00PM | in Arts, Disability Rights

Exhibit A, according to CNN:

12:30 p.m.: Sen. John McCain slams the special deals inserted in the Senate health care bill, saying those should be removed so that the American people will know "that geography does not dictate what kind of health care they will receive."

Obama shoots back, "Let me just make this point, John, because we're not campaigning anymore. The election is over."

McCain interjects, "I'm reminded of that every day."

You know what we're reminded of every day McCain? That we no longer have a form of government that actually serves the American people. Rather, we are subjected to politicians obsessed with re-election, special interests, and the media spotlight. I honor what Obama is trying to do, even as the spectacle is further depressing me. Ugh.

Posted by Courtney - February 25, 2010, at 02:14PM | in Health, Health care, Politics

book cover of Girl Power by Marisa MeltzerI haven't had a chance to read Marisa Meltzer's awesome sounding new book, Girl Power: The Nineties Revolution in Music, but you know shit is promising when Viva la Feminista's six-year-old daughter is trying to catch a sneak peek. She wrote:

What I found most intriguing about the book was how Meltzer outlines how a group of feminists grabbed guitars, drums and the mic and launched a very real music revolution and then how that revolution was so successful that it is quickly evolved into what we typically think of as "Girl Power" music...Girl Power also made me stop and consider how do we want girls to discover feminism. Or more to the point, how do we think we can get them to discover feminism? My daughter has taken a liking to this book solely due to the title. The kid has asked me how I have liked the book, what it's about and tried to read over my shoulder.

92Y Tribeca is hosting a killer launch for the book on Wednesday, March 3rd, that includes a slide show, a dramatic reading from Courtney Love's diaries and performance by the band Supercute!. The panel features Sean Fennessey, the Director of Merchandising for eMusic.com and former Music Editor of VIBE, Emily Gould, of much blogger fame, Elizabeth Spiridakis, of White Lightning, and Marissa herself. If you're in the NYC-area, check it out. The complete deets.

Posted by Courtney - February 25, 2010, at 01:11PM | in Books, Girls, Music, Not Oprah's Book Club

We've covered the tragedy of untested rape kits at some length. Well, Human Rights Watch investigator Sarah Tofte, who spearheaded the initial work in LA, is currently leading comprehensive research in Illinois. Good news: she may not have to deal with the same disappointing reaction from the police department.

Chicago Attorney General Lisa Madigan announced new legislation introduced on February 9th, sponsored by Sen. Toi Hutchinson (D-40th) and Rep. Emily McCasey (D-85th), that would require all evidence of sexual assault to be submitted by the investigating law enforcement agency within 10 days of receiving it from the hospital. If the bill is passed, it also would require all law enforcement agencies to provide Illinois State Police with an inventory of all untested kits in their possession. This may sound obvious, but this would be groundbreaking precedent for the rest of the country. There are literally shelves and shelves of untested rape kits in most states in the union (13,000 in LA alone), and the police are under no legal obligation to get the kits processed. Madigan explained the significance of the legislation:

"Women who are victims of rape put their trust in authorities to bring their offenders to justice. When evidence that is so painstakingly collected sits untested, stored away on police departments' shelves, that trust is violated. This mandate must be put in place to assure rape victims that their cases will be effectively prosecuted and their offenders put behind bars. This legislation will put Illinois at the forefront of this issue and help bring about justice for victims."

Tofte told Feministing:

This bill will make Illinois the first state to require every booked rape kit be sent to the crime lab and tracked--two reforms necessary for the state to account for and eliminate its backlog. Our research in the state so far shows that only 20 percent of all booked rape kits are ever sent for testing. This is unacceptable. If this bill is passed, rape kits will come flooding into the crime lab, and the state will see what we know already--thousands of rape kits have gone untested in Illinois, denying justice to victims.

Read more here.

If you live in Illinois, now is that time to express your support for this legislation with your local representatives and spread the word!

Posted by Courtney - February 25, 2010, at 10:30AM | in Law, Sexual Assault, Thank You Thursdays

Lady Gaga on the cover of Q Magazine

Lady Gaga says of her strap-on attire on the cover of UK's Q magazine: "We all know that one of the biggest talking points of the year was that I have a dick, so why not give them what they want?"

Even better: "When a guy says, 'Oh I fucked all these chicks this week,' there's a high-five and giggling. But when a woman does it and its publicised or she's open about her sexuality or she's free or liberated, it's, 'Oh, she must have a dick.'"

Via Jezebel.

Posted by Jessica - February 25, 2010, at 09:42AM | in Bad-Ass Women, Media, Music, Sex

The New York Times reports:

New research is showing that eviction is a particular burden on low-income black women, often single mothers, who have an easier time renting apartments than their male counterparts, but are vulnerable to losing them because their wages or public benefits have not kept up with the cost of housing.

This will come as no surprise to those that have been following the ways in which this economic down turn has exacerbated many of the financial threats facing so many women and people of color, in particular. Just as corrupt mortgage companies have targeted low-income women, well-documented in places like Baltimore, women are now losing their rented housing at higher rates than men.

This new study focuses on Milwaukee, Wisconsin, where one of every 25 renter-occupied households in the city is evicted each year. In black neighborhoods, the rate is one in 14. Women from largely black neighborhoods in Milwaukee constitute 13 percent of the city's population, but 40 percent of those evicted.

But this isn't just a problem of the Midwest or of former industry towns like Milwaukee, straining for rejuvenation in tough times. According to the NYT: "Housing lawyers in Los Angeles and New York described a similar predominance of minority women, including Hispanic women, in eviction cases." According to Chester Hartman, an urban planner with the Poverty and Race Research Action Council in Washington, there have probably been millions of evictions nationwide in the last year, but unlike with foreclosures, data isn't easy to come by.

Why are women disproportionately targeted? The study lists a combination of factors, but a few of them are outrageous: "women more readily complain to city agencies about repairs, potentially angering landlords who then find excuses to evict them. And police reports of domestic violence can backfire on women, leading some landlords to seek evictions out of fear that they will be fined for tolerating disturbances."

See also:
Resisting Foreclosures Together
Domestic violence survivor evicted for reporting abuser

Thanks to John for the heads up.

Posted by Courtney - February 25, 2010, at 09:00AM | in Economy, Racism, Sexism

A blogger is YouTubing and live-tweeting her abortion, saying, "I'm doing this to de-mystify abortion."

Dana Goldstein talks to disability rights leaders about their skepticism towards Sarah Palin's disability advocacy (or lack thereof).

While the existing state health plan in South Carolina only covers abortion in cases of rape, incest or to save the life of the woman, apparently that wasn't enough for State Rep. Rex Rice, who introduced legislation that would ban abortion under any circumstance. Nice guy, he is.

Secretary of Defense Robert Gates has let Congress know of the Navy's plans to finally allow women aboard submarines.

Posted by Vanessa - February 24, 2010, at 05:46PM | in What We Missed

Awesome news: Today, Spain approved a sweeping new law that eases restrictions on abortion, declaring it a woman's right and removing the threat of imprisonment. The new law also allows women to obtain abortion without restrictions up to 14 weeks into the pregnancy, and gives 16- and 17-year-olds the right to have abortions without parental consent.

I'm especially excited about this because I see this latest legislative victory as part of an overall trend in Spain toward more liberal and pro-woman policies, despite quite vocal opposition from conservatives and the Catholic Church. As the article explains, this is just the latest of a series of reforms by Prime Minister Zapatero- under Zapatero, Spain has also legalized gay marriage and made it easier for Spaniards to divorce.

For more, check out the whole article on MSNBC.

Posted by Lori - February 24, 2010, at 04:51PM | in International, Law, Reproductive Rights

In December, the Center for Public Integrity (CPI) released a report not only about the fact that 95% of college campus rapes go unreported, but that survivors who do report often get no justice. Today, they have followed up with solid results from a year-long study, revealing that school judicial systems sanction little to no punishment for students responsible for sexual assault, often leading to repeat offenders. Via The Center:

The Center interviewed 50 experts familiar with the campus disciplinary process, as well as 33 female students who have reported being sexually assaulted by other students. The inquiry included a review of records in select cases; a survey of 152 crisis services programs and clinics on or near college campuses; and an examination of 10 years of complaints filed against institutions with the U.S. Education Department under Title IX and the Clery Act. The probe reveals that students deemed "responsible" for alleged sexual assaults on college campuses can face little or no consequence for their acts. Yet their victims' lives are frequently turned upside down. For them, the trauma of assault can be compounded by a lack of institutional support, and even disciplinary action. Many times, victims drop out of school, while their alleged attackers graduate. Administrators believe the sanctions commonly issued in the college judicial system provide a thoughtful and effective way to hold culpable students accountable, but victims and advocates say the punishment rarely fits the crime.

Additional data suggests that, on many campuses, abusive students face little more than slaps on the wrist. The Center has examined what is apparently the only database on sexual assault proceedings at institutions of higher education nationwide. Maintained by the U.S. Justice Department's Office on Violence Against Women, it includes information on about 130 colleges and universities receiving federal funds to combat sexual violence from 2003-2008, the most recent year available. Though limited in scope, the database offers a window into sanctioning by school administrations. It shows that colleges seldom expel men who are found "responsible" for sexual assault; indeed, these schools permanently kicked out only 10 to 25 percent of such students.

That means 75 to 90 percent of total disciplinary actions that schools do report are minor, some so minimal it's astounding -- such as making them send a letter of apology to their victim or write a research report on sexual violence. That's right, their punishment for sexual assault is to write a research paper. Other small sanctions are suspensions, social probation or counseling, despite the Justice Department's Office on Violence Against Women's recommendations to its college grant recipients to train their judicial panels to give "appropriate sanctions, such as expulsion." One example is to the right, where survivor Margaux J. of Indiana University describes her experience with the campus judicial panel she participated in. (More on her case here.)

And the Education Department, which is responsible for enforcing both the Clery Act and Title IX, rarely investigates complaints of botched school proceedings. When cases do go forward by their Office of Civil Rights, there are rarely any sanctions made against institutions. "The full extent of campus sexual assault is often hidden by secret proceedings, shoddy record-keeping, and an indifferent bureaucracy," says Center for Public Integrity Executive Director Bill Buzenberg. "Yet these are serious crimes that go largely unpunished. This is a troubling area of campus life that lacks much needed transparency and accountability."

In the meantime, we have college newspapers printing pieces that blame rape victims and women's magazines spreading the myth of "gray rape." If we can't rely on schools to hold students who commit sexual assault accountable, and we can't rely on our Education Department to hold those schools accountable for their inaction, where does that leave us? This is more than troubling; this is a crisis that's occurring on campuses across the country, and survivors deserve better.

Read all of their findings here.

Posted by Vanessa - February 24, 2010, at 03:55PM | in Education, Sexual Assault

No. Just no. For ice dancing in the Olympics this year, the theme was folk dancing. Who knew it would turn into this?

Despite the controversy Oksana Domnina and Maxim Shabalin created when Aboriginal leaders found out the Russian ice dancers' routine was an unbelievably offensive interpretation of Aborginal dance, all they did was "tone down" their costume (meaning not use as much face paint) but the dance was not altered. They came in third place on Sunday's competition. Via Yahoo! Sports:

The dance they did was more likely their interpretation of Aboriginal dance, though they claimed to have done research. Watching the dance Sunday night, one can understand why Aboriginal leaders were offended.

At times, Shabalin led Domnina around by her ponytail. They mugged, stuck out their tongues and mimicked the hand over mouth gesture that was once associated with American Indians.

You can see the routine here, it's pretty difficult to watch. Bev Manton, chairwoman of the New South Wales state Aboriginal Land Council said:

"I am offended by the performance and so are our other councillors...Aboriginal people for very good reason are sensitive about their cultural objects and icons being co-opted by non-Aboriginal people - whether they are from Australia or Russia. It's important for people to tread carefully and respectfully when they are depicting somebody else's culture, and I don't think this performance does."

She also notes the fact that their dark body suits put them on a "very slippery slope" to begin with. Sol Bellear of the Council adds, "We see it as stealing aboriginal culture, and it is yet another example of the aboriginal people of Australia being exploited."

Via Pam.

Posted by Vanessa - February 24, 2010, at 02:44PM | in Racism, Sports

Looks like we have a new Carrie Prejean on our hands, except not only does this beauty queen oppose same-sex marriage, but promotes the abomination and death of gay people.

While headlines are popping up everywhere about how Miss Beverly Hills Lauren Ashley opposes same-sex marriage, where are the headlines about her contention that God thinks gays should be put to death? Here's one (content may be upsetting):

"The Bible says that marriage is between a man and a woman," Ashley told FOX News. "In Leviticus it says, 'If man lies with mankind as he would lie with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination. They shall surely be put to death and their blood shall be upon them.' The Bible is pretty black and white."

Oh, and there's more:

"I feel like God himself created mankind and he loves everyone, and he has the best for everyone...If he says that having sex with someone of your same gender is going to bring death upon you, that's a pretty stern warning, and he knows more than we do about life."

But she adds to Fox News that she has lots of gay friends and "there's no hate between [her] and anyone." So since she has gay friends, it's okay to think they should die for their sins! Unreal.

Posted by Vanessa - February 24, 2010, at 01:04PM | in Queer Issues

New York Fashion Week wrapped up recently and London Fashion Week is underway, which means images of dangerously thin, overwhelmingly white models are everywhere in the media. Of course, such images are ubiquitous year round, often coupled with articles about the latest diet sure to make you impossibly thin, too.

The Eating Disorders Section of the Royal College of Psychiatrists, the UK's main professional organization of psychiatrists, has begun a campaign to oppose the media's over-representation of incredibly thin models and glamorizing of eating disorders. They are calling for a new editorial code and a symbol placed on images that have been airbrushed.

"Eating disorders, such as anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa, are serious mental illnesses," said [Dr. Adrienne] Key.

"Although biological and genetic factors play an important role in the development of these disorders, psychological and social factors are also significant," she added, saying that was why the RCPsych was urging the media "to take greater responsibility for the messages it sends out".

As a person who's struggled with eating disorders I agree the media has a big influence. When nearly every image is telling you the standard of beauty is thin as well as cisgender, white, and able bodied, and you're already struggling with your relationship with eating, it's hard not to try to fit that image.

As Amanda Marcotte points out, in the US there seems to be only two polarized approaches to food: overeating or anorexia. And anorexia is encouraged. Diets are supposed to be the answer to obesity (which the media seems to think is the worst thing ever), but too often they aren't a way to shift one's long term relationship with food and physical activity. Instead they're a structured form of disordered eating, often with other people encouraging you, that are socially acceptable to speak about positively in public. The "Air Diet" may be an extreme example, but not by much.

Where's the representation of an the option beyond overeating or starving yourself? Where's the space to negotiate a positive relationship with your body and the food you eat? I agree with the psychiatrists, the press is outright encouraging disordered eating and a negative body image. It's way past time they stopped.

Posted by Jos - February 24, 2010, at 11:43AM | in Body Image, Media

You may already know we're not the biggest fan of Dr. Laura, but she just keeps coming back to piss us off.

The Sexist covered her most recent video chat, addressing a question by a listener about stay-at-home dads. Her response? That being the family's breadwinner could lead these women to extreme emasculation (sounds like a good band name) of their men:

[W]hen the moms are working, and the dads are at home, the moms, the women, the wives, tend to change their feelings somewhat about their husbands. They tend not to see them as the heroes. The warrior. The man. The caretaker. The provider. The protector. And those feelings are really very significant. And I have found over the years that there often is more marital strife when the roles are reserved. Whether you're a feminist or not, whether you like it or not, them's just the facts.

Apparently she didn't get the memo that this isn't 1950 and we're not in a Disney movie. But the doctor makes sure to say it's a-okay if you want to be a working mother, as long as you still know your place:

Now: it often works very well. And when it works very well--OK, when it works very well it's good for the kids, when it doesn't work very well, it's not good for the kids. The point is not, are the rolls reversed and is that good for the children? The point is, are the parents RHHHHGGG about it? Is dad being treated with less respect? Is mom coming home sort of bitter that she's not with the kids, and feeling like since she earns the money, she's the boss? If there is this kind of negativity and dissention, that hurts the kids.

Mom can't be having, you know, too much respect or anything! Amanda says, "In other words, are you still treating mom like a woman (with less respect), and dad like a man (the boss)? You're good to go." Indeed. If anyone needs advice, it's Dr. Laura -- on what year it is.

Approximate transcript after the jump.

Posted by Vanessa - February 24, 2010, at 10:19AM | in Motherhood, Sexism, Work

This isn't good, folks. A bill passed by the House and Senate in Utah this week could make it a crime to have a miscarriage, with penalties up to life in prison. RH Reality Check reports:

The bill passed by legislators amends Utah's criminal statute to allow the state to charge a woman with criminal homicide for inducing a miscarriage or obtaining an illegal abortion. The basis for the law was a recent case in which a 17-year-old girl, who was seven months pregnant, paid a man $150 to beat her in an attempt to cause a miscarriage. Although the girl gave birth to a baby later given up for adoption, she was initially charged with attempted murder. However the charges were dropped because, at the time, under Utah state law a woman could not be prosecuted for attempting to arrange an abortion, lawful or unlawful.

The bill passed by the Utah legislature would change that. While the bill does not affect legally obtained abortions, it criminalizes any actions taken by women to induce a miscarriage or abortion outside of a doctor's care, with penalties including up to life in prison.

Lynn Paltrow of National Advocates for Pregnant Women tells RH that while other states have feticide laws specified to prosecute third-party attackers, directing it at the woman will have severe repercussions. It could create cases where women are prosecuted for having an unintentional miscarriage if there is any indication of "reckless behavior," like drink alcohol and miscarry, or do any number of other things that could be deemed "reckless." Next thing you know, you're sentenced to time in prison for criminal homicide.

The bill awaits the governor's signature. If you live in Utah, contact him and let him know just how dangerous this bill is. Amplify also has a community post with more ways to take action.

Posted by Vanessa - February 24, 2010, at 09:01AM | in Health, Law, News, Reproductive Rights

W.E.B. DuBois, civil rights activist and scholar, was born today.

Senator Rockefeller says he probably would not vote to pass the public option through reconciliation. Not a good sign.

Harry Reid points out a statistical relationship between male unemployment and domestic violence against women. Of course he says it in a problematic way - he's Harry Reid.

Kansas State Rep. Steve Brunk compares rape to having your car stolen.

Kenya is poised to ban abortion in their constitution.

Posted by Jos - February 23, 2010, at 05:00PM | in What We Missed

Check out Miriam's new piece about surrogacy over at RH Reality Check:

Surrogacy is a complicated subject, to say the least. It involves many of the issues central to reproductive justice--bodily autonomy, a woman's right to abortion, definitions of parenthood, and custody of children. It's also an option increasingly relied upon by gay couples--usually gay men--to create families. It invariably brings up concerns about racial and economic justice when the majority of surrogates are low-income and many are women of color. It's an issue on which few reproductive rights and justice groups are currently working but one that deserves our close attention.

Click here to read the article.

Posted by Jos - February 23, 2010, at 04:00PM | in Reproductive Justice, Reproductive Rights

Fears and negative assumptions about immigrants have been used by opponents of health care reform to build opposition, appealing to an already large anti-immigrant sentiment in the U.S. This came to a head when Joe Wilson shouted "You lie!" after President Obama spoke the sad truth that undocumented immigrants would not be eligible for federal subsidies to purchase health insurance.

Via the National Latina Institute for Reproductive Health's blog comes word of a study conducted by Project HOPE that refutes the assumption that providing health care to immigrants requires too much public funding:

An examination of health care spending during 1999-2006 for adult naturalized citizens and immigrant noncitizens (which includes some undocumented immigrants) finds that the cost of providing health care to immigrants is lower than that of providing care to U.S. natives and that immigrants are not contributing disproportionately to high health care costs in public programs such as Medicaid.

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In fact, noncitizens, most of whom are recent immigrants, use fewer health care resources than even naturalized citizens. The one exception appears to be that noncitizens have a significantly greater proportion of uncompensated and charity care than naturalized citizens or U.S. natives. However, this finding likely reflects noncitizens' poor access to care and low socioeconomic status.

These findings have important implications regarding both immigration reform and health care reform. The debate about health reform throughout 2009 ignored how the immigrant population, and particularly noncitizens, would be treated under a new system. The Personal Responsibility and Work Opportunity Reconciliation Act blocked immigrants' access to much public health insurance coverage, which we suspect is partly responsible for the high level of uncompensated and charity care being provided to noncitizens. The noncitizen and recent immigrant populations have been given few options to obtain high-quality, affordable health care.

Anti-immigrant and anti-government sentiments combine well to serve those spreading false information in their attempts to block health care reform. Sadly these myths have played into legislation that makes it harder for immigrants to access the care they need. The real issue, in fact, is a lack of access.

I don't think cost should be a reason to give up on the idea of providing necessary care and support, but this study shows money's not even the issue. Immigrant's lives are being caught in the middle of a fight that has nothing to do with reality.

Posted by Jos - February 23, 2010, at 03:12PM | in Health care, Immigration

Because it's never too early to shame girls about body hair and normalize hair removal. This doll teaches children to remove hair from those typical problem areas like sides, ankles, and that pesky full bikini bottom of hair that wraps around your waist.

Two pictures of You Can Shave the Baby doll in its box. Baby doll has lots of orange hair on its head, underarms and sides, crotch, around its waist, and around its ankles.

via The Frisky.

UPDATE: Turns out the doll is an art piece designed to highlight the socialization of girls. Guess it worked.

Posted by Jos - February 23, 2010, at 02:11PM | in Children, Sexism

Virginia State Delegate Bob Marshall said Thursday at a press conference opposing funding for Planned Parenthood that children with disabilities are a punishment from God for women who have previously had abortions:

"The number of children who are born subsequent to a first abortion with handicaps has increased dramatically. Why? Because when you abort the first born of any, nature takes its vengeance on the subsequent children," said Marshall, a Republican.

"In the Old Testament, the first born of every being, animal and man, was dedicated to the Lord. There's a special punishment Christians would suggest."

What a disgusting statement in so many ways, from the cruel ableism of saying children with disabilities are a punishment at all to the false claim that there is a link between abortion and disability in subsequent pregnancies.

This was just one part of the lies and offensive statements from Marshall's press conference. Speakers also perpetuated the black genocide conspiracy and Marshall claimed Planned Parenthood received about $500,000 annually from the state, when in fact the organization receives about $35,000 a year in Medicaid reimbursements.

Marshall issued a sort of apology/retraction on his website, one of those "I regret it if you took my words badly" statements. I'm not buying it given his history of incendiary comments about abortion and gay rights.

You can sign a petition calling for Bob Marshall's resignation here.

Posted by Jos - February 23, 2010, at 11:20AM | in Disability Rights, Reproductive Justice, Reproductive Rights

Last week "The Dr. Oz Show" featured interviews with two transgender youth, their families, and a Doctor who works with young trans folks. The teaser and opening video package were typically sensationalistic. But the interviews were very different from previous daytime talk show segments about trans folks. Dr. Oz asked important questions without being overly invasive about anatomy or the details of surgery. His framing of questions also recognized the young people's genders as real and accurate and did not focus on the gender they were assigned at birth. This may sound like a very basic level of respect and accuracy, but it's pretty much unprecedented in a talk show segment about trans folks.

Here's video of the segment, broken into two parts:

A transcript of the show can be found here.

For more information and resources about transgender youth check out Trans Youth Families Allies. You can also sign a petition thanking Dr. Oz for this groundbreaking coverage.

Posted by Jos - February 23, 2010, at 10:10AM | in Children, Transgender Issues, Video

The cruelty of Nicaragua's extreme abortion ban is undeniable in the case of Amelia (an alias), a 27-year-old woman with cancer. Passed in 2006, the law criminalizes abortion, even if the woman's life or health is at risk. Amelia, who has a 10-year-old daughter, needs to have an abortion so she can undergo treatment for the cancer, which may have metastasized in her brain, lungs and breasts.

The Strategic Group for the Decriminalization of Therapeutic Abortion in Nicaragua, whose members include the Nicaraguan Center for Human Rights, the OB-GYN Society, the New Family Association (ANFAN) and international organizations including Women's Link Worldwide, the Center for Justice and International Law (CEJIL) and IPAS Central America, filed a petition on February 18th with the Inter-American Commission of Human Rights to demand the Nicaraguan government adopt urgent precautionary measures to protect Amelia's life.

From a statement from these organizations:

Even though the treating physicians concluded that the patient requires an abortion to initiate chemotherapy and radiotherapy treatment, the young woman has been hospitalized since January 29th without being able to receive an abortion and therefore, without receiving any kind of treatment to stop the cancer.

Under these circumstances, Amelia is in imminent danger of losing her life, given the impossibility of accessing an abortion. Under current Nicaraguan law, women in need of therapeutic abortions to save their life or protect their health are in fact, sentenced to death. Additionally, in this case, her minor daughter would be orphaned.

Too often, abortion laws completely ignore the lived realities in which the procedure takes place. Nicaragua's law is the antithesis of pro-life since, if followed, it could mean this woman's death.

UPDATE: The coalition working on this case is asking individuals and organizations to take action. Head over to RH Reality Check to find out how you can help.

Posted by Jos - February 23, 2010, at 09:03AM | in International, Reproductive Justice, Reproductive Rights

It looks like Hawaii is about to repeal it's extremely restrictive state abortion policy, which has been on the books for over one hundred years. Yay! (This would be a today in history what we missed, since this article is from 1970--thanks for the correction commenters!)

Holla Back NYC is shooting it's first ever PSA and looking for participants! Check out the details here.

Feministing has been nominated for a Lezzy Award in the Feminist/Political category! Go vote for us.

The cast of Glee has been invited to perform at the White House by President Obama. Pretty cool!

It's National Eating Disorder's Awareness Week.

Posted by Miriam - February 22, 2010, at 05:00PM | in What We Missed

Our awesome columnist Shark-Fu is celebrating her birthday today!

angry black bitch logo, red yellow and green letters on a black afro

Check out her site and send her some birthday love in comments.

Posted by Miriam - February 22, 2010, at 04:20PM | in Feministing

Go read our girl Jessica's first piece in the Washington Post.

Posted by Miriam - February 22, 2010, at 03:28PM | in Feminism, Sexism

flyer for Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month. Painting of a line of teens with their backs to us. Hotline number 1-866-321-9474

February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month. In honor of the month, and of the 15th anniversary of the Violence Against Women Act and the establishment of the Office on Violence Against Women as part of the Department of Justice, DOJ had a blogger call last week.

This was a first for the DOJ, and definitely indicative of the new outreach strategies of this administration. I'm entirely sure who was on the call, but some of my favorite feminist bloggers asked questions.

The call focused on the efforts of OVW and DOJ to combat Teen Dating Violence. They have an emphasis on online harassment and specifically mentioned "sexting" and cell-phone based harassment.

They also mentioned that Obama's budget for 2011 includes a "29% increase in funds specifically targeted to address sexual assault and violence against women."

They are running this website, Love is Respect, as part of the campaign to combat Teen Dating Violence.

Posted by Miriam - February 22, 2010, at 12:12PM | in Violence Against Women

Via Sociological Images, we bring you Butch Bakery.

photo from website of butch bakery. big shot of cupcake with camouflage disc on top. text reads Butch it up Buttercup, These ain't your grandma's cupcakes. Our objective is simple. We're men. Men who like cupcakes. Not the frilly pink frosted sprinkles and unicorns kind of cupcakes. We make manly cupcakes. For manly men.

Text reads: Butch it up Buttercup, These ain't your grandma's cupcakes. Our objective is simple. We're men. Men who like cupcakes. Not the frilly pink frosted sprinkles and unicorns kind of cupcakes. We make manly cupcakes. For manly men.

With that kind of name (and located in NYC) I half expected it to be a super gay bakery catering to Butch lesbians and gay men.

I guessed wrong.

These cupcakes seem to be in line with our new era of anxious masculinity. We saw it layed out in the Docker's ad campaign Vanessa posted, and further reiterated in the series of Super Bowl commercials that Jessica covered.

Butch Bakery has had so much success so far they've had to postpone the delivery of new orders.

Posted by Miriam - February 22, 2010, at 11:00AM | in Food, Gender

In advance of the White House organized health care summit this Thursday, President Obama and his team have just released their health care plan.

From what has been said about the plan so far, it follows closely along with the senate version of the health care reform bill, including on it's stance on abortion. The Senate version still had limits on health insurance funding for abortion, including a system that would force women who wanted abortion coverage to write two separate checks each month for their insurance premiums.

There is no public option in this plan either.

For more, go to the White House website.

Posted by Miriam - February 22, 2010, at 10:19AM | in Health care


Tegan and Sara, Wake Up Exhausted

Last week I went to a Tegan and Sara concert. If you aren't familiar with them, they are a Canadian music duo comprised of queer twins, Tegan and Sara. Their music has become more popular over the years and they played an awesome show in DC.

Seeing them perform for the second time got me thinking back to when I first got to know their music. It was the summer before my senior year of college, and I had just come out. I was living in my hometown, doing a program at the local university. I didn't know any queer folks there and didn't feel comfortable coming out to the other students in the program.

I did a lot of reading that summer, and a lot of listening to music.

I was lucky enough to see Tegan and Sara in concert that summer, along with Melissa Ferrick, another lesbian musician. Those two musicians became the soundtrack to my coming out. That summer was the time when I really became comfortable with myself, after a tumultuous few months of self-exploration allowed me to admit what I had been avoiding for years.

I've included two of their songs that really take me back to that time, lyrics after the jump.

Melissa Ferrick, Will You Be the One

Posted by Miriam - February 22, 2010, at 09:38AM | in Music, Personal Is Political

Our very own Professor Foxy was awarded a Young Women of Achievement Award by the Women's Information Network last week.

Women's Information Network is a local DC group for pro-choice democratic women.

She was recognized for her achievement in the area of non-profit service and advocacy.

Congrats Professor Foxy!

Posted by Miriam - February 22, 2010, at 08:47AM | in Feministing

Media scaremongering about women's "ovarian reserves."

As Jessica puts it, "We're suffering under the mass delusion that women in America have achieved equality."

The story of Sharbat Gula, the woman who, as a 17-year-old, was featured on the cover of National Geographic.

How the college abstinence movement falsely bills itself as pro-woman.

What if there was just a Best Acting category in the Oscars?

"Not to be a broken record about this, but the notion that most rapes are a matter of women making drunken choices and regretting it later doesn't match the realities."

This is an abbreviated list of links this week, as my internet connection is spotty... So let me turn things over to you all: What have you been reading/writing?

Posted by Ann - February 21, 2010, at 06:46PM | in Weekly Feminist Reader

This weekly Saturday column "Ask Professor Foxy" will regularly contain sexually explicit material. This material is likely not safe for work viewing. The title of the column will include the major topic of the post, so please read the topic when deciding whether or not to read the entire column.

Dear Professor Foxy,
I am a divorced mom to a six and a half year old daughter. My relationship with my ex has been over for about two years. I was married for seven years, and in the relationship for 11, so I didn't really get much experience dating when I was younger. I'm very sex positive, and have used this opportunity to explore my sexuality, explore intimacy, and explore what I really think about dating in general. So I've had a bit of a learning curve, but its been fun. I have started considering the possibility that I might want a real relationship again, and suddenly I feel clueless, and hopeless.

What I'm at a loss for is dating around my daughter. I am having a hard time deconstructing what sort of exposure to dating is healthy for her and for me. Up until this point, I've erred on the side of keeping my sex and dating life completely and totally secret and separate from my mom life. This has worked fine for the short term, but what I'm realizing as I move forward is that keeping these spheres separate undermines any attempt at building any sort of real relationship from the very beginning of that relationship. Conversely, I certainly don't want to introduce my daughter to every possible romantic partner on the first or even second or third date, especially not until I'm serious about them or am sure if it will become a longer term relationship.

What scares me about my thinking, and about my actions is all of the sudden, I feel like I have two choices I recognize as the false and sexist dichotomy we all know; the virgin or the whore. If she sees me date anyone who isn't 'the one' (or a 'revolving door' of men) I'm a whore and a bad mom and she's going to have 'issues'. Appearing asexual, however, damages my chances of ever finding real intimacy (I don't want to be single until she's out of the house!) but I also worry that this charade (appearing asexual and pretending not to date) might also ruin her understanding of what it is to be a healthy sexual woman and how to develop happy relationships.

So my question is, how does a feminist single mom be a good role model to their daughter AND date? I've always been proactive about helping her to understand and question gender norms. Even the ones we both happily partake in (playing with makeup) we discuss critically and openly. Even sex, and babies, and all sorts of topics that pose some parents difficulties, have not been difficult for me. Why is this one topic sooooo hard for me to figure out?! How do I decide which guys to introduce my daughter to? How do I talk to her about it? How sure am I supposed to be in the prospects of a relationship for her to meet them? Assuming that meeting goes well, how sure before she sees us kiss, hug, or hold hands? Do I ever let anybody I'm not sure I'm going to marry ever (ever?) stay the night? Are these things I'll just KNOW when I find the right person? Ugh, I'm so confused and scared and worried and afraid of being judged or doing the wrong thing for her. But I know the right thing for me and my happiness is to date, and to give her limited exposure to the fact that I do date, BUT how?!

Sincerely Confused,
Sexy Feminist Single Mom

Hi SFSM -

I don't think there is one set answer, though I think you can find a lot of experts that will tell you that there is.

I think what matters is honesty within healthy boundaries. Your sex life is not your daughter's business, but your relationships can be. I am sure she has many people who were just friends of yours. You can introduce lovers/potential lovers as friends. When/if things get more serious and a lover is around more often, you can explain about dating. But you don't need to jump there.

I would also to keep the same boundaries you have with friends with lovers. For example, if friends stay over your house (and/or in your bed), do the same with lovers. Your daughter does not know all your friends, just the special ones. I would do the same with dates/lovers.

I once saw Robie Harris speak. She writes amazing, amazing books about sex and sexuality for children. In the course of her presentation, she talked about how as adults we tend to be overly explicit in our answers to children about sex and dating, about how we as adults freak out "OMIGOD THEY ARE ASKING ABOUT SEX!" instead of listening to what they are actually asking and addressing that issue.

You don't have two paths, you have a multitude and many of them are down the middle. She will see you date some men, she will watch you make choices that are the best for you, and that is a good role for your daughter. You will be teaching her that women and mothers are sexual beings and she does not have to choose just one path. And that is definitely being a good role model.

Best,
Professor Foxy


If you have a question for Professor Foxy, send it to ProfessorFoxyATfeministingDOTcom.

Posted by Professor Foxy - February 20, 2010, at 04:18PM | in Ask Professor Foxy, Motherhood

kjheadshotone.jpgKierra Johnson is the Executive Director of Choice USA, a pro-choice organization based in Washington, DC. Choice USA campaigns to make emergency contraception available, repeal the Hyde Amendment, uncover the deception of Crisis Pregnancy Centers and much, much more. Johnson has been with Choice USA for a decade; she started her career there by training at the Gloria Steinem Leadership Institute, and ten years later, she's running the show. Kierra is also a member of the Women's Health Leadership Network with the Center for American Progress and was a member of the Board of Medical Students for Choice from 2003 to 2006.

Johnson is responsible for the creation of Choice USA's Generation Awards, designed to recognize young activists and to "show the world that young people in the United States are not only aware and interested in the social and political events that shape our lives and those of our communities around the world, but that we are actively thinking and strategizing about how to make a positive and lasting impact towards social change." Sounds an awful lot like the Feministing community, if you ask me!

Incidentally, Choice USA is hiring! If you're looking for a job with a great feminist organization, check out these openings.

And now, without further ado, the Feministing Five, with Kierra Johnson.

Help make women's ski jumping an Olympic event in 2014.

From Forbes: Best-Paying Jobs That Women Aren't In

Two popular conservative websites - Andrew Breitbart's Big Journalism and NewsBusters - have hired Jill Stanek as a blogger. Do they know they've just hired a woman who argues that Chinese people and abortion providers EAT FETUSES?

Just when you thought CPAC couldn't get any creepier.

Posted by Jessica - February 19, 2010, at 06:19PM | in What We Missed

I've been thinking a lot lately about the way we do politics in this country. Not just the approach of politicians, but how politically engaged people who care about social justice issues direct our time, energy, and funds. I've watched us go from talk of universal health care to a bill that might very well die, or might empower the insurance companies by forcing everyone to buy from them, create a working class tax increase to pay for expanded access, further restrict access to abortion... It seems we have to admit the opponents of health care reform are doing something right and we're doing something wrong. OK, probably a lot of somethings plus events that cannot be controlled (the loss of Ted Kennedy as a leader in this fight was a huge blow). The issue that's stood out to me, though, has been the focusing of grassroots energy on winning elections more than on winning on issues.

You need power to win in politics. But what is winning? The point of politics should be to win on our issues. Elections are important - this couldn't be more obvious after recent events in Massachusetts. We need politicians in place who will be willing to enact our agenda. But hey look, there's a Democratic majority in the House and Senate and a Democrat in the White House, and real health care reform spent the past year falling apart.

Right now winning is defined primarily as getting candidates into office. This makes sense for politicians and the parties that support them: their goal is to be in power, to get more powerful. Once in office politicians are unlikely to act on our issues unless it would hurt them politically not to. Corporate interests are pumping money into Washington to push their agendas. So action from constituents is crucial to get politicians to enact an agenda we support.

It took a lot of work to get Barack Obama elected. I wasn't part of that organizing, but I saw many friends give up their free time and personal lives to dedicate themselves to the campaign. This is the sort of work that was needed to get a candidate into office. But that's the easiest part of the process. Pushing elected officials to enact an agenda we support takes a lot more work. Many people have dedicated their lives to fighting for universal health care, and many more have been working non-stop this past year to pass health care reform. But this work needed to be done at a scale larger than the Obama campaign, and that just hasn't happened.

Posted by Jos - February 19, 2010, at 04:47PM | in Deep Thoughts, Health care, Politics

Text logo for From Abortion Rights to Reproductive Justice Building the Movement for Reproductive Freedom

As Miriam wrote on Monday, Feministing is partnering with the Civil Liberties and Public Policy program (CLPP) this year on their annual conference From Abortion Rights to Social Justice: Building the Movement for Reproductive Freedom (Remember to get those applications for travel and hotel stipends in by February 24th if you need help accessing the conference).

I couldn't be more thrilled by this partnership, as CLPP activated me in the reproductive justice movement. I showed up to a CLPP student group meeting my second year of college at the prodding of my friend Julia, who a year before had been present in the Feminist Legal Theory class where I finally moved away from the pro-life views I was raised with. I came to CLPP with very limited knowledge about the range of issues that impact people's reproductive health and rights. What I found in the student group was a positive, supporting community where I could gain new knowledge and deepen my understanding of issues while also playing an active role in vital organizing work.

The CLPP student group shoulders a big part of the responsibility for putting the conference together and making sure everything runs smoothly during the event. Students aren't just doing grunt work, as too often happens when young people are involved in larger organizing projects. They take on major responsibilities like organizing and running childcare, transportation, the abortion speak-out, and entertainment, and working on accessibility issues.

Student group members have an important impact on the conference beyond logistics, too. The issues covered at the conference are always expanding and the ways they're approached are constantly improving based on student input. Marlene Fried, CLPP's Director, recently pointed out to me that the increased focus on gender and sexuality and especially trans issues has come primarily from the students and younger staff. The conference doesn't lose its focus on any important topics, but new intersections are always being highlighted.

Posted by Jos - February 19, 2010, at 03:05PM | in Conferences, Reproductive Justice

Headshot of Rep. Charles Van Zant
Rep. Charles Van Zant wants to criminalize abortion

Oh, Florida.

Sponsored by Rep. Charles Van Zant (R-Palatka), HB 1097 would criminalize abortion, and make for no exceptions for rape or incest. And then there's this:

Except in cases where a woman's life is considered in danger, doctors who perform abortions would face first degree felonies punishable by up to life in prison and civil fines.

Now obviously I don't think anyone should be put in prison over abortion, but I do find it interesting that this bill focuses on abortion providers - not the women obtaining abortions.

It reminds me of this video that asked anti-choice protesters how much prison time a woman should get for procuring an abortion. The protesters pretty much couldn't answer not only because some had never even thought about it (!), but also because the general anti-choice sentiment is that women are victims of abortion. That we're too stupid or naive to realize that when we're getting an abortion, we're getting an abortion. (Hence all of the ultrasound laws that exist to "remind" us.)

In any case, if you'd like to let Rep. Van Zant know what you think of his bill, you can email him here.

Posted by Jessica - February 19, 2010, at 01:41PM | in Reproductive Justice, Reproductive Rights

The Princess Comic Strip. Panel 1: Princess Sarah, a young girl with pigtails in a jumper with a flower on it and Mary Jane flats pauses while walking. Speaker out of panel:
Click to view full size image

The Princess is a webcomic by Christine Smith that launched a few months ago about a young trans girl named Princess Sarah. It's a spin off from Christine's webcomic Eve's Apple, which I like, but I love The Princess so far.

The story has focused on Princess Sarah's parents' differing reactions to her identifying as female, changing her name, and wanting to wear girls clothes. There is also a plot line about Princess Sarah and her best friend Irma, who's a tomboy, as well as one about a bully in their class. Christine handles all these stories with sensitivity and humor.

I like the subtle changes in drawing style Christine has made for The Princess. Maybe because the lead characters are so young their designs are simpler than those of the older character's in Eve's Apple. This makes them easier to identify with. Humans see ourselves in everything - electrical sockets, the two dots and a dash that make a smiley face - and the simpler the representation of a face the easier it is to project ourselves onto and identify with it. This really works to the advantage of a comic about a trans girl.

I highly recommend jumping into reading The Princess while the comic is still new, and catching up on Eve's Apple if you have the time, too (though there are a lot more completed pages to catch up on!). It makes this comics geek really happy to see well done stories about trans folks in webcomics form.

Posted by Jos - February 19, 2010, at 11:10AM | in Children, Transgender Issues

Midwives who had been delivering babies at St. John's Pleasant Valley Hospital in Camarillo, CA have been forbidden from delivering at that facility.

Midwives are still able to deliver babies at St. John's Regional Medical Center, 11 miles away in Oxnard. The reason given is that this larger facility has a neonatal intensive care unit.

From the Ventura County Star:

The two midwives who deliver at least 60 babies a year at the Camarillo hospital said they don't understand the reasoning because they rarely have complications.

"Midwives only see and deliver normal and healthy patients," said Lynn Olson, who commutes to The Woman's Place for Health in Camarillo from Agoura Hills. "In the two-and-a-half years I've been working here I believe I've had one NICU (neonatal intensive care unit) patient."

But [president and CEO of St. John's in Oxnard and Camarillo T. Michael] Murray said the hospital's medical staff felt more comfortable with putting midwives in a site where they were backed up by the intensive care unit.

"This is for safety of the patients," he said.

Midwives said they're worried that patients who want to deliver their babies at a Camarillo obstetrics unit they described as quiet and homey may not want to go a busy, much larger hospital. They also questioned why hospital leaders decided midwives need immediate access to the intensive care unit but obstetricians-gynecologists who routinely handle high-risk births do not.

In an email Joyce Weckl, CNM (Certified Nurse-Midwife), who had been delivering babies at St. John's Pleasant Valley, outlines the lack of clear medical reasoning for this change in policy:

There has never been any sort of peer review over the quality of CNM care nor were we invited or aware of any of these proceedings. In fact, the letter they sent me (3 days before this became effective) stated that this was no reflection whatsoever on my care. It also stated that I was not entitled to a hearing or review. Our belief is that this policy is the result of several political agendas of certain members of the medical staff and has no basis in evidence or statistics. I also feel that this is not just about midwifery but also about women's health care options being determined by back room dealings and not evidence based medical care.

It's hard to view this decision as being motivated by anything but a distrust of midwives, especially when OB/GYNs who deal with higher-risk pregnancies are still able to use the smaller facility. The medical establishment has taken control of birth in the US over the past century, thinking advances in medical science would make the process safer. This is true to a certain degree, but banning midwives, who normalize and humanize the birth process and are performing safe births, is not the answer. Especially when it doesn't align with the facts. As Miriam wrote at Radical Doula recently, maternal mortality rates in California have spiked in recent years, and this can be linked to the increased rate of c-sections in the state. The overuse of technology is actually having a harmful impact on the safety of births.

Access is a major issue, too. An 11 mile drive can be a big deal when you're giving birth, even if you do have a car and someone to drive you. What about patients who don't have and can't afford transportation to the larger facility?

The Birth Action Coalition is organizing to raise awareness and protest the hospital's decision. Check out their website for ways to get involved and support their work.

Posted by Jos - February 19, 2010, at 10:00AM | in Health care, Motherhood, Reproductive Justice, Reproductive Rights

As was mentioned in Samhita's post about the despicable race bating anti-choice billboards in Georgia, antis in the state are also pushing legislation - House Bill 1155, the Sex and Race Selection Bill - that would make it illegal for reproductive health care providers to "solicit" women of color for abortions.

This deceptive legislation is designed to create a wedge between social justice communities working on issues of race and abortion access, as if the two aren't very often the same organizers and organizations.

SisterSong Women of Color Reproductive Health Collective is working to expose the lies packed in this legislation. You can listen to a recent radio piece and read a partial transcript, in which Heidi Williamson from SisterSong speaks out against the legislation, here.

The following us from a press release about the legislation [pdf]:

If implemented, this bill will adversely impact abortion providers by requiring them to prove that they are not targeting women of a certain race or ethnicity. This burden could result in delayed medical services, particularly for women of color. Additionally, this legislation would alter the racketeering laws of the Georgia Code to include abortion providers. This is unacceptable as abortion is legal in the State of Georgia, and the alleged abuses of this medical procedure are unfounded.

This legislation has nothing to do with abortion providers targeting women of color. It plays into and perpetuates the black genocide conspiracy that Shark-Fu critiqued recently and that's been getting even more play than usual from anti-choice organizations during this year's Black History Month. The bill is really about demonizing providers and restricting women of color's access to reproductive health services, including abortion.

Posted by Jos - February 19, 2010, at 09:01AM | in Racism, Reproductive Justice, Reproductive Rights, Women of Color

There were a whole line of badass women born today, including Toni Morrison, Yoko Ono, and the amazing Audre Lorde. One of my favorites quotations from Lorde: "I have come to believe over and over again that what is most important to me must be spoken, made verbal and shared, even at the risk of having it bruised or misunderstood."

A global study of over 4000 MBA graduate women and men interviewed from 26 grad schools around the world was published today by Catalyst. The bottom line? The pipeline is still broken for women.

Discrimination against academic mothers continues.

Oh look, Fox News got the memo that it is not 1955.

Will Brazil have its first female president soon?

A sex ed video game called Adventures in Sex City, launched last week by the Middlesex-London Health Unit, is getting a lot of play.

Yahoo! Sports is apparently now in the business of defining when life begins.

Three Malaysian women have been caned by the authorities for having extra-marital sex.

The Kinsey Institute has recommended that condom companies re-brand their sizing in order to accommodate men's egos.

And, drum roll please, our very own Jessica is named one of the top 25 progressive journalists in the country by the Daily Beast. Brava Jess!

We're glad the Daily Beast was smart enough to include our girl, but puzzled by their use of punctuation. Apparently racism and classism are real, but "ableism" and "transphobia" are "sort of real." Huh?

Posted by Courtney - February 18, 2010, at 05:00PM | in What We Missed

World Pulse magazine, and the corresponding online site, Pulse Wire, are both fantastic resources for those seeking out international women's perspectives on everything from business to baby making. The Voices of Our Future correspondents are particularly enlightening. Check out Nepalese activist and writer Sunita Basnet on her experience of growing up with a world deeply limited by gender discrimination:
Sunita Basnet

When I was young, I used to go to a nearby pond to swim with my friends. I never asked my parents' permission. I knew if I asked them, they wouldn't allow me to go. When my mother found out, she locked me in a room and beat me with a bamboo stick. After that, my freedom was bound inside the home, looking after my four sisters. For Nepalese women, their family is their world, their husband is their power, and their children are their fate.

As you might imagine from Basnet's fierce prose, she hasn't let her country or her family's expectations curtail her aspirations or her politics. She is currently in Bangladesh studying with a full scholarship at the Asian University for Women, and is involved in women's economic empowerment efforts there and at home. She writes of her vision for a more equal Nepal:
Enough is enough: gender discrimination must be stopped. We want to live like we are part of human society, not tamed animals. We want to set the example that women in Nepal can do anything. We want to fly in the sky like birds, but we don't need wings because we don't want to fly away from our country. Small changes are beginning to emerge as the number of educated women increases in Nepal. I believe this is the greatest hope for bringing equality to the country. Literacy and education, however, are only the beginning. Even if all women become literate, will they be able to work and support their families? Unless women become economically powerful, we will not be the decision-makers, and we will continue to lag behind men. I want to walk in the way of light and build an enlightened world.

Read the whole piece here.

Posted by Courtney - February 18, 2010, at 03:41PM | in International, Sexism

Lisa CortesWomen & Hollywood has a fantastic guest post by L.A. Collins in which she interviews Lisa Cortes, the executive producer of Precious. She writes:

At the SAG Awards, critics darling and Oscar front-runner Mo'Nique flipped the script. She took a special, unexpected moment to give a nod to the dedicated and not-so-visible 'sistren' collaborators behind-the-scenes of Precious, the women whose focused energy came together in perfect parts to bring the little film that could to life.

One such fierce woman, Lisa Cortes, the film's executive producer, is all about the power of harnessing and circling energy in the art world: from film to music; corporate to non-profit; high art to folk. "In my mind producing films and supporting other arts are intertwined because the big picture intention is to increase the well-being of woman and mankind. Art opens the door to possibility ..."

Read the rest here.

And for more on Precious:
Precious, my Precious: Black Female Citizenship, Complexity, and the Politics of Unrelenting Survival
On Representation: Push versus Precious
Bad-Ass Woman: Actress Gabby Sidibe
Precious: A Feminist Must-See

Posted by Courtney - February 18, 2010, at 02:53PM | in Film

Progressive art can assist people to learn not only about the objective forces at work in the society in which they live, but also about the intensely social character of their interior lives. Ultimately, it can propel people toward social emancipation.
--Angela Davis

live with art, it's good for you
Letterpress interpretation of Jen Bekman's slogan "Live with art, It's good for you!" Art print produced exclusively for 20x200. Created entirely from antique wood type and ornaments. Printed by the Cranky Pressman.

Posted by Courtney - February 18, 2010, at 12:53PM | in Activism, Arts

A military raid on a group of health workers and educators in the Philippines last weekend has led to human right abuses, according to the initial findings of the Commission on Human Rights. Forty three community health workers, including two doctors, a nurse and a midwife, were taking part in a workshop conducted by the Council for Health and Development, an NGO. Since the raid, they have been subjected to "psychological torture" and are now being held in Camp Capinpin, in Tanay, Rizal. They were allegedly detained on suspicion they were New People's Army rebels. From the Inquirer:

CHR chair Leila de Lima, visiting the detainees after they had been hidden from sight over the weekend, described their sorry condition. "They are continuously handcuffed and blindfolded, they are not allowed to sleep, they are not allowed to feed themselves. Even when they use the bathroom, someone else is there to take off their underwear."

Perhaps worse than the actual torture, the detainees were denied their right to counsel in the critical first days, effectively locking them in a torture chamber of uncertainty: they were prevented from even knowing what the charges against them, and their legal options, were.

Read more here.

Sign a petition here.

Posted by Courtney - February 18, 2010, at 12:00PM | in Health, Human Rights, International

Little Children novel coverI've always loved suburbian dystopia movies and books, plus Kate Winslet, so it was no surprise to me that Little Children struck a chord when I first saw it in 2006. I've been meaning to read the book for a long time (you know what they say...book is always better than the movie), but finally got around to it last week with a little vacation time.

It was shockingly similar to the film, first of all. Most movies and books, in my experience, really diverge from one another. Screenwriters are often hard-pressed to translate literary works for a visual medium--cutting out whole plot lines and often losing the novelist's sensibility or structure in the process. Not in this case. Todd Field's film is almost identical to Tom Perrotta's novel--child molester and all. Probably, it turns out, because Perrotta also wrote the screenplay.

For this reason, there were times when I was a little bored (after all, I knew how all the tensions were resolved), but Perrotta has a great style that I also found so enjoyable to read that it kept me going. He's got a knack for the satirical and humorous--sometimes leading me to do the snicker as you read thing (I love catching people doing this on airplanes or the subway). The main character is a former women's studies/literature major, and probably as a result, I found lots to identity with. In fact, part of Perrotta's charm is creating situations and characters that feel so familiar you can't believe he didn't spy into your own life, or the lives of your family members, and pilfer plot lines.

All in all, a great read. If you've already seen the movie, you might pass and move on to one of Perotta's other novels. I know I'm excited to hit The Abstinence Teacher next.

Posted by Courtney - February 18, 2010, at 11:15AM | in Books, Not Oprah's Book Club

The Progressive Women's Voices program at the Women's Media Center is now accepting applications from women who want to get enlightened, feminist media training, build the platform of either their individual work or their organization's work, and shift the dialogue in mainstream and alternative media. I was part of the very first class and I found it to be the one of the most authentic and rewarding media trainings, not to mention activist/intergenerational communities, that I've ever experienced.

Check out Ileana Jimenez, who I wrote about last week, on why she feels that the Progressive Women's Voices program at the Women's Media Center was so important to her. An excerpt:

Equally important to me is the opportunity to create a platform as a woman of color within a media field that is largely dominated by white men. Learning how to create that platform with other women leaders of color in my cohort such as Rose Aguilar, Christine Ahn, Taina Bien-Aimé, Sandra Finley, Sujatha Jesudason, Mana Kasongo, and Cristina López means that I am not only a part of Progressive Women's Voices but a larger progressive women's movement that is changing the landscape of both how we talk about the issues and who is talking about the issues.

Apply today. The deadline is February 28th.
Posted by Courtney - February 18, 2010, at 09:55AM | in Media

book cover of For You, For You I am Trilling These SongsTwenty-nine-year-old Kathleen Rooney, a mid-level aide to Illinois Democratic Sen. Richard Durbin, recently published a book on her experience as a political insider in the windy city, entertainingly called For You, For You I am Trilling These Songs. Don't you love that?

Durbin's office certainly didn't. Rooney was fired in early February after the staff caught wind of just how much she revealed in her series of essays. Particularly worrisome (shocker) was her explicit description of her relationship with the chief of staff. An excerpt:

Once upon a time there was a girl in unrequitable (but not unrequited) love with her boss. Every day she would dress up and every day he would compliment her on it.... He would place his hand at the base of her neck, or flick her earring, or twist a strand of her hair.... He would touch her shoulder, he would wander away. He ran the office this way -- on the ragged edge of decency.

Rooney was fired, but the guy that ran the office "on the ragged edge of decency"--as she so beautifully put it--has suffered no consequences. The explanation from Durbin's office is that Rooney "used her position for personal gain." Okay. So maybe her contract stipulates that this sort of public disclosure isn't allowed, and if Rooney signed it, it's understandable that she would get canned. But you'd assume that the chief of staff also signed a contract that barred sexual harassment or other inappropriate workplace behavior, right?

Get the full scoop at the WSJ. I haven't read this controversial little tome, but I look forward to doing so soon.

UPDATE: "Joe Shoemaker, a Durbin spokesman, said he became aware of Rooney's book when he read a review in January. He said he read it, and came away "concerned she was describing a hostile work environment" in the Chicago office. Shoemaker said Durbin then read the book. The Senate employment counsel was consulted, the Chicago chief of staff was placed on administrative leave, and an investigation by Durbin's office was launched, Shoemaker said. Interviews with the Chicago staff showed the chief of staff had shown bad judgment with regard to Rooney, but had not harassed her or anyone else in the office. He was reinstated as an aide, but stripped of supervisory responsibilities. When asked if she was willing to stop taking notes about the office's inner-workings, Rooney "declined and chose instead to be terminated," Shoemaker said."
Posted by Courtney - February 18, 2010, at 09:00AM | in Books, Politics, Work

Word on the street is that the high profile Conservative Political Action Conference will have a piñata in the shape of Speaker Nancy Pelosi for attendees to wack with a stick. No joke.

The GOP-dominated Utah legislature is in the process of passing an affirmative action ban.

Slate tells us that Fox News' Megyn Kelly is a "post-feminist news babe." I think that says it all.

While we've already known this to be true, now we have hard evidence that Title IX and girls' involvement in sports have positive, long-term effects on their education, health and work.

Posted by Vanessa - February 17, 2010, at 05:07PM | in What We Missed

A part of me feels like we've posted this before, but I couldn't find it in our archives -- so I had to share, just in case. This is the 1938 Dating Guide for Single Women. And oh, it is a treat.

What's sad is that dating advice hasn't changed all that much. Check out a few more gems after the jump.

h/t to Kyle.

Posted by Vanessa - February 17, 2010, at 03:46PM | in Random, Sexism

Daniel Tosh of Comedy Central's Tosh.O tells tasteless jokes about what's happening on the internet. But his recent spiel about the world's tallest model was not only completely fucked up, he also actually asked for extra time in his segment so he could fit all of the tired transphobic jokes he could muster up. Super original stuff, I'm telling you. Via Bilerico:

Tosh's series of one-liners about "the world's tallest model" starts out with a trans joke but quickly dances away for a more general series of putdowns and snide comments. Sadly, Tosh doubles the length of the segment just so he can make more transphobic jokes.

Afterwards he says, "Alright, now I feel better." Glad you got all that trans bashing out of your system, Tosh?

(Video may be upsetting.)

Tosh.0
World's Tallest Model
www.comedycentral.com
Web Redemption2 Girls, 1 Cup ReactionDemi Moore Picture

If you have a Twitter account, Bilerico is calling for folks to tweet him before his show airs tonight:

Don't be a d--k @danieltosh World's Tallest Model jokes went too far #lgbt #trans http://bit.ly/aC6QRa

GLAAD is also taking action.

Video transcript after jump.

Posted by Vanessa - February 17, 2010, at 01:16PM | in Television, Transgender Issues

After we were thrilled to announce the sale of Planned Parenthood of Virginia's "Choose Choice" license plates, the state House decided that although the plate was introduced by the organization, none of the funds made from the plates' sales should actually go to them. This is despite the fact that the funds from "Choose Life" license plates -- already available in the state -- currently support the anti-choice organization that introduced them, Heartbeat International.

The good news is that the Virginia Senate struck down the Senate version of the House amendment yesterday, and voted to allow the license plates with the money going to Planned Parenthood.

It's standard for non-profit organizations to receive at least a portion of sales from state license plates that they create. Additionally, Planned Parenthood publicly stated that the funds from plate purchases would not be used for abortions, but apparently that wasn't good enough for the Republican-controlled House. Their decision was amended for the funds to be redirected to Virginia Pregnant Women Support Fund, a program created by the state Board of Health for women with unintended pregnancies.

Thankfully we have the Senate on our side. The final decision of where the funds will go has to be made between the divided houses by the end of the season; you pro-choice Virginians out there can help them make the right one. Also pre-order one of their awesome plates here.

Via Spare Candy.

Posted by Vanessa - February 17, 2010, at 11:44AM | in Reproductive Rights, Updates

A small study of middle school students in Glasgow revealed that the majority of them said it was justified to hit a woman if she had an affair or failed to have dinner ready on time. Via BBC:

The research involved 89 primary seven children at five Glasgow primaries.

The 11 and 12-year-olds were questioned in depth about their attitudes and aspirations towards gender roles and behaviour.

They were asked to consider whether or not a man was justified in punching his partner when he found out she had had an affair.

Nearly all of the children thought that the woman deserved to be hit.

In another scenario, about 80% of the children said a man had cause to slap his partner because she did not have the dinner ready on time.

The researchers also said the girls involved were more aware of expectations to get married and have children and to curtail their careers in the process.

Whether or not the students in this study were serious in their contention that violence against women is okay, or simply thought it would be funny to answer "yes" to these questions, you still find yourself with the same result: that violence against women continues to be normalized among youth. And that's really unsettling.

Posted by Vanessa - February 17, 2010, at 10:34AM | in Violence Against Women

Today marks the start of "40 Days for Life," a campaign of escalated harassment outside targeted reproductive health clinics. Anti-choice bullies are working to turn out folks at clinics in the US, Canada, Australia, and Northern Ireland.

While many clinics have regular street harassers, 40 Days engages folks who have never done this before. The campaign is framed as being mostly about prayer, and there will be an increased number of folks praying outside clinics. These people are using what should be a personal religious action to guilt and shame women. But there will also be an increased number of sidewalk stalkers, folks who more actively harass anyone walking into or out of (or even just near) a clinic.

Antis who are outside the clinic every week can use some pretty disgusting tactics, but there's definitely an elevated level of concern when antis who have never done this before are present. New antis often don't know or really care about any rules that exist outside a clinic. They bring new energy and zeal to trying to stop every woman from accessing reproductive health services. Even just increased numbers of antis can lead to confusion and a more visible barrier to access.

There is a list of targeted clinics on the "40 Days for Life" website. If a clinic in your area is being targeted and you feel up to taking on this work, please contact your clinic or local clinic escorts to find out the best ways to get involved (I'd recommend Googling the name of the clinic or "clinic escorts" and your city and state).

A heartfelt thanks to everyone taking on the unfortunately necessary work of increased clinic defense during this campaign of cruelty, lies, and hate.

h/t @ClinicEscort

Posted by Jos - February 17, 2010, at 09:10AM | in Reproductive Justice, Reproductive Rights

There will be no federal charges in the Sean Bell shooting.

TSA forces travelling policeman to remove his disabled four-year-old son's leg-braces

A must-read piece from Kate Harding on Kevin Smith, fat discrimination and flying.

Racialicious has a review of The New Jim Crow.

Posted by Samhita - February 16, 2010, at 05:30PM | in What We Missed

Well, you already know what I had to say about John Mayer, but uh...what Jay said!

Posted by Samhita - February 16, 2010, at 03:48PM | in Popular Culture, Race

Watching the Olympics has always been an event in my house. My dad is an avid sports fan, so we always watch a lot of sports, but something about the Olympics brings out part of him that was lost in living in the United States for 30+ years. The opportunity to root for India. India doesn't have a major presence in the Winter Olympics, but we still watch it together as a ritual homage to foreign nations and one of the few opportunities we can see other countries compete amongst each other.

But sentimentality aside (don't act like you didn't cry when China won gold and silver in couple iceskating last night), the Olympics is not without its issues. Not only it is a reminder of the violence of nationalism, colonial conquest and division between the first and third world, but it often uses indigenous iconography to create homogenous identities based on history often infected with violence. Guest Blogger, Toban Black at Sociological Images has an amazing and thorough break down of the use of indigenous signifiers at the 2010 Winter Olympics and their homogenizing effect.

The Olympics branding denies noteworthy differences among native groups spread across these areas. Passing theatrical gestures to native peoples during the open ceremonies could be considered to be more respectful, but Olympics marketers otherwise have been mixing up North American native traditions into a soup-like caricature. Natives have been consistently oppressed, but the various peoples who are considered to be native (in some way, or to some degree) certainly are not 'all the same.' Tacking Arctic imagery on to Vancouver-area Games implies that there is only one native essence (in North America, if not beyond this continent).

This essentialism is at the heart of what makes the Olympics so enjoyable for people like my parents and so problematic for the representation of people that not only don't identify but have been in violent turbulence with these nation-states. For all the national identity markers, come with them the baggage of nation-building and its surrounding violence. Black points this out further concluding that an inability to hear the protests to use indigenous imagery further shows this hypocrisy.

In sum, mainstream Canada claims and re-packages imagery from natives to sell a vision of a present-day Canada that is a tolerant country, with a rich and interesting history; such visions have been produced for the 2010 Games - as well as other tourism and merchandising, and wider nationalism. Then, ironically, when pro-indigenous groups challenge the use of this appropriated iconography to represent 'Canada,' majority groups dismiss their protests by claiming a more authentic Canadian-ness. Of course, the refusal to take indigenous protests seriously is just another manifestation of disinterest in the welfare of living indigenous peoples. Even as gestures are made toward native culture, actual natives generally are ignored.

I will continue to watch the Olympics but not without the grave understanding of how it is implicated in the erasure of colonialism, genocide and dissent.

Posted by Samhita - February 16, 2010, at 02:15PM | in Analysis, International, Sports

Last week femme on the community site brought to our attention this horrific anti-choice billboard and campaign brought to us by Georgia Right to Life. She interrogates aptly,

This billboard dehumanizes both black women and children, by asserting that black children are an "endangered species," which animalizes them, and by asserting that black women have no control over our own bodies and that we're somehow intellectually weak enough to be controlled by the so-called eugenics-crazed poor-black-baby-eaters, aka Planned Parenthood.

Georgia Right to Life has gone too far in suggesting that black women are too quick to get abortions and should therefore "choose life." By speaking to a feigned nationalistic sentiment suggesting that one crisis for the black community is that there are not enough black children and choosing the frame of "too many abortions," this advertising campaign in the last few weeks has gained support from activists around the country.


New Law Would Ban Marriages Between People Who Don't Love Each Other

Because every opportunity to point out the hypocrisy of anti-same sex marriage advocates must be taken.

Posted by Samhita - February 16, 2010, at 10:25AM | in Humor, Queer Issues

This study performed in London finds that a larger percentage of women feel that women should take responsibility for when they have been raped and the circumstances that caused the rape.

One third felt that provocative dress or returning to the attacker's house to have a drink makes a victim deserving of some blame for the rape, according to the survey, which was reported by BBC News.

The online survey of more than 1,000 people in London, called Wake Up To Rape, found that more than half of both men and women said that in some instances, the victim should take responsibility for a rape. The survey participants, who ranged in age from 18 to 50, included 712 men and 349 men, according to BBC News.

Some 71 percent of the women who said they felt some rape victims should take responsibility said the victims were accountable for the crime if they'd gone to bed with the attacker. Only 57 percent of the men felt that way, according to the survey.

Well we already know that victim-blaming is a no-no and not just because it is unfair, but because it doesn't take into consideration the ways that attitudes on rape and women's sexuality are full of assumptions about the ways women are supposed to "preserve" their own sexuality and assumptions that certain men just "act that way" so it is on us to protect ourselves from their potential inclination to rape. Victim-blaming fails to take into consideration the role that negative attitudes on women's sexuality shape predominant understandings of rape.

But sadly, this study doesn't surprise me. Fear of sexual assault has forced women in many instances to internalize negative assumptions about their own sexuality. It is hard to suggest that woman are uniquely more sexist than men but perhaps they have internalized the belief that to protect themselves from rape they have to act and dress a certain way to avoid the potential threat. So while this attitude smacks of victim-blaming, part of why a study would show that a disproportionate number of women feel that women are to blame is because they believe on some level, they might be to blame for their own potential assault, a narrative that sexism has embedded into the heads of women. This is not to suggest that women shouldn't be held accountable for unjust attitudes on sexual assault, but instead to find an explanation for why women would believe such a depressing myth.

Posted by Samhita - February 16, 2010, at 09:09AM | in Masculinity, Sexual Assault, Violence Against Women

Apparently Dick Cheney now supports repealing Don't Ask Don't Tell (DADT). I'm not sure why we should care what Cheney thinks, but it seems like a big deal either way.

For more on DADT and it's relationship to sexual assault in the military, check out an interview with David Mixner at Guernica Magazine.

Apparently, a Catholic school student, responsible for the "Kill your hooker so you don't have to pay her" facebook horrificness that we wrote about last week, has been disciplined by his school. Officials won't say what the discipline entails, but according to principal of the College in Australia, he's been "dealt with." Creepy. Many other Facebook groups with similar messages still exist.

Feminist Jody Howard, one of the co-founders of Jane, the underground network that provided women with abortions before Roe, died on February 5th.

Posted by Miriam - February 15, 2010, at 05:30PM | in What We Missed

shiny red computer mouse, shaped to look like a vagina and with a scroll ball that looks like a clitoris

Yup, in case you were wondering--that scroll ball is supposed to look like a clitoris. Also, there is a button in the middle--the sweet spot, you might call it--that takes you to your favorite web page.

Gross.

Via Yankodesign and Gizmodo

Related:
Sexist tech tool of the day

H/t to Rachael

More pics after the jump.

Posted by Miriam - February 15, 2010, at 02:52PM | in Sexism, Technology

Text logo for From Abortion Rights to Reproductive Justice Building the Movement for Reproductive Freedom

This year, Feministing is partnering with Civil Liberties and Public Policy (CLPP), an organization housed at Hampshire College, on their 2010 Conference, From Abortion Rights to Social Justice: Building the Movement for Reproductive Freedom. This will be my fourth year attending the conference and it's one of my favorites.

We'll be featuring some content in advance of the conference, and then Jos and I will be there liveblogging as well as speaking on a few panels. Jos was actually a student organizer of the conference when she was at Hampshire!

One of the great things about the CLPP conference is that they really emphasize accessibility. The conference is free (although folks are asked to contribute if able), food is provided, and they even have travel and hotel stipends available by application. There is childcare provided, and it's also very youth focused, primarily attended by college students from around the country.

The folks who speak at the conference are some of the leaders on the forefront of the reproductive justice movement.

More about the conference:

On April 9-11, 2010, campus and community activists will gather at Hampshire College to unite for reproductive justice. We offer more than 40 workshops and trainings. Conference speakers address reproductive freedom as it relates to a broad range of social justice initiatives including economic justice, health care reform, racial equality, freedom from violence, immigrant rights, climate justice, and LGBTQ rights, just to name a few.

Over the weekend, you will deepen your understanding of issues you already know about, make new connections, and unite with others who are passionate about working for social justice.

You can check out the list of speakers here.

So check it out and applications for travel/hotel assistance are due February 24th!

Update from the organizers of the conference re the cost of attendance:

As always, everyone is welcomed to the conference, regardless of ability to contribute financially. Due to a drop in foundation funding that supports the conference, we are asking for contributions to help cover costs of the conference.

If you or your organization is interested in partnering with Feministing on future conferences, email miriam[AT]feministing[DOT]com.

Posted by Miriam - February 15, 2010, at 01:03PM | in Conferences, Reproductive Justice

text logo that says MAG-Net Day of Action: We Want Equal Access and Open Networks

Internet access is likely to be one of the biggest social justice issues, as more and more resources, activity and organizing move online. There is a lot going on behind the scenes with the big telecomm companies and Congress around policies to regulate access to the internet. We need to stay vigilant and ensure that folks across the country, regardless of location or socioeconomic status, have access to affordable and reliable internet.

Today's Day of Action is all about that.

On the heels of Google's groundbreaking announcement of its plans to build a high-speed open network, local advocates and community leaders of the Media Action Grassroots Network (MAG-Net) are asking Congress to protect the principles of an open internet, while dismantling significant barriers to broadband adoption in un-served and under-served communities. These advocates say if the FCC's National Broadband Plan extends the existing Universal Service Fund rules and resources to broadband and mobile devices, and Congress supports action to protect broadband networks with strong net neutrality rules, it will give millions of poor people and people of color the chance to not only log-on to the internet, but log-in to democracy.

For more on what you can do for the day of action, check out this social media release and this website.

Posted by Miriam - February 15, 2010, at 11:42AM | in Activism, Media

leslie, head without hair, staring at camera on a busy city street

I recently came across this flickr page, from Leslie Feinberg (pictured above).

Leslie is best known for Stone Butch Blues, a novel about queer folks in the 1950s and the struggles they faced, including constant violence and police brutality.

Leslie's body of work includes Transgender Warriors and Trans Liberation, two non-fiction books, and Drag King Dreams, a second novel.

Leslie, now dealing with a degenerative disease and also prompted by hir move from hir home of 17 years in Jersey City due to these health issues, has taken to documenting the world and telling stories through photographs. More about the photos:

I lost the ability to visualize as a child, after being physically forced to stop using my left hand. Hard to imagine today, perhaps, that left-handedness in people was once considered a sign of "sinister" character.

As my ability to use my left hand withered, my ability to visualize waned. I lost all ability to close my eyes and "picture" anything in my mind: a copper penny, a lover's face. So leaving New York City, my home of more than 35 years, and Jersey City, where Minnie Bruce and I had made our home for so many years, presented me with an especially emotionally painful loss of memory--like an impending hard drive crash. In addition, I was coping with neuro-degenerative disease and its neuro-toxic byproducts.

With only days to relocate, I began taking photos with our little silver point-and-shoot, and continued to take thousands more in the months that followed as we moved to three more apartments and I traveled for care--a kind of geographic and emotional GPS of where I was and how I got here.

Working on so many visual images has had, I believe, a big impact on my brain, my memory storage and retrieval. My ability to visualize is coming back for the first time since childhood.

These photographs are the unexpected form and shape of my memory cabinet. They also reveal the geographic and social isolation of severe illness and resulting disabilities. This body of work reveals my inner struggle for articulation at a time when illness and disability--and discrimination and prejudice--were silencing my voice.

Taking photographs may be beyond me now, because of illness. If I can't take new photographs, I will work on narratives from my already existing photo cabinet of 10,000 photos. I will continue to try to organize a digital "struggle memory project" and publish photos online. And this fall and winter I hope to find support for a project focusing on the relationship of disability to technology.

Check out the photos, Leslie's books, and you can even follow Leslie on Twitter.

Posted by Miriam - February 15, 2010, at 10:00AM | in Activism, Disability Rights, Gender

A note about this series: In just the few months that I've been doing this series, I've encountered how difficult it can be to find important feminist historical moments, particularly organized by date. Especially when I'm doing most of my research online. So much of recorded history (particularly available on sites like Wikipedia, NY Times on this day) is about white men. Then the things I do find are often mostly about white women. If anyone has any online resources to share for feminist history (particularly about communities of color) let me know in comments!

Photo of Natalie Angier, short blond hair, blue blouse

Today in 1958, Natalie Angier was born. Natalie is a journalist, primarily writing about science. I'm including her in this series because of her 1999 book: Woman: An Intimate Geography.

About the book:

Angier takes readers on a mesmerizing tour of female anatomy and physiology that explores everything from organs to orgasm, and delves into topics such as exercise, menopause, and the mysterious properties of breast milk.

A self-proclaimed "scientific fantasia of womanhood." Woman ultimately challenges widely accepted Darwinian-based gender stereotypes. Angier shows how cultural biases have influenced research in evolutionary psychology (the study of the biological bases of behavior) and consequently lead to dubious conclusions about "female nature." such as the idea that women are innately monogamous while men are natural philanderers.

She was one of the first to popularize the biological fact that the clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings, twice as many as the penis.

I have to admit I haven't read the book myself (and I'm sure I would probably have some criticisms about biological essentialism) but it's clear that Angier's book has had an impact on our understanding of gender.

You can read more about Natalie at her website, and more about the book in this Salon.com review.

Posted by Miriam - February 15, 2010, at 08:16AM | in Feminism, History

poet lucille clifton

RIP Lucille Clifton, a poet who reminds women "we can be, quite simply, ourselves-even after everyone we know has developed a staid concept of what that might mean." Listen to Clifton read "Homage to My Hips."

What Christiane Amanpour likes about war reporting is what i like about feminism: "feeling part of a small community of people who are going through what we are going through and doing something worthwhile. "

What is Valentines Day if not an opportunity to gender-stereotype? Plus, The Sexist skewers college newspaper v-day columns.

Shark-Fu on John Mayer's decidedly non-post-racial penis.

More than 50 women held at a UK detention center have gone on a hunger strike, and report that they have been beaten.

Are the Winter Olympics as exclusive as the Augusta National Golf Club? Also, the ongoing failure to explain why women are barred from competing in ski jumping.

Writings by Aboriginal men on ending violence against women.

Helen at Bird of Paradox and Rachel at The Feminist Agenda preview the forthcoming revision of the DSM-V.

"Feminism for me was a love affair." -Dorothy Allison

Learn about transgender Argentine politician activist sex worker filmmaker performance artist Mónica León.

"Bump+, a new Web mockumentary series explores several weeks in the lives of three women from learning they're pregnant and deciding whether to continue or to terminate."

The new emergency contraception pill is being met with the same old arguments.

A hilarious guide to the hunks of Harlequin romances.

And Kate Harding tells you which V-Day links are worth clicking (in addition to those featured here, natch).

What have you all been reading/writing this week?

Posted by Ann - February 14, 2010, at 01:27PM | in Weekly Feminist Reader

emilyabt.jpgEmily Abt is an award-winning feminist filmmaker and the founder of Pureland Pictures. Her first film, a documentary called Take it From Me, was about the impact of American welfare policies on individual Americans. Since Take it From Me came out in 2001, Abt has made several more films, including All of Us, which is about African American women and HIV/AIDS and most recently, Toe to Toe, a story about young women, race, sex and friendship, that screened at Sundance this year.

Abt, who spoke on a panel with our own Courtney Martin at the 92nd St. Y earlier this month, says that she hopes that the film will encourage audiences to think about the issues it addresses, and especially about the sexualization of young women and interracial friendship. This semester, she's teaching a class on social issue film at Princeton University, my alma mater, and my campus spies tell me that the class is "so damn good."

You can check out the trailer for Toe to Toe here, and learn more about Abt's earlier films here.

And now, without further ado, the Feministing Five, with Emily Abt.

Posted by Chloe - February 13, 2010, at 08:02AM | in Arts, Film, Girls, Interviews, Race


On fear of the gay penis.

Jessica on anti-choice emails and who loves abortion now.

The very brilliant Kai Wright is the new editorial director at ARC and Colorlines.

Watch the ColorLines TV Show: "Race and Economic Recovery" tonight on DIRECTV Channel 375 or DISH Network Channel 9410 at 9:30 PM Eastern/6:30 PM Pacific.

Youth jobs hit hard by the recession.

Monday is a National Day of Action coordinated by grassroots groups responding to the current debate on race, class and open internet access. Check their up to the minute press alerts here and SF Gate has more.

Posted by Samhita - February 12, 2010, at 05:26PM | in What We Missed

I'm a little late with this post, but I couldn't skip covering my favorite panel I attended at Creating Change. The history we hear the most is written by power. Hearing the stories of our communities from those elders who actually lived them is a powerful way to maintain a knowledge of our truth and our struggles.

Tom Weber from SAGE (Services and Advocacy for GLBT Elders) organized the panel, "40 Years After Stonewall: A Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Activist Timeline," with Jim Fouratt, Roger Goodman, Carmen Vasquez, Ellen Ensig-Brodsky, Phil Johnson. Some of these speakers participated in the Stonewall uprising, and all of them have seen moments in TBLG history that must not be lost. Their stories tell us of our challenges, but also of our potential.

I was in tears during this entire panel. There is no way a few quotes can convey the experience of hearing queer history from those who lived it, but I hope this post adds a little something to our collective memory of struggles and community building. Some highlights from the panel after the jump.

Posted by Jos - February 12, 2010, at 04:34PM | in Events, History, Queer Issues, Racism, Transgender Issues

You read that right. Halloween costumes are in early this year, and between being sexy mustard, the sultry Nemo costume and now this, it's as if the holiday has turned into a contest of who can think of more ludicrous shit for women to wear. Via Gothamist, we find that a costume shop is selling a line of sexualized Sesame Street costumes (with teen sizes too!).

I was obsessed with Cookie Monster when I was a kid -- I'd pretend to be him by shoving all of the food on my plate into my mouth at the dinner table and sing the "C is for Cookie" song at the top of my lungs (as the food then fell out of my mouth). Who knew my aspirations to be the Cookie Monster when I grew up could be fully realized by wearing a short blue furry dress and knee highs?

h/t to Erin.

Posted by Vanessa - February 12, 2010, at 03:23PM | in Random, Sexism

Earlier this week Laura Chinchilla was voted in as Costa Rica's first female president.

The socially conservative, pro-business former vice president hails from the party of incumbent President Oscar Arias, a Nobel Peace Prize winner for his work in the 1980s to end Central America's wars.

Chinchilla's victory was widely seen as a vote for continuity in a politically stable country that enjoys one of the region's highest standards of living.

It's the first time Costa Rica has chosen a woman to lead the nation. Chile's Michelle Bachelet and Argentina's Cristina Fernandez de Kirchner are the other female chief executives in Latin America. In the past, Panama and Nicaragua also had female presidents.

I suppose this is one of those things you would be excited about..except, Chinchilla is opposed to same-sex marriage, abortion and the morning after pill. We are proven once again that having a vagina does not ensure you will protect others that have them.

Women's Glib as more on this conundrum
and Matthew Cordell on the rise of female leadership in South American countries.

Posted by Samhita - February 12, 2010, at 01:06PM | in International, Politics

Diane DiMassa's work, especially her comic "Hothead Paisan- Lesbian Homicidal Terrorist," has served as a positive media representation for a lot of queer folks. Marginalized folks can still cause hurt to others who experience oppression, though. Following our publication of an interview with DiMassa about her paintings, I feel I have to address the pain she's caused me and other members of the transgender community.

In 2004 DiMassa became involved in the controversy surrounding Michigan Womyn's Festival, which has a policy of excluding trans women, when a musical based on "Hothead Paisan" was scheduled to be performed there (the comic contains a character, Daphne, whose gender history is left ambiguous but who many assumed was a trans woman). DiMassa was pressured to denounce the festival's exclusionary policy. Instead, she wrote a letter in support of MichFest's discrimination. In the letter, DiMassa is dismissive of trans women's experience of oppression:

[Michigan Womyn's Festival] is for women who have been at the ass-end of life here on The Planet of the Apes their whole life. This usually does not apply to MTF's.

The notion that cis women have a longer, and the implication is greater, experience of gender-based oppression shows a deep ignorance of trans women's experiences. Many of us have been harassed our whole lives because we failed to fit into the compulsory gender binary. Not to mention the deep psychic pain of having to present and live a gender that is at odds with our internal reality, a truth often hidden even from ourselves. Using the term "MTF's" serves as a reminder of our past public male identity, which the term legitimizes over our actual female identity.

DiMassa's ignorance around trans women's experience of oppression was more starkly revealed in an interview with Bitch Magazine in which she also defended MichFest:

It's just fucking typical that a man-born lesbian can't get the concept of not being allowed somewhere.

DiMassa unfortunately fails to recognize the privilege that comes with fitting (broadly, no one really fits) into the gender category one is assigned at birth. At the same time, she suggests that trans women have male privilege, a notion that de-legitimizes our female identities and forces us back into the male box.

DiMassa's work may do a lot of good for cis lesbians, but this does not negate the hurt her public, forceful, and repeated expression of transmisogyny has done to trans women.

Posted by Jos - February 12, 2010, at 11:46AM | in Transgender Issues

A lot of other people have already written about John Mayer's shameful interview in Playboy where he basically throws everyone he knows into his spotlight of woman hate and racism.

I have never been a fan of John Mayer, I think his music sucks. And after reading this interview and others like it, I can safely say that he sucks. But I don't care about him, I care about what his words say about discourses of race and sexuality.

This above apology is hilarious and narcissistic in a way that only someone who thinks making racist and sexist comments about people he knows as "being edgy and witty." Yes, he cries and so do his back-up singers, but I think it would be more touching if his apology actually got to the heart of the problem of what he said.

Posted by Samhita - February 12, 2010, at 10:22AM | in Music, Racism, Sexism, Women of Color

Ariel wrote in November about a soldier, Alexis Hutchinson, who was arrested for resisting deployment because her son was uncared for. The army filed criminal charges against her that were dropped last month and instead of being court martialed, she will only be discharged. On one level this is good news, however she will be losing all her military benefits along with being demoted in rank. Also, the military thinks she was lying about her son.

The decision still carries consequences for Hutchinson. She is being demoted in rank to private and will lose benefits afforded to military service members and veterans, Fort Stewart spokesman Kevin Larson said.

Larson said the Army had evidence that Hutchinson, regardless of her family situation, would have resisted deploying "by any means." He said commanders decided a court-martial would be too disruptive to the Army, requiring soldiers now in Afghanistan to return to the U.S. to testify.

"This case wasn't about a soldier having to choose between her duty to the nation and her family," Larson said. "There is evidence both from Pvt. Hutchinson and her fellow soldiers to indicate she had no intentions of deploying."

Sussman denied that Hutchinson was exploiting her status as a single-mom to get out of going to Afghanistan.

"She was willing to deploy, and was ready to do that if her mother had not backed out of taking care of her child," she said.

Amazing, if she left her child with no care, she would be demonized as a neglectful mother. She stays with her child to care for him and now she was lying and using him as a ploy to get out of her job. You are hearing the same familiar tones of racialized narratives around working class motherhood that play out over and over in stories about motherhood. As Ariel said back in November, standard operating procedure has no flexibility for special circumstances and this will of course hurt those that have the least flexibility in their lives.

Posted by Samhita - February 12, 2010, at 09:02AM | in Military, Motherhood

You absolutely must watch the video above in response to the ridiculous Super Bowl's Dodge Charger ad, "Man's Last Stand." Via The Sexist. (Transcript after jump.)

Former president Bill Clinton has been hospitalized for heart-related issues. Reports are saying he had chest pains and is receiving two stents for his artery.

This proposed Durex condom ad says giving head makes women feel dainty.

A Christian group is filing a lawsuit claiming that hate crime laws are an attempt to "eradicate" their religion.

Wonkette's Ana Marie Cox has landed a gig as the new GQ correspondent. Go Ana Marie!

Posted by Vanessa - February 11, 2010, at 05:02PM | in What We Missed

And oh my, is it a doozy. The accompanying picture was included in a story by CBS about a Chinese-American flight passenger who was subdued after a bad trip from marijuana cookies. That's right, it seems that CBS thought it would be clever to use imagery of weed and fortune cookies as a way to represent the fact that this dude was Chinese. Thea Lim at Racialicious alerted us to this gem, who says:

I don't know about baked good with drugs in them. (Really. I swear) But I do know that fortune cookies are a task and a half to make. Dear CBS, haven't you heard that along with a ravenous appetite for fortune cookies, Chinese people also love efficiency? No Chinese person worth their salt would spend hours making marijuana fortune cookies when they could just make Sara Lee brownies out of a box...(/sarcasm)

While we're on the topic, I should mention that fortune cookies are not exactly a good illustration of Chineseness. Fortune cookies, while based on a Japanese prototype, are actually 100% American.

Just...wow.

Posted by Vanessa - February 11, 2010, at 02:39PM | in Media, Racism

In an especially sweet victory for sex positivity in the U.S., the Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health (CSPH), the first non-profit sexuality resource and information center on the East Coast, was granted a permit to open in Pawtucket, Rhode Island. Despite months of controversy and opposition during a long, drawn out battle over "zoning permits" (read: sexuality and sex-related scare-tactics), the Center is finally open for business!

Megan Andelloux, a board certified Sexologist and Sexuality Educator is the founder and director of the non-profit Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health, and she's had to go through a lot to see this center come to fruition. Despite the seemingly obvious benefits of having a center like this to educate, inform, and empower, she's actually been in a legal battle over the opening since September since- surprise, surprise, the idea of this center wasn't immediately a popular one in the Rhode Island town where it now resides.

Carnal Nation, where Andelloux is a contributor, reports that the rumors surrounding the Center's opening were as flagrant as they were false:

"Accusations ranged from claims that they would teach sadomasochistic practices to schoolchildren to essentially being nothing more than a brothel.The grand opening celebration, which included speakers such as Carol Queen, Gina Ogden, and Elizabeth Wood and attracted over 200 people, had to be held off-premises in Providence because the zoning board refused to let the Center open on the grounds that their location wasn't zoned for educational purposes. As Megan herself wrote a few months ago, 'That's correct, folks: the city of Pawtucket, RI took a firm stance against 'education' coming into their town.'"

Scare tactics and fear surrounding sexuality and sexual health are nothing new, which is why I'm so glad the verdict came down on the right side this time. The Center will provide tons of crucial community services, including one-on-one coaching services and group classes, as well as hold drop-in hours and offer access to resources on sex, sexuality, pleasure, and health. And it looks like even those who initially opposed it have had to come around to the importance of these services in their community- the press release issues by the Center notes that:

"While the introduction of The Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health started off rocky, and false rumors swirled about what the CSPH would be providing, members of the conservative, liberal, and libertarian community eventually stated that The CSPH mission, to provide adults with a safe space to access information about sex, did indeed fit in with their community values."

Love it. Big congrats to Megan- She deserves major kudos for her perseverance and courage in the face of all this unfounded opposition.

For more, check out a video on Waking Vixen of Andelloux telling the story of the controversy.


h/t to Audacia Ray

Posted by Lori - February 11, 2010, at 01:17PM | in Activism, Health, Law, Sex

As an update to yesterday's What We Missed that called attention to the horrendous Facebook group, "Kill Your Hooker So You Don't Have to Pay Her", one of our readers alerted us to this: Apparently, everyone's speedy organizing has resulted in the group changing their name (and link) to make it seem as if the group doesn't exist anymore. But oh, does it still.

Let's keep reporting it until this group is gone permanently. Great online organizing, all!

UPDATE: It looks like the group changed its name again, but we can't seem to find it. If anyone finds it, email me with the link so I can switch up the link again. In the meantime, Carnal Nation finds that there are 232 Facebook groups that contain the words, "dead hooker."

UPDATE TWO: The group is back up at the link it was before.

Posted by Vanessa - February 11, 2010, at 11:25AM | in Updates, Violence Against Women


Reverend Bavi Edna "Nedi" Rivera, the first Hispanic woman bishop ordained in the Episcopal Church. Let's hope the Church of England follows suit.

Despite "traditionalists" being up in a frenzy, the Church of England is standing their ground and moving forward with drafting legislation that would allow women to be bishops.

The Angelican Communion has 77 million members worldwide and has been debating this issue -- as well as the inclusion of gay bishops and same-sex marriage -- for quite some time now. Meanwhile, several Anglo-Catholics have been threatening to leave because of the announcement to include women in leadership. (And because the Pope offered a nice cushy place in his homophobic, anti-choice, anti-women haven at the Vatican.)

However, supporters of the legislation have been suspect when this will actually happen because there's already been quite a delay in drafting it. (Not to mention where's the legislation for gay bishops?) Let's hope the Church's words of assurance this week offers some faith that change will happen soon.

Posted by Vanessa - February 11, 2010, at 10:19AM | in News, Queer Issues, Religion, Sexism

This is just amazing. Boing Boing's Maggie Koerth-Baker filled us in on a lecture she listened to by MIT psychologist Sherry Turkle on her new book featuring various students and scientists disclosing "the objects that first drew their minds to math, computers, science and technology." And amidst the standard objects you'd assume one would draw science from - like a radio or legos - Christine Alvarado used her My Little Pony as a way to help develop her science geekery:

I had several small plastic Ponies that I used to play make-believe with my friends. But I had one larger, plush My Little Pony, a bright-green stuffed horse with a vivid pink mane and tail that I played with all by myself. I would sit for hours on my own, braiding and rebraiding its tail. I developed a system for braiding the tail of my Pony that taught me about mathematical concepts-- from division to recursion.

With science and math toys usually being reserved for the boys' section of the store, actually utilizing a gendered doll to engage one's scientific interests is just completely bad-ass. Goes to show just how resilient our minds can be, despite the suggestions placed before us. (Again and again and again...) Read Christine's whole story.

Posted by Vanessa - February 11, 2010, at 09:01AM | in Bad-Ass Women, Children, Sexism

Choice USA, an awesome youth reproductive justice organization, is accepting applications for it's Southern Reproductive Justice Institute to be held in Durham, NC this March. More information here.

There is a horrific facebook page entitled "Kill your hooker so you don't have to pay her." I hope I don't have to explain what's wrong with that. Unfortunately you have to visit the page in order to report it. To report there is a button on the bottom of the left sidebar. (Thanks to Miranda for the heads up)

John Mayer pretty much sucks. Jill at Feministe has more on why.

There are some proposed revisions to the American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual in regards to how gender identity disorder is classified, instead referring to it as gender incongruence. Still not sure what this might mean for trans folks, but we'll have more soon.

The non-profit organization SAGE was awarded almost one million dollars from the Department of Health and Human Services to provide services to elderly LGBTQ folks. Bilerico has the details.

Posted by Miriam - February 10, 2010, at 04:51PM | in What We Missed

Margaret Cho and Girlyman's Young James Dean from dapperQ on Vimeo.

I'm very excited to share with you all this new website, created by Susan Herr with help from Dana Variano, called DapperQ. The tag line is "transgressing men's fashion." The site is only a month old, but after poking around and talking with Dana and Susan, it sounds like it's going to be a resource and community for all the folks out there who are masculine presenting, or want to play with gender norms in fashion or just can't find their style reflected in the mainstream.

There is an emphasis on the queer community (the original tagline was "queering men's fashion") but their mission goes beyond the boundaries of sexual orientation and gender identity.

As a genderqueer person myself, who has serious problems finding clothes that fit my gender presentation and my body, I'm psyched to see a new and well developed resource like this one. The video above is just one example of the content over at dapperQ.

Check it out!

You can also find them on facebook and twitter.

Transcript for the video above after the jump.

Posted by Miriam - February 10, 2010, at 02:22PM | in Fashion, Gender

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Posted by Miriam - February 10, 2010, at 12:35PM | in Feministing

While news about the health care debate has died down a bit, the health care crisis in our country has not abated.

The Nation has a series up now, with voices from the uninsured.

An excerpt from one of the stories:

In College and Out of Insurance

I haven't had health insurance since I was 18. I'm 23 now. My health started to take a turn for the worse around two to three years ago. I currently have many conditions--TMJ, tendonitis, spinal problems, poor eyesight, poor dental health, etc., and I almost never see doctors or dentists because they're so hard to afford on a student budget.

I once had insurance for three months but it was cancelled after I had trouble paying the premiums on time. Now I can't get insurance from anyone due to pre-existing conditions, and I've applied multiple times to every carrier on eHealthInsurance. There are no options for me in the US, except to pay out-of-pocket, which is wildly expensive. I can't even move to another country because I'm still in college.

J. Travis Rolko, 23
Ohio

Check out the rest at The Nation.

Posted by Miriam - February 10, 2010, at 11:59AM | in Health care

The main topic of conversation (and tweeting, and facebooking) lately has been the immense amounts of snow falling on the Mid-Atlantic, particularly on Washington DC.

I know it's because I live and interact with many fellow DC'ers online that I feel overwhelmed by the discussion. I felt like I couldn't blog today without mentioning:
There is a blizzard in DC (and now NYC and other parts of the East Coast) that has brought multiple feet of snow upon us, multiple times!! In DC we've broken a 111 year record for seasonal snowfall, surpassing 45 inches. That is a lot of snow, particularly for a Southern city without the capability to handle so much, so often.

I think my favorite part of the recent snow has been the twitter hashtags:

#snomg
#snoverkill
#snowpocalypse
#snomaggedon
#snovereaction
#snowmore

And my personal favorite, #snomas!

But on a more serious note, the 45 plus inches of snow this season in DC have also provided another road block on the road to passing certain legislation, including, ironically enough, the Climate Change bill.

There has been some pretty great organized fun in DC as well, including a 2000 person snowball fight in Dupont Circle, a neighborhood in downtown DC. Check out the video if you have a few minutes to spare for entertainment.

Posted by Miriam - February 10, 2010, at 11:29AM | in News, Random

logo with black afro and the words angry black bitch in yellow green and red

She mentioned this in her notes column on monday, but I wanted to highlight it again.

Today is the fifth anniversary of Shark-fu's blog, Angry Black Bitch.

I love her blog origin story--the blog was actually an early birthday gift from a friend.

Shark-Fu is an indispensable voice in the blogosphere and I'm glad she's kept her bitchitude going for five whole years. We're also lucky to have her thoughts on Feministing once a week in her "Notes from a bitch" column.

So head on over and give her some anniversary loving. She's also asking for donations to SAGE Metro St. Louis, which serves older LGBT folks.

Posted by Miriam - February 10, 2010, at 10:10AM | in Blogs

Courtney and the Secret Society for Creative Philanthropy, which she founded four years ago, were highlighted in this New York Times article.

[Courtney is] a Brooklyn-based writer who, five years ago, was shocked to find herself in possession of a six-figure book advance. She wanted to give a chunk of it away, but was not sure how. So she decided she would make it someone else's problem -- nine other people's problems. She chose nine thoughtful friends, gave them each $100, and told them they would be expected to account for what they had done with it at a gathering a month later.

Check out the full piece here and the group here. Congrats Courtney!

Posted by Miriam - February 10, 2010, at 09:39AM | in Activism, Financial Matters

File this one under: it's about damn time.

State Senator Hiram Monserrate, a Democratic representative from Queens, was expelled last night from the New York State Senate by a vote of 53 to 8 after he was convicted of a misdemeanor assault for slashing his girlfriend's face with a broken beer bottle and then dragging her through his apartment lobby. There is a video of the incident caught by the lobby security cameras.

I say it's about damn time, because the incident that had him expelled occured last December, although he wasn't convicted until November.

Monserrate also garnered attention last June when he and another Democrat switched parties, aligning themselves with the Republicans and subsequently creating a one month legislative deadlock in the NY State Senate.

He is vowing to appeal the expulsion and stated last night:

"I know that my behavior has brought unwelcome discredit to this chamber, and for that, I am deeply sorry," he said. "But, as Rev. Jesse Jackson once said, 'God isn't through with me yet.'"

God may not be through with you yet, Monserrate, but the NY State Senate sure is.

Posted by Miriam - February 10, 2010, at 08:49AM | in Politics, Violence Against Women

Our Bodies Ourselves is seeking up to two dozen women to participate in an online discussion on sexual relationships. Be one of them. Deadline passed!

War critic John P. Murtha passed away.

"Evidence suggests honor killings are still relatively common in the West as well, not only among Muslim immigrants, although such crimes may take a different name."

Note to the Utah legislature:"A fetus does not have a heart at three weeks, much less a heartbeat."

In her new work, I Am an Emotional Creature, Eve Ensler argues that the power of girls is one of our "greatest natural resources." Hijacked, abused, and underutilized, of course.

If you're in the New York area, the Brooklyn Museum of Art will be the place to be this Saturday for Viva Woman!, including the new exhibition of Kiki Smith, Haitian vocalist Emeline Michel, Deepa Mehta's Water, Staceyann Chin on The Other Side of Paradise; and a dance party hosted by DJ Mary Mac. Better yet, everything is FREE.

Posted by Courtney - February 09, 2010, at 05:00PM | in What We Missed

Lindsey VonnFirst there was that unfortunate Sports Illustrated cover. Then, this Sunday, The New York Times featured a profile of 25-year-old Olympic skier Lindsey Vonn that essentially portrayed her as a helpless, albeit competitive, pawn caught between a series of domineering men--first her father, then her husband, frequently her beleaguered coaches.

The worst of it was when Lindsey's former coach, Erich Sailer, comments on her strained relationship with her father, Alan:

Alan is suffering with it. He was right in his heart. Lindsey definitely has some of her father's characteristics -- very aggressive -- but she is more of a diplomat because she has some of her mother's disposition. But as a racer, she is like her father. She would rather be dead than not succeed. Someday, after she goes through her racing career, she will have children. It will be like another life. And he'll come back into her life.

Okay, so maybe Lindsey's father and mother--divorced--really do have personalities that align with age-old gender stereotypes. Sometimes it happens (although it's always worth questioning when it comes up in such a polarized framing). But saying that this star athlete will reunite with her father once she regains her maternal instincts and leaves her sport behind, is beyond offensive (never mind, if Lindsey even wants children). It's all speculation and it's all sexist.

This latest wave of blech reminds me that the majority of mainstream media outlets still don't know how to deal with the confluence of women and competitive sports. And this ain't brand new folks; Title IX was passed in 1972. It's like otherwise excellent sports journalists' get mesmerized by the fact that their subject is, gasp, female, and end up focusing on her beauty, family drama, and/or male coaches. Enough already. I'm tired of gagging at every feel-good or poor-girl lady-athlete story.

Bill Pennington, who wrote the NYT profile, redeems himself a bit at the end by letting Lindsey herself have the last word:

So now I know that I've worked harder and prepared myself better than anyone. And I have put things in place. I have a race routine. I have a team of people helping me. I have winning habits. I believe in myself. I have balance in my life. In the end, it's a mental maturity to let your best come out.

Amen sister. Tell that to the journalists covering female athletes this winter Olympics, will ya?

Also read:
AP nominates two horses for "Female Athlete of the Year"
When Soccer Players Attack
Pregnant high school athlete faces discrimination

Posted by Courtney - February 09, 2010, at 03:47PM | in Media, Sexism, Sports

I've been thinking about the power of the personal a lot lately, particularly the ways in which we do or don't show up as feminists in different contexts. Women's studies classroom? Sure, everybody's doing it. First dinner out with the new boyfriend's conservative parents? Maybe not so much. It can be really difficult to make these kinds of choices, as insignificant as they might seem. As sociologist Erving Goffman argues, we are always performing different selves depending on the context we find ourselves in.

When I wrote my first book, Perfect Girls, Starving Daughters, I incorporated feminism into my analysis, I suggested feminism as a solution of sorts for the epidemic of perfectionism and body image distortion so rampant among my generation. But you don't find feminism anywhere in the title and that was intentional. I knew it would scare away a group of women that I hoped would read the book and, in the process, get hip to feminist ideas.

In contrast, when I was on The O'Reilly Factor, they put my professional title (called a chyron in the bizz) as simply FEMINIST. It wasn't my first choice--I would have preferred to be identified by one of the many hats I wear, including editor at Feministing.com or Senior Correspondent at The American Prospect. But I also thought it was sort of awesome. It proved that O'Reilly was truly intimidated by my feminist identity.

When and where do you claim your feminist label and when and where do you shirk it? Remember, the latter usually doesn't involve an out and out denouncement or denial of feminism's importance in your life, but it's easy to downplay that part of your politics. How do you make these context-based decisions?

Posted by Courtney - February 09, 2010, at 01:52PM | in Activism, Feminism, Personal Is Political

Diane DiMassaGuest Post by Sabrina Chapadjiev

Most people know Diane DiMassa as the brilliant cartoonist of "Hothead Paisan- Lesbian Homicidal Terrorist". What they don't know is that DiMassa is also a high falutin' oil painter whose explosive abstracts are beginning to take off in the art world. I asked DiMassa about the difference between cartooning and paintings, her inspirations and working towards the the perfect art-gasm.

SC: What's the difference between creating cartoons and creating paintings?

DD: Drawing cartoons can feel like riding a tricycle through quicksand compared to painting. Though I am not disparaging cartooning in any way! I love it! I just mean that it's more focused and linear and labor intensive. You are drawing in a little square. You are conveying with words and agreed-upon images; it is clear, it is finite. When I paint I try to bypass my brain as much as possible. In fact, the more cerebral I get about painting, the worse it is. I can never plan for how it's going to "come out." Or I've learned not to try. It just wastes paint.

GlampussSC: Hothead is known for being filled with anger while most of your paintings seem to be a completely opposite side of that-with a muted palette and a steady hand. Does painting abstracts allow you to access emotions that you're not able to reach with Hothead?

DD: Hothead exists to be angry, and while I would get ethereal in the comics through other characters sometimes, the focus is always on anger. I am not sure how long whatever painting is accessing has been there. Might not have been there yet. Whatever art is coming out is an accurate reflection of whatever stage of development I'm at.

SC: When did you start doing paintings, and why?

DD: I have always painted, but the discipline has been a progression. I have been doing what I'm doing now daily for about a year and half. Well, you know, almost daily. Where'd all the discipline come from suddenly? Age and revelation of mortality, of course (as in: you're fifty, jack-ass. Get up and get moving.) As for why...well, it's what I'm here for. It's sure not my cooking skills.

Posted by Courtney - February 09, 2010, at 01:00PM | in Arts

Check out Claire Messud over at Guernica on the ol' "woman writer" moniker:

The great twentieth-century American poet Elizabeth Bishop refused to be included in anthologies of women's poetry, insisting that she was a poet plain and simple, rather than a "woman poet." She wrote that "art is art and to separate writings, paintings, musical compositions, etc. into two sexes is to emphasize values that are not art."

As an American writer of the early twenty-first century, I agree with her wholeheartedly. An artist's work is in no way limited or defined by her gender. To allot space, then--such as this fiction section of Guernica--to women writers specifically is, surely, to limit and define them--us!--by an irrelevant fact of birth. Why not, at that point, organize a fiction section comprised of blue-eyed Capricorns from Atlanta?

And yet, when given the chance to gather a selection of writers for the magazine, I didn't hesitate: I knew at once that I wanted to showcase the work of women writers. Not because they're women, but because they are writers whose work thrills and surprises me. And because, simply on account of their gender, they are too often overlooked by the silly popularity contests that are juries and boards and lists. This is not a question of the writers' quality but of our society's habits, and of a habitual--and primarily lazy--cultural expectation that male writers are somehow more serious, more literary, or more interesting. When awarding laurels of various kinds, it is all too often a matter of who one thinks of first: if one thought twice, things might look a little different.

See also:
Celebrating Black Women Writers and Artists for Black History Month
What's in a pen name?
Mad Men, brought to you by women
An Entourage of Their Own

Posted by Courtney - February 09, 2010, at 11:40AM | in Books, Sexism

If you're not hip to Ileana Jiménez's amazing blog, Feminist Teacher, it's time. Throughout her thirteen year career, Jiménez has been a leader in the field of social justice education for students of color, LGBT youth, women and girls. She's also a major advocate of getting intersectional feminism in schools at all grade levels.

In a recent post, she writes about making an argument for getting gender education in the classroom, pre-college. There is so much talk about women's studies at the university level, that we often lose track of the importance of gender education in the early years. Jiménez asked her students to write a letter to President Obama asking him to "examine the issue of gender and education with a critical eye on the ways in which feminism might be addressed in the curriculum." Here's an excerpt from one of her student's essays:

The first problem that I would like to address is the lack of intersectional feminism within education. Feminism is a wonderful example of how all social injustices interlock. In high schools on down in the education system, children are taught modified African American studies. Students are taught an even more limited version of Women's Studies. They learn nothing about the struggles of say a Japanese woman during WWII or of an Ethiopian girl's everyday life.

It is understandable that teachers cannot be expected to cram decades of struggles into 12 years of study. I just feel that there should be more time in the curriculum starting in the lower grades (if they can learn about the slave trade, they can learn about feminism) dedicated to learning about feminism and the goals behind it.

So. Awesome. I wish Ileana Jiménez could be my teacher.

Posted by Courtney - February 09, 2010, at 09:45AM | in Academics, Education, Women's Studies

This week my personal blog, AngryBlackBitch, will celebrate five years of practicing the fine art of bitchitude.

Sigh.

I still remember not understanding how to post pictures as if it were just yesterday.

Sigh again.

When I began blogging it was with the expectation that only my friends and family would read my posts.

I never could have imagined that folks outside my circle would care about my thoughts and opinions...but that didn't matter, because I fell in love with writing right from the start.

From the beginning, I have been an activist who blogs. But blogging has been and remains a fantabulous way to grow as an activist...to share my opinions and concerns and get feedback from people all over the world. Blogging is a unique medium that has brought me great joy...taught me a lot about myself and others (the good, the bad and the rancid)...and helped me grow as a feminist.

So, as an anniversary present to myself I'm going to encourage all y'all to document your activism. You don't have to blog it (I've heard that there are still people out there keeping offline journals...I know, 'tis shocking!) And, if you blog about your activism, you don't have to share that blog with anyone if you are uncomfortable with that.

But I do recommend putting your thoughts down...your frustrations, joys, concerns, hopes and goals...because there's nothing like taking a journey back through those posts to see the evolution of your activism and your mission.

'Tis a humbling journey...it can be damned embarrassing...but it is ultimately illuminating and empowering to see how far you've come even as you acknowledge that you've got miles upon miles yet to go in the struggle.

And if you're already documenting and blogging...keep on keepin' it real!

Posted by sharkfu - February 09, 2010, at 08:10AM | in

If today's rundown of Superbowl commercials weren't enough to make you worry about the state of American masculinity, the above compilation of violence from last night's ads surely will be.

Costa Rica elected its first female president by a landslide!

The New York Times tells us that the increase of women in college means a decrease in hetero lurve. (Opheliasawake has more on the Community blog.)

More on the Superbowl from Amanda at The Sexist.

Who's to blame for the commodification of virginity? Feminists!

Posted by Jessica - February 08, 2010, at 06:30PM | in What We Missed


Transcript after the jump

Dockers' feminist-hating "man-ifesto," now in video form. Cause if dudes want to "wear the pants," they should buy ugly khaki ones.

Posted by Jessica - February 08, 2010, at 05:27PM | in Advertising , Consumerism, Masculinity, Video

Love these students! Students at John Carroll University in Ohio protested during a school basketball game over the school's unwillingness to include sexual orientation to its nondiscrimination policy.

From a student statement on YouTube:

John Carroll's mission is to create people for others. That means support, protection, love, and understanding for all people without regard to color, creed, sexual preference, gender, age, or other personal factors. That's the goal of a Jesuit institution.

By not explicitly voicing its support of LGBTQ students, faculty, and alumni, John Carroll's administration is breaking those unspoken bonds of trust that make JCU a community.

Despite support from the faculty union to include sexual orientation in the policy, the school's administration is holding firm. JCU President Robert Niehoff issued a statement saying that the policy wouldn't be changed because it goes against "traditional Catholic moral teaching."

The nondiscrimination policy is the university's promise to employees and faculty that the institution will not discriminate based on gender, religion or race. In his message earlier this week, Niehoff issued a lengthy explanation of his views that gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people should be welcomed and respected at the university. He stopped short of recommending that the policy be changed, however, instead offering a "community standards statement" as a supplement to the policy.

So make the "community" accountable, but not the school, huh? Lovely.

Posted by Jessica - February 08, 2010, at 04:48PM | in Activism, Education, Queer Issues

Via Media Matters, I see that CNN contributor and RedState editor Erick Erickson was tweeting douchtastic last night.

Screen shots of Erick Erickson's Twitter account reading: Thus ends the credibility of all pro-abortion groups.  Thanks Mrs. Tebow for that. Ugly feminists return to their kitchen. Second tweet reads: that's it?!?! That's what the feminazis were enraged over? Seriously?!? Wow. That's what being too ugly to get a date does to your brain

I'm not going to link to his account, but it seems that the Twitter-feminist bashing has continued into today - complete with hackneyed comments about Birkenstocks, hairiness and having no sense of humor. I'm betting a tweet about castration is well on its way.

Via Feministe.

Posted by Jessica - February 08, 2010, at 03:25PM | in Anti-Feminism, Media, Sports

After all the controversy surrounding Focus on the Family's ad featuring Tim and Pam Tebow - this commercial seems somewhat...well, meh.


Transcript after the jump

Outside of the inexplicable tackling (ha!), this ad doesn't really say much of anything. In fact, it seems like it really just serves to promote Focus on the Family's website - where, of course, you'll find all sorts of anti-choice rhetoric including an interview where Tebow's father speaks about "weeping over the loss of millions of babies in America that were never given a chance."

But really, I have the same question that Jesse does: "[I]f the anti-choice position is so true, so mainstream and so critical to the future of our nation, why did Focus on the Family spend $2.5 million to avoid saying anything whatsoever about it?"

I'm sensing an anxious masculinity theme for the Superbowl commercials this year. I mean, we get it, dudes: You're worried about being castrated by lavender scented candles and shopping with your lady friend. Go kill something, quick! And for the love of god, stop being nice to your girlfriend.

Amanda's take on this one is dead on: "The way for a man to regain his balls/spine, suggested the ad, was to get a Flo TV so that he could passively-aggressively watch his game while pointedly ignoring his wife on their outing while technically obeying her overbearing feminine demands he's powerless to resist openly. "

Transcript after the jump

Posted by Jessica - February 08, 2010, at 12:23PM | in Advertising , Consumerism, Masculinity, Media, Sexism, Sports, Video

book cover of The Hardest Questions Aren't on the Test: Lessons from an Innovative Urban School by Linda F. Nathan. The book cover is a picture of a school hallway with Nathan talking with and putting her hand on the shoulder of a young male student of color.
People are always surprised when I talk about how much I loved my high school, that is unless they also attended the Boston Arts Academy (BAA). Yes, I entered high school a pro-life Christian fundamentalist, and I didn't come out as transgender until well into college, but besides being a teenager high school was one of the best experiences of my life.

BAA is an urban public high school for the visual and performing arts. Students audition for their arts major to get into the school, but previous academic success is not part of the admissions process. The school is racially and economically diverse, and students bring a range of academic experience and achievement. About half the day is spent in non-tracked academic classes and the rest is spent studying one's art major. Getting to do something I love for so much of the school day helped make high school a place I wanted to be (staff literally has to kick students out of the building hours after the school day ends). The school strives to link arts and academics so student artistic achievement can translate into other areas as well. And they're doing a great job - the school has a 94% college acceptance rate, pretty much unheard of among schools with a similar socioeconomic breakdown in this grossly underfunded district.

Linda Nathan, the school's founding headmaster, has written a book that outlines her experience of the creation and growth of BAA. Reading The Hardest Questions Aren't on the Test: Lessons from an Innovative Urban School brought back so many memories and emotions for me. I was sometimes moved and inspired, sometimes enraged, just like when I was at BAA. The book highlights the deliberate process of asking the right questions that has informed every major decision at the school. While gaining insight into how BAA was formed I also realized the degree to which students were encouraged to question as well. This is dangerous: the idea of encouraging young people to ask the hard questions probably scares a lot of educators who would expect rebellion. And yes, BAA can be a contentious community, but it is very much a community. Students, teachers, and staff feel an ownership of the school that creates a powerful learning community where everyone works and grows together. This is education for liberation, what I believe public education should be.

Posted by Jos - February 08, 2010, at 11:20AM | in Education, Not Oprah's Book Club

Ah, Superbowl commercials - you can always count on them for feminist fodder.  Throughout the day, we'll be bringing you the best (the worst?) of the Superbowl's commercials - including, of course, the Focus on the Family ad that's been the center of so much controversy.

Brace yourselves.

This first ad, "Man's Last Stand," is one of my favorites...

I will blame women for "making" me be a halfway decent human being. I will whine about having to do things like working, being considerate, and cleaning up after myself. And because I do all this, my unfortunate partner will be forced to listen to me insist that getting the kind of car I want is necessary for my penis' very life.

Transcript after the jump

Posted by Jessica - February 08, 2010, at 09:45AM | in Advertising , Masculinity, Media, Sexism, Sports, Video

These kinds of stories leave me completely baffled at the competency of the judicial system. (Warning: Story may be triggering.) Via the Curvature, we find a horrendous case where three judges refused a woman protection from her ex-boyfriend in fear of her and her son Wyatt's life -- not a month later, the man murdered the 9-month old boy before he committed suicide.

In the midst of a custody battle between Katie Tagle and Stephen Garcia, Tagle was trying to get supervised visitation with Garcia. She then requested an emergency restraining order against him after he sent her a text message threatening to kill her and her son. When Tagle didn't have hard proof of the texts for Judge Debra Harris because her phone was off, the emergency order was denied and a hearing was set. At the hearing, Judge David Mazurek not only denied the restraining order, but completely dismissed the fact that Garcia admitted he had physically attacked her and said they should "work together":

"If I grant the restraining order, how do you think that's going to help with respect to you two being able to raise Wyatt together or work together to make sure Wyatt grows up happy and healthy?" the judge asked, according to the transcripts.

"I kind of get an idea of what's going on," Mazurek said. He denied the restraining order, saying, "I don't think that Mr. Garcia poses a threat to Ms. Tagle." Mazurek went on to suggest Tagle might have ulterior motives for alleging domestic violence. "I get concerned when there's a pending child custody and visitation issue and in between that, one party or the other claims that there's some violence in between. It raises the court's eyebrows because based on my experience, it's a way for one party to try to gain an advantage over the other," he said, according to the transcripts.

A day after the hearing, Garcia sent Tagle an email with a "story" about their relationship in which there are two endings: one with the woman returning to the man, and the other with the man killing their child. After rushing to Mazurek with the email, he then gave Tagle a restraining order. But alas, a third judge, Judge Robert Lemkau, refused to uphold the order 10 days later and forced Tagle to give Wyatt to Garcia for visitation. Wyatt was killed nearly two weeks later.

Check out the details to see exactly how this all went down. But when it comes down to it, there were three judges, and multiple incidences of violence as well as threats of murder. Just what is there to question? Cara has some great thoughts on this and the larger issue of a system that perpetuates the notion that women simply can't be trusted.

Posted by Vanessa - February 08, 2010, at 09:01AM | in Children, Law, Violence Against Women

a vintage ad for a gum massager called  the vibra-finger

Information overload this week! So many links:

The HPV vaccine has been approved for boys!

What the Facebook doppelganger meme means for people of color.

Attorney General Eric Holder on the "macho bravado" that leads to wars.

Healthy sexuality is a human right.

Smacking down Asian fetishism.

A new court ruling says gender identity disorder qualifies as medical care under the Internal Revenue Code, and is therefore deductible.

Johnny Depp, rape apologist.

Jill takes apart the new study that says abstinence-only education works.

Tami on Haiti and the exploitation of people of color.

What women have to do with the recent dip in unemployment numbers.

Claire Messud on the "habitual--and primarily lazy--cultural expectation that male writers are somehow more serious, more literary, or more interesting."

Did Bikini Kill change your life? A new blog archives stories of people inspired by the band.

Posted by Ann - February 07, 2010, at 02:28PM | in Weekly Feminist Reader

By far my favorite plenary at Creating Change so far, the Youth of Color Panel featured young leaders speaking to the priorities of the communities they represent. Kai Wright did an excellent job giving these folks space to share perspectives that are outside the mainstream of the LGBT movement. They articulated a vision that moves beyond marriage to the issues that actually impact their lives. Some highlights from the panel, which had the crowd whipped up like no other large session, after the jump.

Posted by Jos - February 07, 2010, at 09:45AM | in Events, Queer Issues, Race, Young People

Sellyphoto.jpgSelly Thiam is the founder and executive producer of None on Record, a sound documentary project that collects the stories of QLGBT Africans from the African Continent and the Diaspora. Selly, who is of Senegalese descent, was born and raised in Chicago. She came out in high school, and found herself searching for women like her - West African lesbian women - but couldn't find any. Her search for people who shared her intersectional experiences led her to community organizing and activism and, ultimately, to None on Record.

Thiam started None on Record in 2006 in response to the murder of a Sierra Leonean QLGBT activist, and since then, Thiam and her colleagues have collected thousands of oral histories from all over the world. The first None on Record satellite project was launched in Canada, and there are now additional satellites in Johannesburg, Dakar, and will soon open one in Nairobi. The goal of these satellites, Thiam says, is to enable people to collect their own local oral histories, and to create their own archives. You can listen to some of those oral histories - some of which are absolutely stunning - here.

And now, without further ado, the Feministing Five, with Selly Thiam.

Rea Carey, Executive Director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, spoke to the state of our movement at Creating Change today. Carey highlighted the many local, state, and national victories over the past year, the harsh losses, and the frustrating lack of action at the federal level, as well as an agenda for moving forward. Some highlights from her remarks, which received a standing ovation, after the jump.

Posted by Jos - February 05, 2010, at 06:36PM | in Events, Politics, Queer Issues, Transgender Issues

After an 8-year holdup by Bush (shocking!), the Department of Defense has added emergency contraception (EC) to the list of medications to be made available to women in the military.

Oh-no-they-didn't: Focus on the Family is airing a second ad for the Superbowl - during the pregame show. Unbelievable.

More good news: The Bureau of Labor Statistics is changing its way of reporting, making it tons more inclusive.

Holy WTF of the Day: A 12-year old girl from Queens was taken out of school in handcuffs for doodling on her desk. This is one incident of many like it in NYC schools as of late.

Posted by Vanessa - February 05, 2010, at 04:58PM | in What We Missed

Love Won Out (LWO) is the traveling ex-gay roadshow put on by Exodus International and Focus on the Family. Elizabeth Fregiato and Jean-Marie Navetta from PFLAG, who attended an LWO conference, presented an eye-opening view of the increasingly complex messaging used by the ex-gay movement. As someone who grew up a Christian fundamentalist I was particularly interested in hearing how this movement has evolved.

LWO's approach has shifted based on the fact that people, you know, don't turn ex-gay. And that polarized, hateful messaging isn't reaching all the populations they want to convert. Their focus is not on reparative therapy. They use language like "gay identity" rather than "homosexual lifestyle" to make themselves more acceptable to potential allies or members of the LGBT movement. They're telling folks not to use the language LGBT organizations have critiqued. They use the language of addiction, saying someone is born gay but can choose not to live that identity. In fact, members of the ex-gay movement are attending different "Anonymous" groups to pull in folks when they're at their most vulnerable.

Posted by Jos - February 05, 2010, at 04:00PM | in Events, Queer Issues, Religion

Almost two years ago to the day, Jessica wrote a post in response to Lori Gottlieb's horrendous story in The Atlantic on how straight, professional, single women over 30 should just suck it up and marry "Mr. Good Enough." She even predicted that Gottlieb would "probably get a book deal out of it." Well, it looks like she was right.

Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough is an extended version of the original Atlantic piece, an entire book attempting to convince women to settle for any ole Joe who is willing to have them. With societal influences putting all sorts of pressure on straight single women to find a man to snag or they'll just never be happy, the false information Gottlieb is now selling feeds this kind of message -- and all under the guise of "self-help." She recently conducted an interview with Jessica Wakeman, who brings up the point that one of the chapters is titled, "How Feminism F--ed Up My Love Life." Yep. But Gottlieb contends she is too a feminist!:

I'm all for feminism. I'm a feminist. What feminism is, though, is a social movement about equality. Feminism never told women, "You can have it all in a partner!" But what women did was -- and I'm guilty of this as well -- [they said] "Oh, I'm independent and I'm self-sufficient and if a guy comes along that's great but I don't need a man. I can have it all!" And we took all these ideas and we said, "That's feminism!" That's not feminism! Feminism is about do we get equal pay? Do we have equal opportunities? That's feminism. We attributed these other things to feminism. Feminism never had an opinion about dating, other than [to say] you should be an equal.

Oh, you are so, so wrong, Lori. Let's count a few of the many assumptions made in Marry Him (the title alone says enough) that are inherently anti-feminist: All women should get married; all women can have children; all women should have children; all women are straight; all women need a man to have kids; all women will lead miserable and depressing lives if they don't get married; and lastly, all women aren't worthy enough to wait for someone worthy of them.

And if this was some sort of book that was looking critically at the ideals of romance and having a soul mate, etc. why would it just be targeting women? What's wrong with, "I'm independent and I'm self-sufficient and if a guy comes along that's great but I don't need a man" anyway? Gottlieb's plight isn't a plight at all, but a big ole scare tactic to put women into a frenzy and compromise their desires and values in a partner by putting their ovaries before their own happiness.

Check out more at Jessica Grose's review of the book, who not only reminds us that Gottlieb's research subjects were all upper-middle class but also that her numbers just don't add up. Matt Yglesias also weighs in.

Posted by Vanessa - February 05, 2010, at 03:03PM | in Books, Marriage, Relationships, Sexism

When I posted about the Queer the Census campaign a few weeks back, there were a lot of questions about why the census was relevant--why it was important to include LGBT folks and a question about sexual orientation.

Here are some notes from a panel at Creating Change about the importance of the Census, hopefully to answer some of those questions.

What is clear is that data does matter. It determines how policy is made, how resources are allocated and what people think about our community. It's also clear that the only five questions on this survey do not tell us enough about LGBT folks in this country, but we need to take advantage of what the current survey can tell us about LGBT couples living together. This is improved immensely by filling it out appropriately, and there is information here to help you do so.

Numbers Matter: The Importance of the Census for LGBT Americans in 2010 and Beyond

Presenters: Gary Gates, Senior Research Fellow, The Williams Institute, UCLA School of Law, Los Angeles, CA; Jaime M. Grant, Director of the Policy Institute, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Washington, DC; Tim Olson, U.S. Census Bureau, Washington, DC

Posted by Miriam - February 05, 2010, at 01:50PM | in Queer Issues

Yesterday, President Obama and Secretary of State Hillary Clinton slammed the anti-gay Uganda bill which could enforce life imprisonment and the death penalty on gay Ugandans at an event called the National Prayer Breakfast. The breakfast was hosted by an organization that has ties to that very legislation.

According to Bilerico, The Fellowship - also called The Family - is a secretive organization with no website or any indication of legitimacy as a non-profit, but hosts this event every year. A number of religious leaders and lawmakers are said to be members, but asked not to be public about it. (Creeped out yet?) What we do know is that the organization has a history of involvement with the Ugandan government and its members have possibly took part in the creation of the bill. Even the Ugandan MP who authored the bill, David Bahati, has deep ties with The Family - he was originally invited, and then disinvited, to the event.

While some said it would be outrageous for the White House to attend such an gathering, others like Bishop Gene Robinson thought it was an opportunity to make a statement against The Family's shady involvement. And they did. Obama said in his speech at the breakfast:

We can take different approaches to ending inequality, but surely we can agree on the need to lift our children out of ignorance; to lift our neighbors from poverty. We may disagree about gay marriage, but surely we can agree that it is unconscionable to target gays and lesbians for who they are -- whether it's here in the United States or, as Hillary mentioned, more extremely in odious laws that are being proposed most recently in Uganda.

Not only did Clinton name-drop Uganda as well, but has been taking forceful action in making it clear to Uganda that if this bill is passed, there will be ramifications.

Various religious groups and organizations responded strongly to the breakfast. An "American Prayer Hour" was organized, where a gay Ugandan man spoke -- with a paper bag over his head to hide his identity -- about the demonization and oppression LGBT individuals in Uganda face. In the meantime, the leader of a Christian group sent out a press release incredulously in defense of the Ugandan bill, stating, "It is not a 'Kill the Gays' bill. Rather, it is designed to kill the disease that some homosexuals spread through their reckless and irresponsible conduct and lifestyle."

Since this bill was proposed, the exposure of the treachery by these religious and political leaders in power is unsettling, for lack of a better word. But at least we have solidarity from the White House; we could certainly anticipate the silence from the previous administration. Let's just hope enough action is taken to stop this madness.

Posted by Vanessa - February 05, 2010, at 12:25PM | in International, Law, Queer Issues, Updates

Meet my new boyfriend, Scott Fujita. This week, the New Orleans Saints linebacker was featured in the New York Times talking about why he's pro-choice and pro-LGBT rights. This is not only regarding the anti-choice ad that's scheduled to air during the Super Bowl on Sunday, but also the gay dating site ad that was submitted to CBS - and rejected.

As covered by Jos yesterday, Sean James and Al Joyner were featured in a new Planned Parenthood ad talking about the decisions they want the women in their lives to have. And Fujita is right behind them. He says:

"It's just me standing up for equal rights. It's not that courageous to have an opinion if you think it's the right thing and you believe it wholeheartedly."

On the anti-choice ad, he says he respects Tebow for standing up for what he believes in, but:

"The idea of focusing on the family -- who wouldn't agree with that? But the means of doing so, he and I might not see eye to eye all the way."

Fujita himself was adopted, by a Japanese-American man who was born during WWII in an Arizona internment camp. (He often talks of drawing inspiration from his grandmothers strong will during the war.) While he says he's grateful that his biological mother, a teenager at the time, had the support to carry out the pregnancy, he "wouldn't expect that of anybody."

As for the ManCrunch.com ad that was submitted and rejected by CBS, Fujita says that he understands people may have a hissy, but it still should have been aired: "Do they have the right? Absolutely. Is it going to offend some people? Absolutely."

What I find great about James, Joyner and Fujita is not only their courage in speaking out on a very controversial issue, but also how their actions dispel stereotypes about professional athletes (especially football players) being simple brutes who have little interest in anything but the game. These three men may not be activists every day, but they were activists for at least one -- and that certainly counts for something.

It looks like this ad is going to air regardless, but you can still make your outrage known. Here are ways to take action. Now, how can I get this guy's number? (Jezebel has even more reasons to love him. Swoon!)

Posted by Vanessa - February 05, 2010, at 10:25AM | in Queer Issues, Reproductive Rights, Sports

Yesterday, the International Violence Against Women Act (IVAWA) was re-introduced to both houses of Congress. The bill was introduced last year, but never came to a vote. Sen. John Kerry, Rep. Bill Delahunt, Kerry Kennedy and Larry Cox of Amnesty International have a piece in Politico:

IVAWA will support innovative programs that challenge public attitudes and cultural practices that perpetuate and condone violence against women and girls. In settings where women are prevented or discouraged from seeking justice, IVAWA will support training for police and judicial officials on countering violence against women and respecting the rights of victims. It will allow long-term prevention efforts such as increasing women's economic security, expanding access to jobs and education, and engaging men to change behaviors and attitudes. Societies in which women are able to live and function in relative safety, empowered to realize their aspirations and move their communities forward are healthier, better developed, and more stable. Societies that take measures to deter discrimination and violence against women are better equipped to root out terrorism, less prone to conflict, and therefore more secure.

It's no news that the bill's passage would be a huge step in the right direction in addressing systematic violence against women and girls across the globe. So take action and make sure that happens.

UPDATE: You can also sign the IVAWA petition at Women Thrive.

Posted by Vanessa - February 05, 2010, at 09:03AM | in International, Violence Against Women

Jos and I are at the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Conference, Creating Change, this weekend and we'll be blogging from the conference. If you want to follow what's going on, you can check out the twitter hashtag #cc10.

Thomas Saenz, President, Mexican American Legal Defense and Education Fund's remarks after the jump.

Posted by Miriam - February 04, 2010, at 09:06PM | in Events, Immigration, Queer Issues

If you're in NYC and want to do some movie-walking and panel-talking, come to the 92YTribeca at 7pm and see Rachel Simmons, Emily Abt, Melissa Silverstein, and me.

We love it when our community posters grow their lil' wings and fly off into the blogosphere on their very own. Check out Maya's awesome new (l)inklings.

Ruthie Ackerman sounds off about the amazing benefits of hyperlocal, citizen journalism. Namely, that folks get more than a mostly white, mostly male perspective.

Remember that awful thing the former NBA power forward wrote about Haiti? My friend Dave, who was a blogger on the site with him, weighs in.

Is Michelle Obama's anti-obesity campaign going to encourage diet talk? Ugh, I hope not.

Jennifer Baumgardner and Amy Richards just announced that they are going to be hosting a Feminist Summer Camp that runs from June 6-12th. Find more deets at their site.

Serious WTF material: An anti-abortion group targeting African-American women has begun putting up dozens of billboards around metro Atlanta, declaring black children to be "an endangered species."

We know you all are the shit, so why not enter Dissent's Paul Goodman Essay Contest for Young Writers?

The Chronicle of Higher Ed asks, are women getting screwed in Obama's FY 2011 budget request to Congress?

Posted by Courtney - February 04, 2010, at 05:00PM | in What We Missed

Check out my friend Rodney's amazing new More Life vlog, starting with this entry about his HIV misdiagnosis as a teenage boy in Texas. Rodney is a longtime community organizer, activist, and most recently, minister-in-training. He blends the political with the spiritual in really rare and important ways for a whole new generation.

Transcript after the jump by Maggie Froelich. Thank you Maggie!

Posted by Courtney - February 04, 2010, at 04:00PM | in Blogs, Health, Queer Issues, Religion

I realize it's become the day of the man, but so be it. Check out this segment from last night's show on the crisis of masculinity, hosted by none other than Samantha Bee:

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Bee gets major points for her outfit, creative use of language ("pusswads?" amazing), and making that sociologist look like the bozo that he is, but she also missed out on some awesome opportunities with this subject matter (MRAs? Superbowl controversy? Glenn Beck?).

The Daily Show's deal, of course, particularly in these kinds of segments, is to point out the hypocrisies, ridiculousness, and stereotypes that we so often accept in our social and political worlds. But sometimes it feels like they go after the wrong goat, as in this segment, where they're making fun of guys who actually seem invested in making masculinity less defined by violence and domination.

These guys aren't the oversimplified narrative; they are the ones trying to redefine it. Sure their never ending circle formations are funny and they seem sort of clueless out there in the woods, but that's all easy. It would have been more challenging, and more interesting, to go after organizations that purport to care about masculinity, but only end up reinforcing dysfunctional, oppressive male behavior. The guys featured in this clip, are already being made fun of, I would guess, by people who find them too radical or feminized. The Daily Show's best comedic opportunities aren't in going after the people already challenging the status quo, but addressing those firmly convinced of their own right to stay firmly positioned within it.

One might argue that Bee was trying to position herself as the un-evolved woman--a parody of the kind of lady who doesn't want her man to cry for fear it will challenge the gender role duality and the world will come crashing down. But I'm not so sure that's how people read it. Instead it becomes one more way to laugh at guys who aren't "tough enough."

Your thoughts?

Posted by Courtney - February 04, 2010, at 03:23PM | in Masculinity, Television

You know what they say, too many great reproductive justice titles, too little time. Or, okay, maybe that's just what nerdy feminists like me say, but in any case, I thought I'd devote today's edition of Not Oprah's Book Club to a little round-up.

Dispatches from the Abortion Wars: The Costs of Fanaticism to Doctors, Patients, and the Rest of Us by Carole Joffe:
As Michelle Goldberg attests, "No one knows more about reproductive rights in the United States than Carole Joffe." As if that weren't reason enough to pick up this latest book from Beacon Press, Joffe explores the continuing stigma surrounding abortion, the professional and physical risks for abortion providers (all too obvious after Dr. Tiller's murder), and analyzes the unethical actions taken by the religious and political right to abolish women's rights and access to safe and legal abortions. After just celebrating the 37th anniversary of Roe v. Wade, this book feels more relevant than ever. Joffe writes:

Even if abortion is no longer the central drama of our culture in the Obama years and beyond, it would be naive to think that the abortion wars will end completely. To be sure, some of the fronts in this war will see welcome changes...But neither the religious right nor the single-issue antiabortion organizations will be going away. If we know anything about social movements, it is that defeats can often reenergize them.


cover of Flow: The Cultural Story of MenstruationFlow: The Cultural Story of Menstruation by Elissa Stein and Susan Kim:
Ancient Romans thought menstrual blood has the power to kill flowers, cause fruit to fall from the trees, dull razors, and drive dogs mad. The first time the word "period" was used on a TV commercial was in 1985 (so why do all those TERRIBLE metaphors and euphemisms still exist?!). The most commonly prescribed treatment for PMDD is a pill that is the chemical twin of Prozac.

Find these fun facts, and so much more, in Stein and Kim's totally entertaining and informative book about that monthly thang that, oh, half the world's population experiences. Flow is full of awesome vintage ads, provocative questions, and little known historical stories. And, of course, there's lots of great sarcasm. Of the 1980s shift in ad campaigns: "Gone were those innocent days when tampons were marketed at married women only, out of fear of mass deflowerings of virgins." Mass deflowerings is my new favorite phrase.

Bonus: this is one of the best designed books I've seen in ages. Bravo to the team at St. Martin's/Griffin.


Does This Pregnancy Make Me Look Fat? by Claire Mysko and Magali Amadei:
I always had this little fantasy that the one time that women would give themselves a break with regard to their self-image would be pregnancy. After all, your body is literally in the process of creating another body. Its nothing short of miraculous, in my mind.

But lo and behold, a lot of women continue to feel like shit about their bodies, and some feel even worse, when they've got a bun in the oven. Mysko and Amadei tackle this unfortunate modern phenomenon in this friendly, feminist (the subtle, trick women afraid of the f-word into thinking f-thoughts kind), and practical guide on how to get through pregnancy without hating yourself. They expose the myths, challenges, and insecurities you might face throughout pregnancy and beyond. I love that the book is chock full of candid interviews (with more than 400 women and men!), as well as their own experiences.

Sean James and Al Joyner are providing fine examples of what it means to be male-allies this week, reminding me that there's still an opportunity for others to follow their lead.

I believe that change happens when there is real action, and critical mass involvement...youth voices are critical in that process. Being part of this change campaign would avail me the opportunity to....be equipped with tools and knowledge for adequate engagement in ending violence against women. In my community women bear the blame after rape...people in power would seek for sex before assisting a young lady...and women face exclusion when it comes to governance.

So says one of the amazing applicants for Man Up, an international conference being held in conjunction with the next World Cup in South Africa. Good news, the deadline to apply to be a delegate has been extended until TOMORROW. If you meant to apply, but didn't hit the initial deadline, or know someone who would be great for this incredible opportunity for a rare, international conversation about masculinity, violence, and activism, do it to it. For more, see our last post on it.

Posted by Courtney - February 04, 2010, at 11:53AM | in Events, Masculinity

I'm incredibly moved by this video Planned Parenthood put together featuring former professional football player Sean James and Olympic gold medalist Al Joyner. It's a beautiful model of male allyship: men are speaking but center the perspectives and decisions of women in their lives. They talk about what they've learned from women and about trusting women with their own choices. This is the message I wish Super Bowl viewers would hear.


Transcript after the jump.

Posted by Jos - February 04, 2010, at 11:03AM | in Reproductive Justice, Reproductive Rights, Television, Video

Judi Chamberlin is the kind of civil rights leader you've probably never heard of. She passed away last week, so it's beyond time that we honored her legacy of fighting for the rights of those with mental health issues to be treated with dignity and respect.

Her story began in the 60s when she was just 22, and involuntarily hospitalized for depression after a miscarriage. According to the NYT:

There was a lack of activity, of fresh air. There were seclusion rooms and wards for noncompliant patients, even those who were in no way violent. The drugs, which she said made her lethargic and affected her memory, seemed more intended to control than cure. And she could not sign herself out. She had become, she said, "a prisoner of the system."

As soon as she got out, she joined up with the burgeoning rights movement for mental health patients. Read more about her legacy here.

Chamberlin's courage hits very close to home. My own paternal grandmother spent much of her late life in and out of mental hospitals, inaccurately diagnosed, exposed to shock therapy treatments, and generally misunderstood (or at least, this is my modern take having researched her life). So many women did, especially at that time. Thank you Judi for being a voice against dehumanization.

Sign with sandwiches, one reads My Girlfriend is a Whore

Apparently a restaurant in my old hood of Williamsburg, Brooklyn - Hana Food Corp - features a sandwich called "My Girlfriend is a Whore."  I knew there was a reason I moved.  (h/t to Thera for the pic.)

An anti-feminist blogger in Canada is seeking bail after being jailed for threatening to kill women on his site, and for owning an illegal firearm. The comments on the story are appalling - and terrifying. Doesn't anyone remember George Sodini?

Feministing friend and all-around bad ass Jaclyn Friedman has a great piece up at The Nation, The Second Sex at the Super Bowl.

Miley Cyrus' 9-year-old sister is launching a lingerie line for kids. For reals. (UPDATE: This story was false.)

Join the Girlcott of American Apparel's new, sigh, "Best Bottom Contest."

Vanity Fair's "new Hollywood" cover sure is...well, white.

Posted by Jessica - February 03, 2010, at 06:00PM | in What We Missed

Ah, Rush Limbaugh. Always so charming.


Transcript after the jump.

Thanks to Think Progress, who also point out that Limbaugh held a "Female Summit" to find out how he could "own women."

Posted by Jessica - February 03, 2010, at 05:12PM | in Anti-Feminism, Media, Sexism

Horrifying. According to HuffPo, it's now more dangerous to give birth in California than in Kuwait or Bosnia. (Check out this chart for more.) It's also worth noting that the maternal death rate of women of color has long been known to be high, but this study is getting play because of the "dramatic increase in deaths among white, non-Hispanic mothers."

Posted by Jessica - February 03, 2010, at 04:34PM | in Health, Motherhood, Women of Color

Box of ellaOne emergency contraceptionA new kind of emergency contraception, ellaOne, works to prevent pregnancy up to five days after unprotected sex.

The EC sold in the U.S. is levonorgestrel, sold under the brand name Plan B; ellaOne is the drug ulipristal acetate, and it's only available in Europe. Though it's limited availability hasn't stopped anti-choicers in the U.S. from laying the groundwork for a fight.

Donna Harrison, president of the American Association of Pro-Life Obstetricians and Gynecologists, says that "this is a thinly-veiled attempt to get an abortion drug over-the-counter." A headline from LifeNews says the drug "causes abortions."

UK anti-choicers are chiming in as well, like Joanne Hill from the organization LIFE, who says that "more casual sex and more unintended pregnancy will inevitably be the result" of ellaOne.

Obviously, these are all the same arguments we heard when the FDA was considering approving Plan B for over-the-counter status, and the "it will make girls slutty" line is one we're familiar with from EC and Gardasil battles.

So while I'm happy to know ellaOne is effective, I'm not holding my breath for it to be introduced - or made available anytime soon - in the U.S.

Posted by Jessica - February 03, 2010, at 03:30PM | in Politics, Reproductive Justice, Reproductive Rights, Science

I want to be a Raging Granny when I grow up! The Raging Grannies of South Florida made this amazing video that's bringing me so much joy to counter my disgust at CBS and Focus on the Family's propaganda:


Transcript after the jump.

I'm gonna be singing this all day.

Posted by Jos - February 03, 2010, at 01:40PM | in Reproductive Justice, Reproductive Rights, Television, Video

Tshirt featuring picture of a road sign that reads, Abstinence Ave. Exit When MarriedThe media (and abstinence-only organizations) are atwitter over a study that shows abstinence-only education can delay the onset of sexual activity.

Valerie Huber, Executive Director of the National Abstinence Education Association, for example, was more than a little pleased: "The core teachings of abstinence education include character building, goal-setting and exploring the emotional risks of casual sex. Abstinence education is the only curriculum that offers such a clear, risk-avoidance approach to sexual health."

But here's the thing: not all abstinence-only programs are created equal. And this program - which showed success in very young students (the average age was 12) delaying sex for up to two years - is nothing like the abstinence-only programs that were widespread under the Bush administration. This program didn't lie, shame, or even tell students to wait until marriage to have sex.

In fact, this program that abstinence proponents are falling all over themselves to tout, wouldn't have been eligible for funding under the Bush administration.


James Wagoner, president of Advocates for Youth, has more:

The abstinence-only program in this study would not have been eligible for federal funding during the Bush years because it did not fit the "8 point definition." The program goal was to help early teens avoid sex until they are ready--a totally different objective than the federally funded abstinence programs already proven ineffective by the long-term Mathematica study "which showed no impact on teen behavior."

In the [researchers'] own words: "It [the abstinence-only intervention] was not designed to meet federal criteria for abstinence-only programs. For instance, the target behavior was abstaining from vaginal, anal, and oral intercourse until a time later in life when the adolescent is more prepared to handle the consequences of sex. The intervention did not contain inaccurate information, portray sex in a negative light, or use a moralistic tone. The training and curriculum manual explicitly instructed the facilitators not to disparage the efficacy of condoms or allow the view that condoms are ineffective to go uncorrected." (Emphasis mine)

In fact, the researchers behind the study, Loretta and John Jemmott, are well-respected advocates of science-based sex education - so it's no surprise that their version of abstinence-only education would be so different from what most ab-only proponents are pushing for.

Even though this program was successful to a degree, however, we still have a moral responsibility to teach young people about contraception. Teenagers deserve the truth about sexual health - and as much information as we can possibly provide.

Related: The Guttmacher Institute has more (pdf) info about this study, and how the program differs from most abstinence-only education, and from Heather Corrina of Scarleteen: What's the Typical Use Effectiveness Rate of Abstinence?

Posted by Jessica - February 03, 2010, at 12:05PM | in Abstinence-Only Education, Education, Politics, Sex

I had stopped watching Family Guy a while ago because it felt like there was some sort of "joke" about rape or violence against women in every episode. But recently I thought I would give the show another shot, because I used to find it hilarious. I really wish I hadn't.

(Some folks may not want to watch the video clip; it's actually pretty upsetting.)

Transcript below the fold.

I just don't get it, truly. How is this funny? Are we supposed to suspend disbelief and forget that this how rape happens quite fucking often because it's a cartoon bull doing the raping?

I've written this before, but I think it bears repeating - there isn't anything edgy about rape jokes. Rape jokes and mocking violence are mainstream; that shit is the norm. And while Family Guy creator Seth Macfarlane has never given a real answer as to why the show has so many rape jokes, I imagine it's because he and the show's other writers somehow think it's controversial. But all they're doing is upholding the status quo. That, and ensuring that I'll never watch another episode of Family Guy again.

Related: What's so funny about rape?

I'm sure you're well aware of the controversy over CBS' decision to run an anti-choice during the Superbowl. After all, blogs are writing about it non-stop and women's organizations from NOW to the Women's Media Center are organizing against it. 

What you may not know, however, is that CBS has been working with Focus on the Family for months on creating the ad.

Dana Goldstein at The Daily Beast has the story:

"There were discussions about the specific wording of the spot," said Gary Schneeberger, spokesperson for Focus on the Family. "And we came to a compromise. To an agreement." Schneeberger declined to comment on exactly how CBS changed the ad's message.

..."We've worked with [CBS] almost since the beginning," Schneeberger added. "Our senior vice presidents talked to CBS executives throughout the process. It was a very cordial, very professional, fruitful relationship."

CBS declined to comment on the details of its work with Focus on the Family on the Tebow ad, but said such cooperation is not unusual. Abortion rights advocates see it differently. If CBS did vet scripts for the ad, the cooperation is "appalling," said Terry O'Neill, president of the National Organization for Women.

So not only is CBS running the ad, they're helping anti-choicers refine their message and vet scripts?!  I wonder how many other of their advertisers get such personal attention.